Question of "Race" and perception

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

No anger here, I don't get angry at people's stupidity; wait, maybe I do....


Raaaaahhh angry black womaaaaaan!
Just like you like to it. lolsmh.

I beg if the, suck a black dick today... and make him feel "lucky"!!!
LMAO.... ok now I'm just being mean. Good day!

[moonshiner]

Originally Posted by Toyz

Bandle boy thinks he has a following...watch him duck and hide as he logs in and out to avoid another bandle ban...

Anyone wonder why he is so obssessed with me?

Morning till fog out time he trolls...and gets bonked...and trolls some more...until that bandle gets caught...and he manufactures another.

The cycle continues...

You know you've said this countless times, and every time I have proven you wrong.
Who's hiding?
Oh yeah Toyz because he was called out, and his cowardly streak took over.

[dodger]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

Toys is always making up these attempted humorous scenerios
while indirectly implying trashy characteristics of me.

a person who was considering you, who may be put off by toyz .. is likely missing an opportunity to enjoy the company of a woman who can provide an excellent hobby visit. folks who spend any time 'researching' ladies on eccie will understand that you are intelligent and a highly skilled provider.

you have reviews on this site going back six years and all of them are 'yes'. researching providers as i do, though we have not met, i don't doubt your a beautiful, very intelligent, and highly skilled in the arts hobby guys enjoy.

toyz does seem to feel a compulsion to post .. often. sometimes his humor is effective, sometimes he misses. imo, his facetious posting of a fictional phone call to you was not funny. it was tasteless and inappropriate to disparage and denigrate you in this way.

i appreciate that this posting may qualify as the action of a white knight. so be it. in the spirit of full disclosure, we have not met but we have communicated, though not recently.

i enjoy the hobby community. i enjoy the hobby. i regret the lack of civility which seems all too evident in this forum. i feel the hobby community benefits from having a large, diverse membership. i'm disappointed when individuals and even groups of members are criticized because of personal bias as opposed to offending actions.

Originally Posted by Toyz

Oh lighten up...its a fuck board...everyone knows you are intelligent and very capable of communication at the highest level...

this is an unwarranted assumption and a poor excuse for your tasteless posting

Originally Posted by Toyz

Friday must be a horrible day for people on eccie...lots of anger today...

friday is a day like any other. don't confuse disgust with anger ... your post was an embarrassment and offensive. you can attempt to refute and back peddle ... it is out there for folks and they can see how tasteless it is. you can now attack folks, like me, who are offended. indicate that we don't get it ... or you. but i do get ... i do understand ... i'm simply offended by it.

now i'll return my soap box to its rightful position .. and ms. austin, thank you for being here ... and offering the sort of quality sessions that so many men have enjoyed.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by moonshiner

You know you've said this countless times, and every time I have proven you wrong.
Who's hiding?
Oh yeah Toyz because he was called out, and his cowardly streak took over.

Not once have you proven anything...please show proof.

Ill wait.

[moonshiner]

Really?
Here's another post by the person who's hiding imbecile.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by moonshiner

Really?
Here's another post by the person who's hiding imbecile.

Show up...prove your not a bandle...bandle.

[moonshiner]

Who are you to drive 4 hrs to prove anything to?
Oh yeah, nobody

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by moonshiner

Who are you to drive 4 hrs to prove anything to?
Oh yeah, nobody

Coward...I gotta nice car its fun to drive and its not 4 hours away...

Your the one saying you are legit...I say your full of shit...

Show up...stalker...

[moonshiner]

I and no one else here, including the staff, gives a shit about what you have to say
You are just really slow at figuring it out.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by moonshiner

I and no one else here, including the staff, gives a shit about what you have to say
You are just really slow at figuring it out.

If you dont care...why do you come out from the protectuon of your manflap to troll me around the board?

This just continues to show you are a liar.

You had such an issue with me backing up my challenge to WhixxZy...why are you cowardly avoiding my challenge to you?

And "the staff" ( give me a break its a few whore mongers who randomly watch over a fuck board for free) felt the need to inject a fair and impartial moderator into an already full compliment....so.your point is without merit and has proven false...

Just like you are...

Prove im wrong coward...I smell fear...and manflap rot.

[moonshiner]

Fear of an obsessed idiot running his ignorant mouth all the time?

[GneissGuy]

Let's save time and summarize the typical NBA (No Blacks Allowed) thread.

Here's the reasons that have been proposed for this. Note, these are not MY opinions, just a list of what will be brought up in every long NBA discussion.

• Some women don't like black men, period.
• Some think there is a higher percentage of problem clients among black men.
• Some think there are a lot more pimps among black men.
• They have had a bad experience with one or more black men and simply can't handle it emotionally.
• Some think there is a higher percentage of STDs among black men.
• Some ladies think NBA ads will get them more business because it will make some guys think they're higher class. Some guys won't see a woman who sees black men.
• Some think black men are more well hung or have more sexual endurance and don't want to get worn out.
• Sometimes the pimp who's really controlling things believes one of the above things.
• It's been suggested many of the NBA women have a black pimp who has emotional problems with his woman seeing other black men.

Here are the stereotypical replies:

• Claiming this is simple racism on the part of the ladies.
• Claiming there is some basis in fact for some of the stated reasons.
• Denying that that a particular reason is valid.
• Berating the ladies for doing it.
• Saying you'll never see an NBA lady.
• Pointing out that it's better if the lady admits it in her ads rather than letting the guy show up and turning him away or giving him poor service.

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One insightful comment with a different point of view.

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[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Toyz

And "the staff" ( give me a break its a few whore mongers who randomly watch over a fuck board for free) felt the need to inject a fair and impartial moderator into an already full compliment....so.your point is without merit and has proven false...

and exactly what has that new staff member done about your "bandle" problem Toyz?

[Lena Duvall]

I'm somewhat curious about the OP's opinions on the comments shared thus far. Maybe this was just a question about NBA/ No AA policies. Though, that was never explicitly mentioned in his initial post...

[Risn2TheOccasion]

Originally Posted by rayg07

With that being said some of the women who advertise not seeing blacks actually do see black men. A few times (very few) I reached out to some ladies I was really interested in seeing who have NBA policies and they did agree to see me.

You bring up a valid point. Perception is not always reality. People's perception can be changed by reality. There are Black Ladies I would gladly see that have the traits I find attractive. There are White Ladies I would never see because they have the traits I find repulsive. We all have our preferences. Perhaps these "Few Ladies" had their perceptions changed by your reality.

I have always found it humorous when I read an ad posted by a Black Lady that reads somewhere in the content, "I love White Men". Why would you need to say that? Does that mean all other Black Ladies hate White Men? Is that supposed to somehow put me at ease for some reason? There is ignorance on all sides of this argument.