What to say when a client sees you on a sd/sb site

[Anonymiss]

The name of the author and the book escape me, but I was listening to an interview for this on satellite radio.

A woman discusses her principles of what separates one who is sponsored by wealthy gentleman and another who is paid for sex. She didn't meet her gentlemen via an arrangements website but rather venturing out and looking sexy at the right events. She claims to have never had sex with a man for acquiring her wealth. Due to escorts frequenting sb/sd sites, men have gotten away from the fact that in this relationship, you still must court the woman and develop a certain level of trust before she would commit to having sex with you. Her idea was to get what you want without giving it up. And, it does work! You don't have to commit your body or your mind to anyone in that relationship.

That's why sugar babies are different than escorts.

[Nina Rae]

I've had this happen a number of times. I see no reason not to handle it with honesty and as much upfront info as possible. If the client sees you on a sd site, and asks what's up with that, tell him that its something you're interested in. If he's interested in entertaining the idea with you, then fine. Explore that. If he's not, then the way I see it, there really is nothing to discuss.

If an sd asks you about being a provider, I also think you should be up front. Personally, when I was "working", I preferred to let clients/sd's choose. Do you want to deal with me in an hourly way, or monthly. Its about whatever works for both of you.

Good luck!

[Guest052115-1]

All this talk of SB's only make me want to have one more and more.

[Guest020312-2]

Wow Anonymiss I would loooove to find out what this book was!! Perhaps a much needed trip to the library.. hmm, how to explain lol. I have done pretty well figuring out how to do things after posting this thread. Usually if you keep a man happy he will not have a problem doing the same for you($). With this being said I simply state what I would like out of the relationship and the same as any sd/sb relationship each others outside lives have nothing to do with it. I don't ask them what they do so they shouldn't ask me. I don't care if the are attached(quite frankly I prefer it), Gives me a little space!!

Being a provider and having sd's really leaves no time/want for a usual relationship at my age and I think I've got it right.. no more having sex with strangers for a Long Island Ice Tea and a few jager bombs!! I'm movin up. lol. Thank you all so much for your wonderful advice and can't wait to see you in Baton Rouge next week!!!