SCAMS... here they are....

[Karyn Lovely]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

REALLY??? I'm sure you would like to believe that but....

I scheduled an appointment with (ONE) ECCIE provider. Ten minutes into the session....



So now how man providers do you see? Being a gentleman I didn't complain mind you! Shit happens... sometimes GOOD and sometimes NOT so good!

Sorry I should have posted more clearly, I meant these 2 seem to contradict themselves:

3) Same as #1 they need the money up front. Then they ask you to go wash up. The money goes out the door and so do they. Remedy: Never Pay Up Front!

1) Leaves counterfeit money in an envelope or just fives and ones. Remedy: Have him go wash his ass and check the money. If it’s not right, toss him out. If he refuses to leave call front desk and tell them that someone is breaking into your room. Post an alert

I'm assuming your response (and picture) was to my response about one or more ladies showing up. I just replied that way (negatively) because in your original message I read each scenario in which 2 ladies showed up with a negative connotation:

5) They get the money up front and suddenly there is a loud knock on the door. It’s a fat ass friend of hers saying “he is on his way over”. Tells YOU that you need to get the fuck out. The provider says she’ll call you when she gets a new motel room. Remedy: Never Pay Up Front! Walk out the door!

12) Two girls show up at your door instead of one. They say they are ready to PARTY! They ask for money to go buy condoms, beer, energy drinks, ciggs… whatever and they will be back in 20-30 minutes. Remedy: Slam the door on their faces. After they leave go to front desk and ask to get a different room. Make up whatever excuse you want but go to a different room.

Excuse me if I misunderstood something....but I don't understand your response to me. This actually kind of proves my point, if it's an Eccie provider and she did this and it was a positive experience hooray If this lovely duo also posted on bp, well that's why I said greatly Recuced, not to be misinterpreted as eliminated.

And I meant you as in the general public, not direct attack on you, as you seem to have met some reputable ladies...

[Karyn Lovely]

Is paying up front the same thing as setting the donation down first before activities begin, but not collecting or touching the donation until after the session ends?

I require that the donation be place in a visible spot upon arrival, but I do not touch the envelope until the end of a date...Is that not how that works lol

Confuddled

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Karyn Lovely

Is paying up front the same thing as setting the donation down first before activities begin, but not collecting or touching the donation until after the session ends?

I require that the donation be place in a visible spot upon arrival, but I do not touch the envelope until the end of a date...Is that not how that works lol

Confuddled

That works!

[Still Looking]

The sword cuts both ways...

The provider wants her money up front so she won't get SCAMED!

The hobbyists wants to pay after so he won't get SCAMED!

The provider SCREENS her clients so what's the problem?

The hobbyists only see VERIFIED providers so what's the problem?

Providers have their rules! They should be followed!

Hobbyists have their rules! They should be followed!

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Originally Posted by MaryBeth

Also, taking 10,000g of Vitamin C with Dung Quai pills causes abortions with no doctor needed. GOOGLE THAT SHIT!

Ladies please PLEASE never do this. Even if you have a spontaneous abortion (clinical term for a miscarriage) you need medical attention. You never know if your body has expelled everything or not.

[RedLeg505]

Originally Posted by Karyn Lovely

Is paying up front the same thing as setting the donation down first before activities begin, but not collecting or touching the donation until after the session ends?

I require that the donation be place in a visible spot upon arrival, but I do not touch the envelope until the end of a date...Is that not how that works lol

Confuddled

That's how I understand it is supposed to work, and how it HAS worked for me for all my provider encounters thus far with never a problem.

[handyguy5]

+1

[proudoftexas]

This board is a better place when Still Looking is posting.

Nice discussion thread. I do think there's a contradiction in the OP, but it's already been pointed out. I haven't had any issues, but there's never been so much money at stake for me that I couldn't afford to lose it.

I do like it best when the provider virtually ignores the money. It makes it feel like they trust me to give them the right amount. Which I do. But I realize that won't work for every provider, and it's certainly an approach that could easily bite a provider in the ass. But it's what I prefer.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by proudoftexas

This board is a better place when Still Looking is posting.

Nice discussion thread. I do think there's a contradiction in the OP, but it's already been pointed out. I haven't had any issues, but there's never been so much money at stake for me that I couldn't afford to lose it.

I do like it best when the provider virtually ignores the money. It makes it feel like they trust me to give them the right amount. Which I do. But I realize that won't work for every provider, and it's certainly an approach that could easily bite a provider in the ass. But it's what I prefer.

Excellent point! To some of us $$-$$$ isn't a lot of cash. And certainly NOT worth getting your ass beat over. But what about the guy who struggles and saves to be able to see one of these fine talented young ladies only to run into a scammer? The dollars amount is NOT the issue, it’s the fact that there are those out there SCAMMING people out of their hard earned cash. Now I don't rate these people as high as my ex-wives attorneys... but they run a close second!

[gimme_that]

Other scams......

"Can you go get some ice from the ice machine in the hall."

She bolts and leaves.

You go on a dinner date and she excuses herself to the bathroom with payment in full in her purse,.....same result......if you catch her....she's says she was just going to get her makeup kit silly......

Or my favorite.....she picks the seat facing towards the door which has you looking away.....she leaves her purse at the table and ask you to watch it.......she bolts.....as it was a throwaway purse anyways.

"I'm allergic to these feather pillows....so I can't stay the entire night......so just give me half."

"Aw you just started my period.....what is we gonna do now"

[Danielle Reid]

Asking for half doesn't seem like a scam. I've cut meetings short for a lot of reasons and only asked for partial payment. Better than staying for 30 minutes then saying "Sorry, I hate you but give me my full amount anyway"