IOP... Is every girl full of shit?

[Hellion437]

In a nutshell, do all providers fake it? In my opinion, no. I'm sure many, but not a majority, do enjoy their work. I am fortunate to have a job that I love enough that I would do it for free, but I still make 'em pay me. Now while some of the passion may be real, some hobbiests are better off assuming it isn't. They have trouble divorcing their feelings from the commerce. (Believe me, you don't want to be that guy in the strip club asking the dancers out on a date. They laugh about that.)

I, like Reese, have also been around since the ASPD days. I don't think men are more jaded now. I think they are more confused. The newer, younger hobbyists may be warped a bit by the complexities of our social media landscape and have trouble deciphering face-to-face interactions accurately, but I admit I may be overthinking it. Overall, trying to determine a provider's true feelings doesn't really benefit you in the end. Don't get me wrong, respect her feelings, and her as a person, but know where the session ends.

My $.02, for what it's worth.

[SexiKenni]

I am so glad I posted this thread! It's getting so much more pleasant

[doug_dfw]

Originally Posted by SexiKenni

Do u guys really think that all providers are faking any and all enjoyment during appointments? From the comments I read it seems like it.

Absolutely not. Of 400 plus sessions over the last 10 years; only 4 for certain faked and perhaps a dozen, maybe.

[TexasChiliDog]

Originally Posted by SexyPlatinum

Not all of us is full of shit cause I'm not

[FireKitten]

Plenty of these ladies are passionate for real. And what gets them going, still, is YOU. The man. You could be 250+lbs, semi soft, and fumbling like an idiot. If she works with you smoothly to create fireworks, more often than not, that is real. At least to some extent.


It still doesn't mean she ever wants to take you home and make you hers. Shrug, such is life here.

[Kendall4U]

What difference does it make? We are paid to provide a service, scenario....whatever. This is a job. Some of us are part time while others are literally balls deep 24/7. If you get paid you should damn well, at the very least, fake it and make who ever walks through your door feel happy he chose you to spend his hard earned money on. No, there isn't always a physical attraction, but there IS something nice you can find about everyone you meet. I am a firm believer in treating others as you want to be treated. I don't know, maybe I really am old school.

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by Kendall4U

What difference does it make? We are paid to provide a service, scenario....whatever. This is a job. Some of us are part time while others are literally balls deep 24/7. If you get paid you should damn well, at the very least, fake it and make who ever walks through your door feel happy he chose you to spend his hard earned money on. No, there isn't always a physical attraction, but there IS something nice you can find about everyone you meet. I am a firm believer in treating others as you want to be treated. I don't know, maybe I really am old school.

I could not agree with you more.

What is the OP asked is if guys think all providers are faking.........the answer to that is obviously no, not all, but the majority that are enjoying it, aka stroking that male ego, do fake it. What I was saying in post #4 of this thread is there are many providers who do not even do that.

While this service is a job, and it is the oldest profession in the world, it is not like any other job as it is of a personal and intimate nature and that is where the acting skills do come in for providers. It is not a matter of can they, it is will they. While I understand there are a few nuts out there who if a provider shows him a good time and makes him feel glad he is a man, they will think she really does like him and become her stalker.

But, most of the hobbyists pay and see providers to get that block of time to escape from drama, feel good about themselves and actually have fun. Then after the time is up, go back to the RW and look forward to another encounter.

[Duthgar1976]

i am not jaded and i know a lot of you ladies truely do enjoy your time with some of us guys. its jsut that as a fat small dicked guy i know that im not gunna be ringing your bells. I honestly try to have the best time with a provider and hope that at least they have a little fun themsleves.

[daty/o]

Originally Posted by Duthgar1976

i am not jaded and i know a lot of you ladies truely do enjoy your time with some of us guys. its jsut that as a fat small dicked guy i know that im not gunna be ringing your bells. I honestly try to have the best time with a provider and hope that at least they have a little fun themsleves.

This is probably a more common perspective than you think. And wasn't it Shakespeare that said "let tongues do what dicks do"?

[plove35]

Originally Posted by Duthgar1976

i am not jaded and i know a lot of you ladies truely do enjoy your time with some of us guys. its jsut that as a fat small dicked guy i know that im not gunna be ringing your bells. I honestly try to have the best time with a provider and hope that at least they have a little fun themsleves.

Dude I am a fat, big dicked guy, and I know I am not ringing any bells! Go into your sessions and just have fun, enjoy your time, and stop worrying about if she is faking or not...guess what..women fake in the RW too, lol

[214_TX]

I remember I had a session with a provider that had more fun than I did during our session , after our session was over she laid on the bed for a good 10 minutes saying that was one of the best sessions she had this year but funny part that wasn't mine lol

[Find Your Joy]

I think it's ironic that I have faked many more times in the real world than I have even had sex in the hobby. I spend my 20's and 30's trying to please "him" and not paying attention to my own needs. The 40's brought a whole new perspective.
There were a few blunders early in the hobby and I learned that I can't offer bng or hhr and truly enjoy myself. I have adjusted by eliminating those options and now truly enjoy longer sessions
Albeit it is just for a temporary moment in time, when I meet someone I consider them my lover. I will open myself up to the possibility of pleasure. That pleasure can be found many different ways. 99% of the time I am not disappointed.

[playerplano]

Do some fake it ? Yes of course !

Do some not even try to fake it ? Yes and it equals crappy sessions IMHO !

Do the stars align and both have a great time?Yes and that's when I get the session I seek !

Nothing turns me on more than a provider who is genuinely loving our connection and passion. Though I'll admit that a great fake will probably have me leaving with a smile.

[!VI!]

if we eat we are at least full of shit some time lol,

that's what the bathroom is for lol

[Iaintliein]

"IOP... Is every girl full of shit?"

Greek is the only way to know for sure ;-)