How is this any better than bbfs?

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by pornodave69

http://www.herpes.com/Transmission.shtml

All it takes is skin to skin contact to transmit herpes. A stripper slide is just that. Penetration is not necessary, nor are bodily fluids. Transmission is possible without symptoms.

Well skin to skin contact to contract Herpes is one thing. but skin to skin contact to contract other more invasive STD's maybe another story.

[pornodave69]

Originally Posted by acp5762

Well skin to skin contact to contract Herpes is one thing. but skin to skin contact to contract other more invasive STD's maybe another story.

Isn't "one thing" all you need? Most of the others can be cured/treated and go away. This one stays forever and is easy to contract.

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by pornodave69

Isn't "one thing" all you need? Most of the others can be cured/treated and go away. This one stays forever and is easy to contract.

Well thats true Herpes stays in the body as either dormant or active. AIDS, Gonoreha, and Syphilis can be irradicated but many people have died from these diseases, at least you can from AIDS. Syphilis can leave a person with permenant nervous system damage. Herpes, although rather troublesome is not known to have fatal consequences. Iam not hip on getting anything in terms of STD's. Thats why I don't place sex with random strangers on a very high priority list. In fact I've restrained from seeing any providers. Theres inate risks in every endeavor we may partake in. "You wanna skydive", great. It's not cut in stone that when you pull the rip cord your shoot deploys. If on your hundreth jump and it doesn't, you're probably gonna die. Same thing with this. After a few years and a few hundred encounters, all your precautions and knowledge to be safe from STD exposure can be thwarted by one single seemingly inocent encounter. I wish no bad tidings to any member on this board, whether it be contracting an STD, having a violent encounter with a Pimp or client or provider or facing prosecution. In this game you know the pleasures and the risks. One must also accept these risks and take responsibilty for them.

[Still Looking]

I drink so much Scotch no STD could ever survive in my body! LOL

[Jackie S]

THat was a very down to earth, realistic reply. And dead on.

[pyramider]

If the provider is not comfortable with an activity then she should not engage in that activity. Pretty simple.

[SlowHand50]

The Nuru body massage looks like it would be good fun; I wonder if that gel is latex friendly? If so, get the cover on before launch and all should be safe.

[anaximander]

From what I understand HPV can be transmitted
Inner-thigh to inner-thigh
yeah kill joy break out the rubber shorts or what?
Brings new definition of 'wetsuit'.
The future could suck badly.

[acp5762]

Seems "skin to skin" contact has been mentioned more than once in this thread as a possible mode of STD exposure. As I was watching the video I noticed that this Nuru Message Gel has an interesting consistancy. This stuff seems to be not only extremely slippery but rather thick. Being that both bodies become rather coated with this stuff could that act as a barrier minimizing direct skin to skin contact. Sort of like the piston in an engine the thin film of oil coating the piston and cylinder wall the metals never actually come in contact with eachother. I am just saying.

[burkalini]

You know I am 58 and sometimes people call me an old man but I do remember when I was a teen and young twenties we got to fuck all we want. There was no AIDS Most girls were on BC. It really is a shame most of you never got to experience that but the reality now is we just have to be careful. I do think some people go a little overboad but how can you diss them for thinking about their safety.

[London Rayne]

If I were to ever offer that, I would just finish the guy in my mouth where my kitty is nowhere near it lol.

I don't care how you dress this thing up...her vagina was covered in his CUM! That is worse than having bbfs where he pulls out for pete's sake!

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by burkalini

You know I am 58 and sometimes people call me an old man but I do remember when I was a teen and young twenties we got to fuck all we want. There was no AIDS Most girls were on BC. It really is a shame most of you never got to experience that but the reality now is we just have to be careful. I do think some people go a little overboad but how can you diss them for thinking about their safety.

I am a little younger than you Burk, but yeah I hear where you're comming from. AIDS and other STD's were just as prominant back then as they are now. It just so happens that they are more publicized and feared. Iam not saying to go out and do it bare back but ya can't live in such fear over everything with human sexuality. You just have to use good judgement.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by acp5762

You just have to use good judgement.

Exactly.

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Exactly.

Why is that little tid bit of my post so shocking to you? I might be more careful and practical than you give me credit for.

[jsparrow]

Not objecting to any of the health issues raised here...all informative and considered.

As I understand it, SS, Nuru, etc. are all forms of "frottage", a most enjoyable sexual experience that does NOT involve penetration. Several of my most intense finishes have been with a Japanese friend who was expert in this technique. Bliss!

I've said this before in other posts: If you are in the hobby, fluids will be exchanged, i.e. LFK, DFK, DT, BBBJ, etc (the list accelerates). Please be safe and comfortable with what you will share. However, if you're looking for a squeaky clean environment, I think you're in the wrong playground. Good sex ain't sanitized.