I love teaching couples this. First with him learning some techniques and then helping her to relax, mentally give in to the new feelings and I love it when I'm able to demontrate on myself then her then turn her over to her man's hand. I get such gratification teaching this activity. I find g spot (squirting) orgasms to be the most deep intense feeling.
Oh I also reccommend a vib called "Slimline G". It has a bulbous head that is angled up. Use the slimline G while laying on your stomach to put pressure from the outside pelvic area too. Wooooo. I think I need to get off the messaage board now for some private time