Provider Racism

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by txboi817

It gave me so much pleasure knowing I was seeing ladies UTR he (lickerlicense) thought were NBA.

Broke through more than I may let on here, but definitely not widespread enough.

Originally Posted by goodolboy

LOL, I would wager attitude and history go a long ways toward getting around a NBA policy.

Sure it does.

The ladies see me as a gentleman...as much as it may pain you to know this.

"Oh, you're nothing [in person] like you appear on the boards."

If I had a nickel for every time I heard this, I'd...have...a few nickels.

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by darkwader

weird how professional victims never respond to posts pointing out their own blatant racism.

Your post deserves not an ounce of dignity.

[friendly fred]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

it really is. from Kindergarden, Boys are socialized away from their natural behaviors, it's almost impossible to find a Male Elementary Teacher today. any system where one group out of two possible choices is locked up at the rate Men are, is inherently flawed and biased. nobody talks about that, but Racial differences extend to 7-8 pages on ECCIE

Thank you kind sir.

[darkwader]

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Your post deserves not an ounce of dignity.

your disgraceful rant deserves all the scorn it gets.

[Plains45]

It definitely has little to do with physical attraction. Not all women like overweight, middle aged white guys....but I've NEVER seen an ad that leaves them out.

It's also not exactly pure racism because again, you'd see more (ahem) "diversity" in the racism. I've known plenty of sistas that would barely want to shake a white dudes hand, let alone let him smash.

It's all about numbers. White guys are the majority in the west and women can't afford to turn them down. Too much money to be left on the table. The east and south Asian population in DFW is growing, but many women around here haven't developed much of a love or prejudice against them. Haven't seen any "no Indians" in Dallas though it seems more common in other places.

As for NBA policies, generally speaking I think it signals that the lady is poor at screening, may have a black pimp or dates blacks in her personal life and wants to avoid any known associates outside the hobby. I'd say it's mostly screening issues.

Black women that say NBA...some of the same reasons apply. They also might be from an environment where the only dudes they know are shady as fuck. It's always weird when some chick from the 'jects says "no brothas" even though every dude she's ever fucked for free is a brotha.

Lots of theories out there but ultimately as I said before, it's just about numbers. If a provider got robbed and abused by 10 white guys in a row...she'd change up her screening and security but would STILL see white guys. White men aren't treated as a collective but rather as individuals. I think that's the point.

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Your post deserves not an ounce of dignity.

RC, you are as racist as anyone that admits they are racist and even more so. Most people today do not give a shit about the color of anyone's skin to determine class or how they are treated. You are are on EVERY thread about racism, providers having NBA policies, ect. No one should have rights or pride more than anyone else, please get over yourself in that thinking.

Please stop with your constant posting leading with your race card analogy, it is very old. It is time to throw that beat up thing in the trash and move on to something else, especially on a SHMB.

[fozziewockabear]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

RC, you are as racist as anyone that admits they are racist and even more so. Most people today do not give a shit about the color of anyone's skin to determine class or how they are treated. You are are on EVERY thread about racism, providers having NBA policies, ect. No one should have rights or pride more than anyone else, please get over yourself in that thinking.

Please stop with your constant posting leading with your race card analogy, it is very old. It is time to throw that beat up thing in the trash and move on to something else, especially on a SHMB.

I agree with Wile E Coyote...

Remember the old saying we need to learn from history to not repeat it. But some groups just like to bring up the past over and over again to feel like the victims. In order to progress we most learn from our mistakes as a society (hence the learn I did not say play victims)

Also seems like a big part of you issue is they (some providers) won’t see you due to their choice of NBA that’s their choice bro. Ex. It’s like if was vegan and someone wanted me to eat meat when clearly I stated I was vegan to them. (I’m not a vegan it’s an example.)

I love all types of woman if I could have a lady for each day of the week I would go down the rainbow of color skins like skittles. But just like them I have preferences and I know what I’m attracted too but you seem to be stock on the fact that some are NBA if they are so what?

Remember you are the one with the money if it’s no good with one lady there is plenty to pick from on here or other sites. Remember your money is good here or in China

Also if you want change this is really not the site to come an be an activist for whatever cause or political view you or any other person has.

I would say 90% or more are here to get laid or get paid that simple.

Have a Good Friday everyone!

And RC maybe try meditation or yoga to alleviate some of the anger you have it comes across on your post.

[VeryClean]

These racism threads have become so tedious and boring. There's only so many times you can beat a dead horse again & again & again. Next time a racism thread is started, we should direct the OP to the search engine so he/she can find the hundreds of other identical racism threads on ECCIE.

The same argument, the same explanations..again & again. SMDH.

[fozziewockabear]

Originally Posted by VeryClean

These racism threads have become so tedious and boring. There's only so many times you can beat a dead horse again & again & again. Next time a racism thread is started, we should direct the OP to the search engine so he/she can find the hundreds of other identical racism threads on ECCIE.

