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Originally Posted by timpage
Regarding clitoral stimulation. I've had partners who prefer direct, hard, continuous and agressive stimulation....and I've had those who don't. I don't think there is a paradigm. I rely on my partner to tell me and react accordingly.....when I am down there face to face with the promised land, I always say "tell me what you want".....
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Several years ago sex advice guy Dan Savage had a column on How To Eat Pussy that was one of the best things I've ever seen. It was based entirely on letters written by his readers.
The first letter would say "Why does a guy only lick my clit? I like it when he licks all around.". That would be followed by a letter saying "Why does a guy waste time licking anything but my clit...that's the only thing that gets me off."
Then there was a letter saying "I
hate it when a guy sticks his finger in my pussy while he's going down." That was followed by a letter saying "I
love it when a guy sticks his finger in my pussy when he's going down on me".
There were lots of other examples but obviously you see where he was going. Bottom line is that different people like different things and unless you tell someone what it is that you like or don't like you have no basis to complain.
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