Provider fallen for YOU?

[curious247]

Nope they tend to not fall for me. That's why I keep having to pay for good times FOR LIFE!!

[KeepFrozen]

I think it would be difficult to really know for sure. Don't hate the player... hate the game. I know the difference between "really like" and "fallen for". An incredible fuck buddy can be a great friend. Can a lady truly fall for a guy in this lifestyle? Maybe... but he definitely must be laying some serious pipe and be incredibly handsome.

[Guest113018-1]

Originally Posted by sparrow1122

It is IOP that extends after BCD. Marketing..to get you back. Hmmmm, I am a bald, middle aged guy slightly over weight with a little dick....I know they can do better!
The deeper your pockets are and the fatter the wallet, the better chance of a proviider falling for you.

Not bald and over the middle age mark. But everything else rings true, plus ED is kicking my ass so I KNOW they can do better.

[Muscleup]

It seems like most of the guys here are projecting their own needs on to women.

Guys want to get there ego stroked, get there rocks off, and be adored/respected.

Women deep down desire security, affection, attention, and want to be appreciated by someone they respect.

All that is distilled into a few key items/actions in this environment.

Guys want to fuck (Fuck) and girls want money (security).

[katherynlust]

It
was
lust
. . .
I knew it wouldn't work because he didn't like greek.
xo

[Alastair]

I think providers (the ones I've seen anyway) do a really good job of hiding any real feelings before, during and after a session. And I wouldn't think otherwise unless I got a freebie!

Oh and yeah, Greek is definitely the word!

[Vic Kosslovich]

I'm pretty sure that every provider I sees falls for me. And I know how hard it must be for them to disguise it so well when I leave.

Yep, gotta give them a lot of credit for that.

[billdwyer18]

Very little (ok zero) chance of that happening for me.

[downtownfellow]

Better to have lost in lust than never have lust at all ____ or something like that

[casey_carlin]

I have never understood the negativity of a client and provider dating. Just because of the way you meet doesn't mean there's no connection. I know it can be hard to know if it's just about money and question Intentions.

When my husband and I started dating everyone said relationships like that don't work. Hobbiest and providers never work out. Well 13 years of marriage we joke that I spend all his money (actually kids spend all our money) and it will never work out. Honestly in our throw away society people just throw in the towel when one thing goes wrong. Relationships have to be constantly worked on.

Posts like this rub me the wrong way because people just expect the worst out of each other. Have fun and enjoy the ride if she's into you she will let you know.

Casey

[micktoz]

I had a several month relationship with a provider that I met as a client. How do I know it was a real relationship? It changed when she told me that I'm no longer a client and I stopped paying for time with her.
I had a great time with a great lady. It just ended because of some practical reasons and we are still great friends.

It takes two people behaving in a mature way, without jealousy being a destabilizing issue.

[Dubielicious]

In mY mind, I see aLL my special pretties (m-f-tg) collectively as mY lovers.
I'm happy happy this way!
Because I would feel OHH so sorry for the one human that had to meet aLL mY needs AnD wants AnD desires. (Set up for hidden resentments)

To give that big responsibility to any one person I say I adore, is totally unfair.
I'm an advocate for polyamory.
Humans are just not wired for monogamy in my own scientific opinion.

Butt REALly if I need or want or desire anything... I have aLL my pretties collectively to pull mY oXytoCin duMp from!
Single it's the OnLy way to mingle these days...
It's like I date Texas.
Well, up and down the middles of it at least.
He he

[OldGrump]

I had a provider fall hard for me. She swore she would kick my ass if I left my shoes in the middle of the floor like that again.

[corona]

Lmao @ OG.

Sadly no, a provider has never fallen for me.

[2short@desky]

Originally Posted by casey_carlin

I have never understood the negativity of a client and provider dating. Just because of the way you meet doesn't mean there's no connection. I know it can be hard to know if it's just about money and question Intentions.

When my husband and I started dating everyone said relationships like that don't work. Hobbiest and providers never work out. Well 13 years of marriage we joke that I spend all his money (actually kids spend all our money) and it will never work out. Honestly in our throw away society people just throw in the towel when one thing goes wrong. Relationships have to be constantly worked on.

Posts like this rub me the wrong way because people just expect the worst out of each other. Have fun and enjoy the ride if she's into you she will let you know.

Casey

Best post of the year. Reminds me of an older Japanese couple I know well, he fucks around all the time, and is not quiet about it. I asked her once why and how she tolerates it. "Too much work! He wear me out! Other ladies OK! Less work for me!"