The same argument, the same explanations..again & again. SMDH.

I agree VeryClean I think in the past month I seen 2 with only small variations like an email and then this one about NBA...

No lie when I saw NBA on a provider just about 3 weeks ago is when I 1st saw it I was like “Never Broke Again Policy?” 🤔🥴 dang this gal took YoungBoy Never Broke Again too heart lol. But I guess I was wrong and it’s a new way of saying no AA.

[VeryClean]

Originally Posted by fozziewockabear

I agree VeryClean I think in the past month I seen 2 with only small variations like an email and then this one about NBA...

No lie when I saw NBA on a provider just about 3 weeks ago is when I 1st saw it I was like “Never Broke Again Policy?” 🤔🥴 dang this gal took YoungBoy Never Broke Again too heart lol. But I guess I was wrong and it’s a new way of saying no AA.

"Never Broke Again" Policy LOL!

Yeah but you're right, NBA is just another way of saying no AA as in "no blacks allowed". What's funny is when some providers who don't want to see black men will write "no NBA". WTH does that even mean?!!! LMAO! Are you going to see black men or not because your ad is now officially confusing.

[Randall Creed]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

RC, you are as racist as anyone that admits they are racist and even more so. Most people today do not give a shit about the color of anyone's skin to determine class or how they are treated. You are are on EVERY thread about racism, providers having NBA policies, ect. No one should have rights or pride more than anyone else, please get over yourself in that thinking.

Please stop with your constant posting leading with your race card analogy, it is very old. It is time to throw that beat up thing in the trash and move on to something else, especially on a SHMB.

Hmmm. I see all races of ladies, and I'm racist.

But there are ladies who won't see all races of men, but AREN'T racist.

Got it.

Responding/reacting to racism IS NOT racism, genius.
Creating an atmosphere where race is a factor/separator/point of issue IS racism.

I just made you smarter. You're welcome.

[goodolboy]

Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Hmmm. I see all races of ladies, and I'm racist.

But there are ladies who won't see all races of men, but AREN'T racist.

Got it.

And then there are scores of lady's of different races that won't see black men under 30 who are kinda racist.

[fozziewockabear]

I hope this thread is closed it going in circles as a specific individual(s) wants to push an agenda that is not relevant on here as it’s the ladies choice as to who and where and how much they charge for who they elect to see.

This is not a socialist or communist country to force someone into doing X action...

[Whisky_1]

Originally Posted by Plains45

It definitely has little to do with physical attraction. Not all women like overweight, middle aged white guys....but I've NEVER seen an ad that leaves them out.

It's also not exactly pure racism because again, you'd see more (ahem) "diversity" in the racism. I've known plenty of sistas that would barely want to shake a white dudes hand, let alone let him smash.

It's all about numbers. White guys are the majority in the west and women can't afford to turn them down. Too much money to be left on the table. The east and south Asian population in DFW is growing, but many women around here haven't developed much of a love or prejudice against them. Haven't seen any "no Indians" in Dallas though it seems more common in other places.

As for NBA policies, generally speaking I think it signals that the lady is poor at screening, may have a black pimp or dates blacks in her personal life and wants to avoid any known associates outside the hobby. I'd say it's mostly screening issues.

Black women that say NBA...some of the same reasons apply. They also might be from an environment where the only dudes they know are shady as fuck. It's always weird when some chick from the 'jects says "no brothas" even though every dude she's ever fucked for free is a brotha.

Lots of theories out there but ultimately as I said before, it's just about numbers. If a provider got robbed and abused by 10 white guys in a row...she'd change up her screening and security but would STILL see white guys. White men aren't treated as a collective but rather as individuals. I think that's the point.

^^^^^^^ This ^^^^^^^
"Lots of theories out there but ultimately as I said before, it's just about numbers. If a provider got robbed and abused by 10 white guys in a row...she'd change up her screening and security but would STILL see white guys. White men aren't treated as a collective but rather as individuals. I think that's the point."
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Chalk it up to racial implicit and explicit bias, poor screening methods, economics of the hobby maybe even duress in some instances. But why seek to financially enrich a companion you suspect refuses service based on race? Simply on and financially support a companion that is a better fit for your wants and needs. Furthermore, I concur that it is probably time to close this thread.

[fozziewockabear]

Originally Posted by Whisky_1

^^^^^^^ This ^^^^^^^
"Lots of theories out there but ultimately as I said before, it's just about numbers. If a provider got robbed and abused by 10 white guys in a row...she'd change up her screening and security but would STILL see white guys. White men aren't treated as a collective but rather as individuals. I think that's the point."
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Chalk it up to racial implicit and explicit bias, poor screening methods, economics of the hobby maybe even duress in some instances. But why seek to financially enrich a companion you suspect refuses service based on race? Simply on and financially support a companion that is a better fit for your wants and needs. Furthermore, I concur that it is probably time to close this thread.

I agree with Whisky_1 100%