The GFE MYTH

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by ICU 812

... I once paid a $200 door-fee for an agency girl and another 2 bills for the escort in of all places, Missoula Montana. After che counted the money, she informd me that just about everything was off limites except bbbj without finish and cfs. No oral contact on my part and no real touching blah blah vlah . . . .

This is NOT GFE....

Not GFE? It was barely an "E".

Sorry this happened to you. But like I've always said, the money we lose like this in "education" probably saves us ten times that amount in our future dealings.

[flyinghillbilly]

Some of the young lady's i see work other jobs or are in school don't have time or want a social life.So if you act like a gentleman and are respectful THEY do like kissing you and have oral sex done to them as well as returning the favor for getting them off.Its a win win for everyone.The guy is smiling feels like a young stud, the girl gets her release money in the bank and saves wear and tear on her toys and battery's

[Guest032414-2]

Originally Posted by Macie Madrid

Since, gfe is not a lie..see if she will do you for free. I bet ya she won't. It's a lie babe!

I guarantee she won't, but that doesn't make it a lie. It means the lady must have a facade and be what the guy wants, but it's only a lie when he chooses to believe it.

[guest043013-2]

Call it GFE. Call it the "Illusion of Passion." Call it what you will.

I can get a blow up doll pretty cheap in comparison to what I have paid in this hobby. (Biggest expense after initial purchase is going to be storage fees. Not sure about the cleaning of one of those things though.)

I am looking for a connection, something more than a wham-bam-thank- you-maam. If you as a lady do not want to provide that, I will look elsewhere. When I trolled the pages of the Dallas Observer & Fort Worth Weekly, I got those types of ladies. I visit ECCIE to locate ladies who provide me with much more.

Sounds like a lot of ladies in this thread have achieved burn-out. Good to know, I promise I will not visit you.

Most of the ladies I have seen on ECCIE really seem to try hard to show me a good time. Perhaps they just want a good review, but they leave me believing they enjoyed my company. Sure, they needed and took my money. But a lot of the ladies I have seen are picky, they don't just fuck any dick that points their way.

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by tigercat

Call it GFE. Call it the "Illusion of Passion." Call it what you will.

I can get a blow up doll pretty cheap in comparison to what I have paid in this hobby. (Biggest expense after initial purchase is going to be storage fees. Not sure about the cleaning of one of those things though.)

I am looking for a connection, something more than a wham-bam-thank- you-maam. If you as a lady do not want to provide that, I will look elsewhere. When I trolled the pages of the Dallas Observer & Fort Worth Weekly, I got those types of ladies. I visit ECCIE to locate ladies who provide me with much more.

Sounds like a lot of ladies in this thread have achieved burn-out. Good to know, I promise I will not visit you.

Most of the ladies I have seen on ECCIE really seem to try hard to show me a good time. Perhaps they just want a good review, but they leave me believing they enjoyed my company. Sure, they needed and took my money. But a lot of the ladies I have seen are picky, they don't just fuck any dick that points their way.

You keep thinking your special.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by burkalini

You keep thinking your special.

Special like me? Or special like one of "Jerry's Kids?"

[Macie Madrid]

Originally Posted by Diomidis

I guarantee she won't, but that doesn't make it a lie. It means the lady must have a facade and be what the guy wants, but it's only a lie when he chooses to believe it.

Diomidis it doesn't cost a thing to be nice and I actually enjoy the company of my clients. So, I'm not saying everything is a lie I like to make a friendship rather than a boyfriend and providing gfe can make this line very thin.
Some of the hobbyist don't respect this line, they make comments under non bbbj providers reviews like if she has committed a crime by not providing kissing and bbbj. It's her choice, some these activities may be a bit too personal for her. Therefore a hobbyist has crossed the line of a great fucking experience to GFE. Just my opinion.

[Jackie S]

You keep thinking that you are special. If that is all part of your fantacy, then more power to you. Afterall, you're the one paying for the pleasure.

But please do not cross over into that "I'm special" and think it is reality. Every Lady here on ECCIE has one thing in common with all of the other Ladies on ECCIE. They are all Hookers. They do this for a living. If you can't grasp that, you are in for a rude awakening in the future.

[Laz]

We all do things to make a living and most of us probably deal with clients. Sometimes those clients also become friends and the rest you are friendly with to maintain your business relationship. You still charge for your services but consider the client a friend. I suspect providers are no different.

[CummingsLane]

Like we are in High school on my parents couch neck to neck before my mother gets home. I love the rush of a body to mental connection. The kissing, touching and conversations to me is the icing on the cake. Plus I prefer all my interludes in the nude... Its just more fun that way

Originally Posted by ICU 812

Dum-ass that I am; I once paid a $200 door-fee for an agency girl and another 2 bills for the escort in of all places, Missoula Montana. After che counted the money, she informd me that just about everything was off limites except bbbj without finish and cfs. No oral contact on my part and no real touching blah blah vlah . . . .

This is NOT GFE. For me "gfe" must include what we used to call making-out and going -ll-the-way (OK . . .I'm in my sixties). In a PFP session, I have no illusions that this is anything more than business . . .but its gotta be more than a stroke-n-poke-cash-n-dash.

[CummingsLane]

Its all about the experience given and I rather give a good than bad one anytime.

Originally Posted by alluringava

My impression was that GFE was simply a fantasy...that's why it is called the Girlfriend EXPERIENCE, not the actual 'girlfriend' you'd have in every day life. The experience itself is that there's no strings attached, there's no hassle or fuss or a girl calling you with her problems, etc etc etc, and she's there for your pleasure for that one or two hours or overnighter without any of the hassles of committment. That being said I can appreciate and understand what is being said, but I also feel it's a bit jaded to state that it's all a myth. Unless of course you include fantasy as myth.

That being said you can't help how some clients and escorts are going to react according to their emotions. I suppose given a choice between a GFE escort/call girl and a streetwalker experience that lasts ten minutes, a guy could still fall for the streetwalker. But most men want more than just the obvious sex...of course that's the bottom line. With GFE it's conversation and all that more. When it becomes an issue is when someone ( either escort or client) wants to cross the line and wants to be a real boyfriend/girlfriend or one falls for the other and the feeling isn't mutual. But this is just all IMHO and based on my experiences. I know for a fact I'd rather be known as a GFE escort than a blow and go street ho.

[CummingsLane]

Sex with yourself can be fun if someone is watching ... Just saying

Originally Posted by coolbreeze0003

GFE works great for me; in fact I don't want anything else.

Of course it's fantasy. So what? It only means I'm in love with hundreds of women for an hour at a time instead of one for weeks/months/years.

I'm always in love with the one (or 2, or 3 ) I'm with. Then I can't wait to be in love with another!

Come on, guys;... just the sex? I can have sex all by myself.

[CummingsLane]

Thanks

Originally Posted by babee

Speak On!

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Special like me? Or special like one of "Jerry's Kids?"

Come on Still is there a difference?

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by burkalini

Come on Still is there a difference?

Not really, just wanted clarification! LOL