Not Looking for Politically Correct Answers Gentlemen!

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Black, Brown, Yellow or White if she has a hot body with facial appeal then thats a foot in the door, next come the big three Class (which is character refined), respect( which is definitely a two way street, being a respectful individual in my own right, I expect a reasonable level of mutual respect in return) and professionalism (after all this is a business transaction, if you say its on the menu for the donation paid then you should have no problem providing the service).

When a new target hits the scene, I would think most dawgs on the board are looking for the ice breaker or the dawg that TOFTT review. It is safe to say that most long term hobbiest have been burned with the bait and switch, cash-n-dash, unprofessional provider with the towel on the bed telling you every thing she doesnt do once the cash is in her hand and a attitude to go with it, and I am sure that most hobbiest have experienced this with providers of all racial and ethnic backgrounds. I would much rather be with a beautiful curtious ebony provider than a nasty ghetto ass white chick that wishes she was black, and I think all the dawgs here have experienced the type of white chick I am talking about, and many of these are the ones being pushed by pimps.

Now I do not necesarily think there is anything wrong with a pimp, (manager) to put it on a professional level, as long as the pimp stays away from the scene, and is not trying to rob or shake down the dawgs for their money. Sometimes it takes professional management skills to make a business work, and if the pimp/manager is actually helping the provider with her business approach to the profession then I see no problem with the arrangement.

There is a saying "Class shows especially if someone does not have it." and regaurdless of a providers race you can generally tell by the presentation of their ad and the way they present themselves if they have class. Lets take Garcelle for example, I have seen her twice, and both occasions she was the person she presented in her ads. She was beautiful with a hot body, she was genuinely friendly and receptive, and she was very skilled and aggressive when it came down to the talents she performed, and when it was time to leave, you felt like you were leaving a friend that you wanted to visit again. Regaurdless of her race she was what I would think every dawg would want from an provider experience.

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by VeronicaMoore

Oh seriously?? HAHAHA! Oh come on!

I know Eden, and there's nothing ghetto about her. That's always the first thing people assume though. I think, in the hobby, every "ebony" provider I've ever met, personally, has been faaaaaar less "ghetto" than the "ivory" providers I've met (when they're off the clock haha). Gotta love assumptions.

The misconception is that "ebony" providers get booked less than "ivory" ones based on review count and the amount we get brought up in conversation (or rather DON'T get brought up in conversation, as the case often is) on the boards.

This is not the truth, of course. Many people, even in this community, STILL don't want to admit having been with an "ebony" provider, so they will see them and won't review or discuss them in the forums (yet become regular visitors, so it's not due to bad service), but will for our "ivory" counterparts.

It's pretty hilarious, actually!

VERONICA!!!! Hey babes! I'm glad you responded to this post. I always mention you to my "friends"... I learned everything I know from her!! More than a mentor but a friend back in 2008! I'd love to see you back in New Orleans!

You are so right in what you said. Me personally, I never had a shortage of inquiries but you wouldn't tell by the amount of reviews I have recieved. ECCIE has been good to me though. Most of the gentlemen I have had the pleasure of meeting are more than willing to account for our session.

[RickForFun]

Trust Me.....It all tastes the same.

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by breastfan

I've never been with an ebony provider or with an ebony lady in my private life. Gdiddys' response pretty much sums up my feelings and views.
Yes, there are some extremely attractive ebony providers (Eden you are one of them) that I wouldn't mind spending time with. Would I like to see one? Yes. Will I? Don't know. For me it's all about the comfort level so the experience can truely be enjoyed.
Say, for a first time meeting between a provider and client there isn't that much communication other than screening and some chit chat. So most of the time your're going on a gut feeling that everything will go smooth and some type of chemistry will exist. If I have a somewhat negative feeling about ebony providers to begin with (yes my fault) do I really want too take the chance.
Unfortunately stereotypes are a bitch too strip away especially if someone (myself included) isn't willing to try. In this case I have no doubt it's my loss.

There is always a first for everything.

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by MrGiz

Ebony providers are no different than any Euro-American, Latinas, or Asian women.... if I find them Hott, Sexy, and Appealing.... I Want Sum!!

Daivya is currently, my favorite girl in New Orleans... has been for a while!! Garcelle has been on my wish list for quite a while.... so is Venessa Wilson , Gianna , Jacquie , PleasureMiAmor and Victoria Lane. My Wish List is Color Blind

So many playmates.... so little time

Since I'm not down here much these days.... I guess I didn't even notice Eden Monet is a local girl.... thought you were a traveling girl.... one more on the wish list....

