Screening~Why are some of us screening nazis?

[RALPHEY BOY]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

And how many of those hottest, youngest, freshest providers end up being raped, beaten, pimped, robbed and gone because they didn't screen? The girls that disappear like a fart in the wind after only a few months here? Do you really expect us to believe that the majority of them found a sugar daddy and were taken off the market? Yeah, right. I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of the naive young providers have something bad happen to them, and because no one really cares when a whore is assaulted/raped/robbed, they simply fall by the wayside.

that and the loser Predators who take advantage of young naive women... yeah it takes a real man to con a young broke girl who perhaps had a terrible family life...

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

And how many of those hottest, youngest, freshest providers end up being raped, beaten, pimped, robbed and gone because they didn't screen? The girls that disappear like a fart in the wind after only a few months here? Do you really expect us to believe that the majority of them found a sugar daddy and were taken off the market? Yeah, right. I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of the naive young providers have something bad happen to them, and because no one really cares when a whore is assaulted/raped/robbed, they simply fall by the wayside.

Who said anything about Sugar Daddy's?

Actually I think MOST women come to this, make their money and leave and do not let this become their life and livelihood.

I am sure people care.

What do you think they have to do or should do to show it?

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by Whispers

Who said anything about Sugar Daddy's?

Actually I think MOST women come to this, make their money and leave and do not let this become their life and livelihood.

I am sure people care.

What do you think they have to do or should do to show it?

So you're implying that there is something wrong with the women who stay? That we should all be waiting to be rescued? Or that we're not smart enough to make our money and leave? Or that if we stay, we're sluts? Tell us how you really feel, Whispy ;-P

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http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=990030

This Screening Thread Was Inspired by This Guy Post # 2

It baffles me that some guys request a lady, then do not understand why they get turned down.

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[irishlad]

It's all because it's illegal. Female interior decorators or real estate agents meet up with clients 1:1 on all the time and don't worry about being raped or murdered more than anyone else does and you don't see a lot of human trafficking in hairdressers. I show I care by non-anonymously advocating legalization whenever it might matter.

@Tiffani, I suggested a PAID meet and greet. You think that sitting with some guy in a bar or coffee shop is risky? really? Beside the point anyway. MY point was just that anonymity is valuable to clients and that's not going to change. I suspect most require it and if you want to reject most potential clients for that reason that's fine, but you are. Anyway it was just an idea, figuring out how to mitigate risk without requiring someone to compromise anonymity isn't going to make me any money, but it will sure benefit the lady or ladies who do so I'll leave the creative solution finding to those of you who see the opportunity.

BTW non-felons, a CHL and some training is probably a great idea (I'm sure many of you quietly do). Heck you don't even need a CHL to legally arm yourself in your home or a hotel room you've rented, but without training and practice you're better off not trying. I'm not a lawyer, so I don't know if gun+crime of prostitution is a serious concern that might make this a bad idea, but I do believe everyone should be empowered to protect themselves against rapists and murderers so I'm all for babes with (hidden) glocks.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

So you're implying that there is something wrong with the women who stay? That we should all be waiting to be rescued? Or that we're not smart enough to make our money and leave? Or that if we stay, we're sluts? Tell us how you really feel, Whispy ;-P

I don't recall you ever sucking my dick Claire... something that readily identified those that called me "Whispy".

Honestly. You seem to be spoiling for a fight. Whatever this is about you ought to look for your satisfaction with the guy you have an issue with.

A comment about those that get in, make their money and get out is not an indictment against those that are in it for a long haul. It is a comment expressing my opinion of where the majority of those that come end up. It's simply not a lifestyle choice for many and some are gone after their first trick or two.

and I highly doubt many guys are rescuing the hookers that are hanging out here so why would I be suggesting that?

[JustAGuest]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

that and the loser Predators who take advantage of young naive women... yeah it takes a real man to con a young broke girl who perhaps had a terrible family life...

Ralphy, are you suggesting there be rules of engagement, kinda like putting all the hoogars in a union? Most of us practice courtesy, manners & hold ourselves to certain morals. There will always be a few (on both sides) who take advantage...its human nature.

What I see from the "young, naïve women" are $300 price points. They seem to be playing the market rather smartly. Remember, doing this hobby is a choice...there are always real world jobs to be had.

I'm not condoning treating girls bad, and never have...just saying its a high risk endeavor for both parties. Anonymity is best for both, but for the guy its often critical. Hes tapping this for fun or release & few of us do this that often. Shes grinding every day & is subject to substantial risks-that's HERE choice....as it should be.

To Claire, I agree with minimal screening. In fact, know a couple of girls rather closely that I lecture on their needing to be more careful in their screening (to little avail). My thoughts though are that you just want to keep the price point high for the long term providers...which is just good business on your end. No interest in being a pimp, huh? Wondering if your posturing is an image campaign to show how you put the girls safety-interest above that of the common monger...

