Reinventing your self an inquiry into ethics

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Dannie

When I see a lady who is constantly having to reinvent herself, I just wonder what it is about her that makes her such a drama magnet. If you dig deep enough, you often find some interesting reasons for all those name changes.

true too :-). Some ladies are hypocrites for example telling lovers they don`t work anymore and then ...oooops here we go again......its also about lies. A lot sometimes. Ladies that have to reinvent themselves on a regular basis for such and such reasons, i might want to consider unfit for the business and its intricacies :-)) (lol) . Or naive. And not aware of the intricacies of internet. If it happens just once or twice...But if someone is desperate to tell a ladies family about her whereabouts he will find out new identity as well? Someone just needs to write on a board about it. Stalkers are usually very persistent. I had this guy that i have seen 5 years ago for ONE time and he digged around enough to find out my real name (or had some chatty provider give it to him).

[pjorourke]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

And not aware of the intricacies of internet.

Intricacies? I thought it was just a series of tubes.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Reese McClain

I think that ladies who are running from their bad business practices ( blackmail, outing, whatever...) that change their names, should be considered alert-worthy and put on some sort of list of shame and then have that list stickied to the top of every forum forever and ever. You?

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me too. that is unprofessional. Are there any ladies out there who did such a thing to clients? I cannot understand such a behaviour in a business context? This has to backfire. But - i think - ladies who are ripp offs never have homepages anyway. they only have ads and change names all the time, becuase they KNOW they are ripp offs, right? So i assume that does not apply to the topic we discuss?

[discreetgent]

Anyone can have a website today, easily. Templates like escortsite.com and the like make it trivial to create and change websites rather quickly. On one hand it is good that a gal can set up a site quickly, on the other it makes it just as easy to switch websites fast as well.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

Are there any ladies out there who did such a thing to clients?

Yes ma'am.

But - i think - ladies who are ripp offs never have homepages anyway. they only have ads and change names all the time, becuase they KNOW they are ripp offs, right?

Exactly right. Most of the rip off I've heard about are from backpage girls with no website, no reviews.
You should read some of the reviews here. They're so funny. It usually starts out like "So I knocked on her
door and I should have walked away right then but I didn't. She looked nothing like her pics but I was horny.
She smelled a little but I still greeked her anyway. Recommendation: No"

Sometimes the guys choose to entertain the rip offs LOL!

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by pjorourke

Intricacies? I thought it was just a series of tubes.

[Guest071613-2]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

Are there any ladies out there who did such a thing to clients? I cannot understand such a behaviour in a business context? This has to backfire.

There are ladies who actually gather information about clients and use it for extortion. It does backfire, that is why they are constantly changing identities and personas. But it is always amusing when they actually believe that what they have done won't be coming back to haunt them. Thieves and scam artists usually think they are a lot smarter than they actually are, so it's pretty funny when these ladies pasts come back to bite 'em in the ass.

I understand the reasons for name changes and yes I believe some transgressions should be forgiven. Blackmail and outing are two unforgivable offenses, in my opinion, and I think turnabout is fair play. Shame them and name them!

Side note: I've personally never had a website, have never needed one. I seldom need to advertise. That is the awesome part of keeping your reputation stellar. No reviews and no website doesn't really mean anything, I can put websites and reviews with all the ladies I know of that have rip off reputations and multiple name changes due to bad business practices. You'd think it would be the other way around but again, no one said thieves and scammers are the brightest stars in the sky. The ones you DON'T hear about are the ladies with reviews, not the random BP bait n switches, you hear about those all the time in the alerts section. It's the ones who use their familiarity with the boards and the hobby to extort money from hobbyists, get loans and not pay them back, or a host of other shady behavior, that don't get called out as often. But when they do, it's a beautiful thing.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Dannie

. It's the ones who use their familiarity with the boards and the hobby to extort money from hobbyists, get loans and not pay them back, or a host of other shady behavior, that don't get called out as often. But when they do, it's a beautiful thing.

A loan???????? Can you introduce me to these hobbyists that are giving loans? LOL! I read something about that in Houston. The guy rented a car for the provider under his name and she took the car out of state. Classic!

[Guest071613-2]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

A loan???????? Can you introduce me to these hobbyists that are giving loans? LOL! I read something about that in Houston. The guy rented a car for the provider under his name and she took the car out of state. Classic!