Giz

That's good to know Giz and very well put. As far as me, I am local but travel upon request.

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by Nina Rae

Eden, thanks for asking this question! I hear the same thing pretty often ("I was really nervous about seeing you because I don't normally see AA women"...etc). And yes, most gentlemen are put at ease once they hear my voice over the phone too. It sounds like you and I are very similar in a lot of respects, except I come from an upper middle class neighborhood on the west coast instead of the east, and likely a few years before you.

I can understand why the gents may be put off based on their private life experiences with other AA people they've met (or not met). But at the same time, I do find myself wishing that people would just take a moment to check others out before the snap judgments come into play. I think its fine if a lady has an NBA policy, or if a gent prefers not to see ebony ladies. I have my preferences as well, though they are not based on race. People are entitled to their choices.

I'm glad you gentlemen were able to be up front about your answers and experiences. And Eden, I too would love to meet up one day if we're ever in the same neighborhood!

Definitely Nina! Coming from the same background and experiencing similar situations in the hobby, you would be most likely to understand my curiousity.

I too appreciate all of the answers and comments that I recieved here. I am still waiting for that one courageous man to post and say "Ebonies?? No Thanks!" lol

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by vicinms

Personally, I've never seen an ebony lady, in the hobby or otherwise. I've been tempted to and have seen many that I considered attractive but the two appts I tried to make (a solo from NOLA & a double with a white provider) were both cancelled on their end. I think it's mostly just because blondes are my favorite so my radar hits there first. However, it's one of the few itches I haven't scratched yet, so maybe soon....

Read my reviews and keep me in mind once you decide to make that leap ;-) you won't be disappointed!

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by RickForFun

Trust Me.....It all tastes the same.

lol

[DallasRain]

it all tastes yummmmmmmmmmmmmmy!!!!!

[ashwednesday666]

As long as they show up....... im just a phone call away

[Nicolet]

Ring a ding-ding Ash!

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by ashwednesday666

As long as they show up....... im just a phone call away

OUCH! lol

[ashwednesday666]

Eden call she had an emergency

[Jacquie]

I'll meet with AA men so long as they're not thugs. The few I've met with I couldn't have told you their skin color until they walked through the door.
But, I have a conditional idea on meeting men based on their phone voice anyway. If I don't like it, no matter what color skin, I won't meet with them.

[petiteassman]

i think its because on average guys have had more bad experiences with black in general than with whites whether its in school , work or the hobby. it gets back to nature vs nurture thing. its not that blacks are inherently worse or lesser but as in this country a predominant amt of aa are raised in the ghettos where crime and drugs prevail those people tend to find more problems and that is our perception of them. if well to do aa raised in the suburbs experienced hispanics only from the barrio their perception tends to be of that setting right or wrong. often these feelings are carried over so even those from a race that are educated and raised in more sterile environments are seen like their counterparts from the other side of the tracks. this is where the prejudice [to pre judge comes into play]. also in the hobby as many blacks before the age of the internet did not have the modes of transportation as their white counterparts often black providers were street walkers in bad neighborhoods while whites were call girls from an agency advertizing out of alternative magazines. with this disparity its not unusual that our experiences and hence our preferences were swayed in a certain direction even if it rode against our personal preferences [ie many men are attracted to aa women but were afraid of the setting or risks real or not]. i may be way off base but those are some of my thoughts. given the setting your advertizing in , reviews, and pictures i would be most happy to have sex with you and most willing to pay for the pleasure. for ebony women i knew less about , right or wrong , i might be apprehensive, if that bad i apologize but its my honest opinion

Originally Posted by Eden_Monet

I asked this same question about a month ago on another board and recieved some honest answers:

I am an ebony companion that takes pride in the service I provide and enjoy the friends that I make along the way. Most guys that I meet have some "horror stories" about seeing ebony providers.

80% of the men I see usually make a comment along these lines:

"I normally don't call ebony women but I made an exception for you." -- At times it's flattering but I really do want to know what's behind this comment.

Honest answers only please! I am very receptive of a persons right to their own opinion so PLEASE be candid.

Are there any hobbyists out there that are attracted to ebony women but are skeptical about seeing an ebony providers or just choose not to? And why.

Thanks a bunch!