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Originally Posted by eccienewbie
Not a "he said/she said" when the "he" has pics taken during the event and text messages AFTER THE FACT voicing no objection to what took place. For an objection to be viewed as credible in this sordid scenario, it would necessarily have HAD to come in the texts. In the context in which things really transpired (according to the timing of the texts), it's more of a "he said and she corroborated it" kind of deal. No elaborate explanation or long-winded filibuster can get around that simple reality. Better to just let it fade with time, imho, than to try to alter reality and perpetuate the issue in the process.
Jus' sayin'....
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eccienewbie, I am pretty sure you are contradicting what my post was about he said, she said, so let me explain so you can understand what I am talking about.
Let's start with this: neither BBL nor RCS nor anyone else dispute the fact the events to place in this review:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=372243
HE SAID this particular review session was consenting between both parties and he has the pics and video to prove it.
SHE SAID in post #1 of this thread, she was "tricked" and gave the indication that maybe something was put in her drink to make her lose her inhibitions to do some of the things she did at the Lido.
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Originally Posted by RedCajunSpinner
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That day, we went out for some drinks and maybe I had more than I should. Im real small so it dont take much to get me tipsy. Actually, it seemed like I was more whacked out than drunk....I was thinkin maybe I had something besides Crown and Coke.
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A little more explanation: We all have our different opinions and speculations of what really happened, but in the end
only the parties involved really know.
My "theory" is this: BBL gained this RCS's trust by "dating" before they went to the Lido, she is a gullible teen trying to help support her kids. I do not know when she had these crown and coke drinks she is talking about, but it appears in the "hidden camera" video footage BBL did, that she was lucid and the "whatever it was" that she said he might have "slipped in" her drink had not kicked in as of that time. As soon as she started feeling some of the effects, BBL introduced the other guys, and with the little bit of "rational" thinking she had left, inquired about who they were and BBL stated they were his "friends", but later in his review, it clearly states that these guys were not his friends, perhaps acquaintances he met up there.
As far as her having a "good time with him" and he has the text messages to prove that, she may have, BTW, those texts were sent by RCS to BBL
BEFORE the review was posted, so after the pics, video and review was basically shared with the world, then she said this:
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Originally Posted by RedCajunSpinner
I felt used, because this aint what I'm about. I just liked the guy but not anymore...........
This Bareback Lover guy is a jerk. I can't believe this guy took pictures of me while I was that way. None of you girls should ever see him....
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So, one can possibly assume that the pics as well as the video were not consensual, however, since there are no "hard facts" that dispute consent, then you have to "lean towards" at least the pics being consensual.
I wonder why she has not posted anything else but the #1 post on this thread that she started. RCS has not had any other reviews after this one by BBL either, which tells me that she has had a ton of requests about BBFS from the "I prefer BBFS guys" on this site and either is seeing them and asking not to do a review, or she has just "thrown her hands up in the air" and is done with this site and the guys on it, who knows!
BBL MAY have been telling the truth about the whole situation, or is RCS telling the truth, or, as there mostly always is, a third scenario is the truth on the actual events
AND the mutual involvement in those events? Who knows? It is
HE SAID, SHE SAID.