One that comes to mind is the well reviewed provider that "borrowed" what ended up being about 10k after it was all said and done. Hobbyists get promised make up sessions but when the guy starts asking when the BCD is going to happen, suddenly she doesn't like his tone or what have you. The guy was afraid to post an alert because he knew no one would believe it.....but the fact of the matter is, she's done it to several others who were also afraid to post alerts due to possible white knight backlash.

Then there is one provider who lets guys stay over their time, for several visits. Then on the fourth or fifth visit she flips out and tells them how much they owe her for staying over on time LOL...but her reviews are outrageously good so it will never get discussed, lest the white knights come galloping in and add doubt as to the validity of what is being said.

Sometimes, great reviews just give providers a better grasp on the balls of the hobby

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Exactly right. Most of the rip off I've heard about are from backpage girls with no website, no reviews.
You should read some of the reviews here. They're so funny. It usually starts out like "So I knocked on her
door and I should have walked away right then but I didn't. She looked nothing like her pics but I was horny.
She smelled a little but I still greeked her anyway. Recommendation: No"

Sometimes the guys choose to entertain the rip offs LOL!

the best ones are the ones with "so i gave a stranger in a parking lot who looked like a major pimp some money and then i was surprised to not hear back anymore from anyone""

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Dannie

One that comes to mind is the well reviewed provider that "borrowed" what ended up being about 10k after it was all said and done. Hobbyists get promised make up sessions but when the guy starts asking when the BCD is going to happen, suddenly she doesn't like his tone or what have you. The guy was afraid to post an alert because he knew no one would believe it.....but the fact of the matter is, she's done it to several others who were also afraid to post alerts due to possible white knight backlash.

Then there is one provider who lets guys stay over their time, for several visits. Then on the fourth or fifth visit she flips out and tells them how much they owe her for staying over on time LOL...but her reviews are outrageously good so it will never get discussed, lest the white knights come galloping in and add doubt as to the validity of what is being said.

Sometimes, great reviews just give providers a better grasp on the balls of the hobby

Exactly. Only if more people would realize that.

There is a very well known provider in New York. She charges $700hr/$1400 for 2 hours and offers no longer arrangements. Her reviews are stellar and the guys go nuts over her (Yes I'm a perv, I read reviews). When I first started in the business, I would literally stalk her website. Her pictures are that beautiful. I started noticing that she never updated her pictures. Two months ago, when I was screening a client I saw that he had seen this provider. I emailed him and said "You saw her?? I'm so in love with her! What is she like?" He said "Her pictures are fake. However, she has an unlimited menu and the men love her".I was so disappointed.

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Dannie

Side note: I've personally never had a website, have never needed one. I seldom need to advertise. That is the awesome part of keeping your reputation stellar.

you are right with that there are plenty of high priced luxury escorts who never use webpages. Some of them are models or women in other parts of the entertainment industry. and none of them would ever advertise they are bookable too :-)

[NinaBrooke]

Originally Posted by Dannie

Then there is one provider who lets guys stay over their time, for several visits. Then on the fourth or fifth visit she flips out and tells them how much they owe her for staying over on time LOL...but her reviews are outrageously good so it will never get discussed, lest the white knights come galloping in and add doubt as to the validity of what is being said.

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then there are these providers who act as if they don`t need the money and are into the business because they are always horny - and then they are surprised to find that guys actually don`t want to pay in the first place and only help out with the horniness :-) (lol). What an unfair world, right??

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by ninasastri

the best ones are the ones with "so i gave a stranger in a parking lot who looked like a major pimp some money and then i was surprised to not hear back anymore from anyone""

LOL!!!

"She went around the corner and never came back"

"I was on the phone with her and I heard a guy say he'd kill her
if she didn't get his money."

"Her pictures were beautiful but she looked like an olga when I
got there but I had bbfs with her anyway. I know it was stupid"

"The room was dirty, She was dirty but I stayed."

"She had andy griffith playing very loud on the TV. The
bed was on blocks"

You can't make this stuff up.

[Naomi4u]

Smart providers learn from customer feedback. If a guy said I gave a bad blowjob, I would contact him, give him a huge discount and the blowjob of the century. That's just good customer service.