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Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote
No one has to see anyone they do not want to see, and that works both ways. No need for name calling, but as has been well established, to call this an "adult" board is a loose interpretation at best.
The same can be said of some of the providers. Some have real issues with men and it shows in the way they talk to others in general, their BCD performance and especially men they have not even met in person.
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There is a BIG difference between the clients and the providers; in regards to their behavior:
If a provider is not enthusiastic BCD and speaks rudely to hobbyists, it greatly affects her
JOB. Her
ability to make $$$$, bad reviews being posted and
her reputation among the clients is trashed. If a lady can't be respectful in her posts on the board or BCD, she doesn't usually last long on here or P411. She's more the listcrawler, or EroticBabylon or some other lower tier escort site. Lots of new ones have popped up to take the place of Backpage.
Anyone can have a bad day, maybe forget an appointment or oversleep once, whatever. She may get called out for it in CoEd, but if it's just ONE bad review or just ONE negative thread about her in CoEd, it's usually survivable. Especially if she has good regulars, who might speak up for her, and she herself should choose to make ONE simple post explaining what happened, and publicly apologize and of course make it up to the client.
Especially if it's a mature, (not necessarily in age, in behavior), provider who generally gets good reviews and has a good rep on the board.
If a client chooses to see a brand new girl off the welcome wagon train, because she's a hot 21 year old, he deserves what he gets. It's always a toss up on new girls and on the young ones. Mature behavior and truly loving BCD sessions is a must for a good provider. I just know in my case, it was fun and all, but I really didn't know how to truly please a man, treat him like he's special, (because they ARE); and I didn't know what I really liked so I couldn't communicate that to my partners; so as a result I never really, truly loved being intimate. But somewhere is my mid 30's, and especially when I turned 40, it became all I could think about! I wanted it sooo bad and I learned what I liked and I learned what made most men breathless and call out to God! And listening to them to find out what they really wanted. I loved it. Since I wasn't the kind to go to bars and pick up strangers, (not too much anyway!); when I discovered escorting it was just so freakin' perfect. Ladies that don't enjoy it and don't like intimacy with men, (and women), shouldn't be here and thankfully don't last long. I wouldn't go back to age 21 even if I could. It's so much more fun now. I do believe there are young women learned all this much faster than I did though.
To get off topic for a min, OP is on vacation after all), there's a group of men who pretty much do this all the time and so they have hundreds of reviews and think they're presidents of Eccie or something, or think they should be treated like a romantic hero in classic fiction novels. SMH.
But one of them drunkenly texted me in the middle of the night once and told me to quit talking about them, because they're smart. Said a real man gets all the pussy he wants for free. So I've learned since that they record their sessions with the new girls and pass them around to other members of the boy's club. From all over DFW, Garland, Dallas, wherever. Even good ol' TX boys. They tell these poor young things that it's standard procedure to give free sessions to "respected" reviewers, like them. More like pathetic little boy reviewers. They tell the girls for a freebie, that includes
everything, they will write way over the top reviews for her to help get her verified.
And you can't even trust the reviews from these constant reviewers, because they owe an overly fantastic review to the girl; and they're addicted to the "atta boy comments from other guys and pats on the back, and the illusion of wealth; IOW; because they hobby so often. Sad and pathetic, right?
Anyway;
it affects a provider's bottom line if she can't post wisely in the forums and just enjoy her clients and her sessions like most of us do, rather than give off the vibe that she "hates men". No one can do that and have a regular and consistent, and profitable business.
HOWEVER, a client can still get some providers to see him even after calling a lovely provider like Carmella; stupid; and the C word, (Sorry OP was so rude to you, Carmella, just consider the source.) An ignorant dillweed asshat douchebag. Be very glad you were booked that day!! And you wouldn't have time to screen that prick!
Carmella, please post what you did here about the OP in our infoshare. I've rarely seen anyone on short notice and certainly not a newbie, mainly regulars. I always made it clear on my BIO page that I don't log in everyday, and it may be 1-3 days before I get to my PM's. It can take a while to screen, so pre booking a few days or even a week or two, in advance is best for low volume providers who don't want to work every day.
And Analeese, you are so right. I don't know why such asshats become members here. This dude obviously has issues with women and just wants to abuse them.
I think he needs to see a strict dominatrix first. And an idiot like the OP, with obvious anger management issues as well, is the type that could
possibly become dangerous BCD.
But a male member can act like this, and yet he will find providers who
will eventually book his nasty ass. Some ladies don't know how to screen, or don't screen well or at all. A part of screening well is always a check of a guys' posting history. Any provider who searches his history will find this thread.
And good providers also search the ladies areas, to see if he has been mentioned by other providers. Not every one does, but they definitely should! Ladies make threads and post about bad clients, rude and disrespectful ones, hagglers, NCNS, guys with douchy ignorant posts, just ALL kinds of guys who make our DNS lists.
Sorry for all the long wind in this post, but some things just really need to be said. And I have strong and deep feelings about client/provider relations, and how it SHOULD be.
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