DATY Question for Providers

[cherno]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

1. Too much spit
2. Jamming fingers inside me too hard and too fast
3. Facial hair scratching against my sensitive areas
4. Too much spit (I have to say this again)
5. Using their entire tongue to lick me like a dog cleaning its pup
6. Ignoring any and all direction

ok - #2, 3, 5, and 6 make sense - but I don't understand why the too much spit thing is bad.

I would assume some spit is necessary for lubrication, so just wondering what in particular makes it bad to have too much spit? This thread has been very educational for me.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by cherno

ok - #2, 3, 5, and 6 make sense - but I don't understand why the too much spit thing is bad.

I would assume some spit is necessary for lubrication, so just wondering what in particular makes it bad to have too much spit? This thread has been very educational for me.

There's no need for gallons of spit to be running down my ass crack and soaking my sheets

[albundy]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

There's no need for gallons of spit to be running down my ass crack and soaking my sheets

What if I put a towel under you?

[cherno]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

There's no need for gallons of spit to be running down my ass crack and soaking my sheets

I like to put a towel underneath as well. Plus if the woman squirts, it soaks that up too.

[albundy]

Yeah, I had a chick blowing me not long ago and I was filming. I decided I wanted to change up the ending a bit. So, I made sure a towel was under me. I came in her mouth and then had her spit it back out all over my cock and balls and then take a few more sucks after. AWESOME!!!

And then I just shit-canned the towel. No mess, no fuss. It was a towel I bought on the way over, just to use for the "date" anyway.

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

1. Too much spit
2. Jamming fingers inside me too hard and too fast
3. Facial hair scratching against my sensitive areas
4. Too much spit (I have to say this again)
5. Using their entire tongue to lick me like a dog cleaning its pup
6. Ignoring any and all direction

Just for the record I don't drool much, always clean shaven, mostly use the tip of my tongue and take directions well. Just saying :-)

[macshasta89]

Originally Posted by pyramider

You taint eating at the Y unless you chew. Chewing is the only way to get a surefire response from a woman.

Not sure if serious or joking. Either way, this had me rolling

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

1. Too much spit
2. Jamming fingers inside me too hard and too fast
3. Facial hair scratching against my sensitive areas
4. Too much spit (I have to say this again)
5. Using their entire tongue to lick me like a dog cleaning its pup
6. Ignoring any and all direction

Ahhhh yes #6 ... nothing like giving clear instructions over and over for some of them to still not do it. Or worse he/they get miffed you because you keep correcting them because they think they're doing what you're saying. If I say softer don't go harder, if I say faster don't slow down, if I say press your more flat (vs fluttering or rolling) don't do the opposite of that.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by cowboy8055

Just for the record I don't drool much, always clean shaven, mostly use the tip of my tongue and take directions well. Just saying :-)

You had me at "I don't drool much"
#sayNoToDrool

[Fancylady]

DATY cleaner and safer than a uncovered d*ck? Freshly shower daty.Paid time enjoying each other company until next paid time.

[BossyWillson]

Originally Posted by CaramelChanelle

Daty is always a plus if the guy knows what he's doing and actually enjoys doing it. I can't stand head when a guy licks like a kitten trying to lap up a bowl of milk.. get into it lol

put that in Ur P411 profile

some providers need the light touch

[Fancylady]

Daty and uncovered pu$$y and Rimming cleaner and safer than a uncovered d*ck? All bare back tongues and mouths

[James1588]

Originally Posted by Woodford

Ladies - as a client who loves DATY, I totally get that you want it done "right". But, after being with dozens of you, each one of you is deliciously different. While many of us guys have a "routine" that works most of the time, help us out with plenty of feedback. And non verbal feedback is great - tightening the thighs, thrusting your hips, your hand on the back of my head pushing me down harder, etc. And, when it is working and you want us to not stop, just whisper "Don't Stop". We don't always know when you are getting bored, or when it is really good and leading to a great climax. Gentle flicks, sucking and nibbling the clit, and long hard licks have all worked with different women to bring them over the edge.

And, the afterplay is important, too. Many of you are too sensitive to continue. Some of you do want to continue and see if we can quickly get another one. Others want to cool down slowly. But, especially if we are new to each other, give us feedback.

So, ladies, feedback to us is your best friend. Be honest and just let us know! The last thing we want is to change the stroke trying to bring you over the edge just when you are getting close and lose that orgasm.

Exactly -- that's the point I was trying to make, a couple of pages back. Ladies, it is idle to say "yes, I like it, but only if he does it right." There is no one single "right" way. You're all as different as snowflakes, and I don't mean slightly different -- I mean completely different. The only way for a man to know how to eat you is if he's eaten you before. And even then, there's no guarantee, as I've known a couple of women who like one approach one time, but prefer something quite different next time, when they're in a different mood.

Bottom line: ladies, talk. Gentlemen, listen, and act on what you hear. "Let a thousand flowers bloom."

[ben dover]

What I want to hear when i'm dining is the same thing i'll say when she gets the BJ just the way I like it is.... "YESSS... JUST LIKE THAT!"

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

It is news to me that facial hair bothers Danielle. Slobber, yeah.