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Guest060919 · 10-10-2011, 01:35 PM

I always lay it all out there. I've never worried about the backlash on my kinks listed in my reviews. Now I did once have a well known provider not want to see me based on my very kinky, albiet as safe as everything else, activities. That really sucked but no big deal.

I feel like being as honest as possible sets up the next encounter for the better. If a provider takes a look at my reviews, even the stuff everybody can see, they will get a good idea that I"m one kinky bastard.

txjr3 · 10-10-2011, 01:49 PM

100% real. Now that's not to say I review every session......

charlestudor2005 · 10-10-2011, 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

mmmm yall guys are making me so HORNY!!!
{badhusband--it is a deal...lol!}

I think alot of guys are scared to tell the whole truth for various reasons.....but no matter what I guess if a lady markets herself in the "right" manner,there will be "no question" what she is all about!

Most all ladies do research also. Maybe it's all about the guys being afraid a that a future date request will be denied if it's apparent in the reviews that he likes certain "kinky" activities that not all ladies offer.

No one wants to pre-empt themselves from seeing a lady they would really like to see.

Guest030824 · 10-10-2011, 03:45 PM

With me there is fear that the provider will go to fast or not stop at the first sign of pain. I have kinky things I would like to try and I have become confident that Dallas would be observant enough to not cause pain. Dallas will not look at me as though I was a nut if I suggested some thing. I have been with her several times and we are going a little further each time. The other ladies I am with may be the same but Dallas as far as I can tell will be the one for me.

DallasRain · 10-10-2011, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Most all ladies do research also. Maybe it's all about the guys being afraid a that a future date request will be denied if it's apparent in the reviews that he likes certain "kinky" activities that not all ladies offer.

No one wants to pre-empt themselves from seeing a lady they would really like to see.

good point baby!! and so true too!!

[Tucson I love ya!}

Anita Lay · 10-10-2011, 09:15 PM

hmmmmm close minded, judgemental, non kinky ppl need a good spanking...
Dallas, will you hold him down ?

Guest011914-1 · 10-10-2011, 10:33 PM

some even put things in that are totally off track and mean and hurtful

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Originally Posted by PAPA JOE

exactly !!!
on the Castle , prime ladies and gents have access to the full review, and both may comment on them.

i know i'm guilty of leaving most of the events out, but i'll do better !

Bancroft1957 · 10-10-2011, 10:54 PM

I don't leave anything out, but in most cases, I don't post reviews. Some times it's the lady I might be seeing.

Instead of plowing thru endless reviews, it would be easier, if we just posted, "yes I do wear womens panties, and enjoy receiving anal sex"

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

I have been contemplating this issue for awhile now...

When you write a review,how honest are you? Do you honestly actually list fetish activities you have participated in or do you hide them out of fear of being ridiculed??
99% of the sessions I do will include strap on play/prostate massages/men wearing ladies undergarments/etc.......but VERY few or almost none will list these type activities in the review.

I think it would be cool to let clients know what "really" happened,so they can see what a provider is "really" all about!

YOUR OPINION PLEASE

Anita Lay · 10-10-2011, 11:06 PM

vixen, you are soooo right about your comment...

jeff996 · 10-18-2011, 09:34 PM

Well darlin' you'll find out when I finally get around to writing my review of our fun time together.....

Hmmmm...should I really be honest about all the toys you fucked me with??? Actually I think I lost count....

..or our snowball adventure, or my cum that I licked off your sweet tits......

oops..........I guess I spilled the .....errrr.....beans a bit......

oh well.....

....luv ya babe!!!

Mojojo · 10-18-2011, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by jeff996

Well darlin' you'll find out when I finally get around to writing my review of our fun time together.....

Hmmmm...should I really be honest about all the toys you fucked me with??? Actually I think I lost count....

..or our snowball adventure, or my cum that I licked off your sweet tits......

oops..........I guess I spilled the .....errrr.....beans a bit......

oh well.....

....luv ya babe!!!

Lol props to you for the honesty dude

jeff996 · 10-19-2011, 09:02 PM

Seriously I strongly believe it shoud all be honest, but if you wannt to leave out some details for whatever reason OK, as long as it doesn't mislead.

sensualsanaa · 10-19-2011, 09:30 PM

I personally think it would be QUITE beneficial if providers had full access to the reviews.... just my honest opinion. How can we know if the guys are honest if we cant see the ROS??

Guest030824 · 10-19-2011, 09:33 PM

Does any one ever talk the proposed review over with the provider before writing it?Perhaps I should ask do you think any one does. I have enquired about how she wants the $$$ to be listed as some would want it left vague or just say special.I feel it is my business if I want to tip and how much. One lil lady would give a special and ask if I would show her advertised rate.

Mojojo · 10-20-2011, 06:56 AM

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Originally Posted by thirtyfour

I always lay it all out there. I've never worried about the backlash on my kinks listed in my reviews. Now I did once have a well known provider not want to see me based on my very kinky, albiet as safe as everything else, activities. That really sucked but no big deal.

I feel like being as honest as possible sets up the next encounter for the better. If a provider takes a look at my reviews, even the stuff everybody can see, they will get a good idea that I"m one kinky bastard.

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Originally Posted by jeff996

Seriously I strongly believe it shoud all be honest, but if you wannt to leave out some details for whatever reason OK, as long as it doesn't mislead.

I tend to agree with you guys, even if some of the stuff that happens isnt my cup of tea its usually good read. I respect everyone and encourage them to enjoy themselves, we are all here to fulfill our desires even if what others dont like isn't my cup of tea.

I think the larger issue comes from people not wanting to read negative remarks but my theory is as long as you had a good time who cares?

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Originally Posted by tucson

Does any one ever talk the proposed review over with the provider before writing it?Perhaps I should ask do you think any one does. I have enquired about how she wants the $$$ to be listed as some would want it left vague or just say special.I feel it is my business if I want to tip and how much. One lil lady would give a special and ask if I would show her advertised rate.

I will after i'm done writing/posting it though but only by request. How else would you keep it honest? If she cant appreciate honesty then they don't appreciate business.

Victoria Jolie is a one of many great examples of people who appreciate honesty! I gave her a Yes recommendation and she still contacted me asking if there was anything she could have done better or what I did or did not like. The girl gets utmost props from me for having a great attitude, I will most def be seeing her again!