Toyz

[JustAGuest]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

And how many of those hottest, youngest, freshest providers end up being raped, beaten, pimped, robbed and gone because they didn't screen? The girls that disappear like a fart in the wind after only a few months here? Do you really expect us to believe that the majority of them found a sugar daddy and were taken off the market? Yeah, right. I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of the naive young providers have something bad happen to them, and because no one really cares when a whore is assaulted/raped/robbed, they simply fall by the wayside.

Air math? You are taking mere conjecture & stating it as fact.

It can be a degrading business. I'm willing to bet that the vast majority of girls try it for size, make some nice money, realize they don't want to see 30 new dicks a week & move on cause its not for them. It must take a certain personality to fake intimacy multiple times a day, with most likely guys much older than them.

I seriously doubt there are that many assaults or violations...particularly of the girls that frequent this medium. most guys who just had an orgasm are just smiling, not angry... Just sayin'.

[RALPHEY BOY]

Originally Posted by JustAGuest

Ralphy, are you suggesting there be rules of engagement, kinda like putting all the hoogars in a union? Most of us practice courtesy, manners & hold ourselves to certain morals. There will always be a few (on both sides) who take advantage...its human nature.

Toyz

not saying that at all, I am saying one of the reasons a girl might make a quick exit is that she was preyed upon by a seasoned Predator who targets young naive girls who confuse this guy being 'nice' but instead he is laying the ground work to work her over..gain her trust then perhaps rape her, turn her out, and threaten her with violence or tell all her friends.. and the family who do care...

this biz is EXTREMELY ugly, we see it every,, and that just the tip of the iceberg I am sure

[saustin]

Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

I just returned home with a really strong flesh light.

One of these?

[JustAGuest]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

not saying that at all, I am saying one of the reasons a girl might make a quick exit is that she was preyed upon by a seasoned Predator who targets young naive girls who confuse this guy being 'nice' but instead he is laying the ground work to work her over..gain her trust then perhaps rape her, turn her out, and threaten her with violence or tell all her friends.. and the family who do care...

this biz is EXTREMELY ugly, we see it every,, and that just the tip of the iceberg I am sure

Methinks the bigger(est) threat are the pimps that troll the new girls & get them hooked in the business, then control them by various means after they've had a bit of money...

[junkweed]

Originally Posted by saustin

One of these?

nope, one of these.

[junkweed]

Originally Posted by irishlad

It's all because it's illegal. Female interior decorators or real estate agents meet up with clients 1:1 on all the time and don't worry about being raped or murdered more than anyone else does...

I have numerous family members in real estate and they definitely worry about being mugged, murdered, or raped when meeting new clients, especially those from less affluent areas or with properties in industrial areas. They all carry concealed firearms as well.

People screen for danger ALL THE TIME, it's hardwired into our brains. You may not be aware it's happening because it is automatic and it's keeping you alive. It's the whole "trust your gut" thing. You can tell a lot about a person through their communication style. You may not be able to catch all the bad guys/girls but your "gut" will catch a lot of them right away and for the rest there's more formalized screening. People need to take precautions in order to feel comfortable doing their jobs. Whether you are a cop, in construction, a judge, or a hooker there are some things you CAN do to minimize risk and you should do them. You can't avoid all the risk, but you can minimize the amount of risk you take and then play the odds.

[TehRyc]

I'm going to be real for a second. This thread has been composed of some real good points, some real ignorant ones, some baseless accusations, and some out right BS.

Point Blank: If we are playing a probability game here, even if the screening only deters the LAZIEST of creepers thats one less creeper than someone who doesn't do that screening has a probability of seeing.

Thats just a fact: Screening "lowers" the probability. It does not COMPLETELY NEGATE it.

Does this mean someone with a screening process with NEVER see a creeper? No

Does this mean someone who doesn't screen will ALWAYS get raped or hurt at least once? No

EVEN IF there was some cereal creeper who found sport in trying to get past screening methods to prey on woman that would be a bigger "challenge" for him, it wouldn't out weigh the likely hood that others (in greater numbers) are still more likely to take the path of least resistance.

But, lets not delude ourselves into thinking that these screening processes are for "finding chemistry" or making sure that you are "compatible"

On another note... It is well within reason to be off put by a guy who doesn't want to put himself and his information out there as it is to be off put by a provider who doesn't want to put herself out there and asks for an assortment of information that could hurt the customer.

To be MAD that the other person's/provider's screening/anonymity directly interferes with your own rules of safety in this hobby is laughable. Just respect the other's rules as you expect yours to be respected. If their process puts a bad taste in your mouth, then kick rocks and move on.

[Claire She Blows]

Note to self: don't antagonize the Master Antagonizer.