pfmtony yea or nay

[NearHauteRed]

Originally Posted by sweet.treat69

Why would you ask a board of hookers and their clients if you should stay or not? Who gives a shit? Will you really leave because of the outcome of a POLL??

I agree with JJ this site is supposed to be an info share and hobby related forum.. Not bullshit drama or pointless attention-seeking threads. Providers might make a threAD to boost business or whatever their intention is behind it, but what's yours??

Why not just be active but limited to what you post? Or post things that are relevant to the hobby? I do believe a lot of guys get too wrapped up in this and they make this their whole life- what they talk about, think about, what they log onto as soon as they wake up & come home from work...

Make this your HOBBY- and an enjoyable one... Not your whole life! And I wouldn't make rash decisions based on a stupid poll.
Good luck to ya.

Great reply to this, sweet.treat69. pmftony, even though my signing up with a handle on this site is very new, I have seen many providers but I have not written any reviews. It is not anyone's business as far as why you do not do reviews, and if they continue to ask or in some cases, demand you to write reviews about your experiences, many of them will call you names or tell you that your opinions do not matter or they have no respect for you saying you are not a contributor to this board, when in fact you are, who cares? If the negativity of the haters affects you that much, maybe you should step back and just lay low for a while. To open a poll or a even a thread to see if members of a whore board like you or not is ridiculous. This is an ADULT board, but sometimes, the members here will be children and you should not stoop to their level and "take your ball and go home" just because they ruffled your feathers.

[hotindallas]

Tony, I'm going to try and help you out here, with an example from one of your posts. In the "Where have the flowers gone?" thread, you posted:

Originally Posted by pfmtony

Most of the time I leave a thank you card / note. Flowers are a bit too attention attracting to carry around. My ATFs are going to be well remembered at Christmas and that's all I'm saying.

I did have a lady recently give me a small gift. It sits in my desk at work with other things I've been given.

Yes many of you ladies deserve better. I too will try to be better.

Now, the first and last sentences are just fine. There's nothing at all wrong with them - they gave your answer to the OP's question succinctly. That being said, the middle of the post twisted everything over to "LOOK AT ME !!!" They added no value to the thread. Nobody cares who you give Christmas presents too, and the thread wasn't about providers giving clients gifts. It seems that the majority of your posts are this way.

This board is about finding good information about the hobby, and finding out which providers/clients to see or not to see. Now look at an edited version of your post:

Originally Posted by pfmtony

Most of the time I leave a thank you card / note. Flowers are a bit too attention attracting to carry around. Many of you ladies deserve better. I too will try to be better.

Tony, please look at the difference between the two. I hope you will see that there is a BIG difference in the whole tone. Please stop making everything about YOU, and maybe (if there is not too much damage already) people's attitudes towards you will change a little. You have the potential to be a good contributor to this board, but it's up to you to make it that way.

[Chung Tran]

Tony is not going anywhere... he will lose the poll, and retire his current handle, but he will emerge under another handle, or simply post from another he currently enjoys. Tony is playing this poll like a Fiddle... he obviously has premium access under a different name, see how quickly he responded to the Truman/Dewey post that he wasn't supposed to see?

[pyramider]

Maybe there are tony wks feeding him info.

[pfmtony]

No premium access, no WKs. The thread updates with poster name and time on hidden posts. That makes it easy to know there are many hidden posts.

I will play it however I want. But rest assured I have no desire to okay cards when the house is a known cheater and doesn't want me present. I've walked away from more than this. It's easier than you think.

I can go to zero posting easier than you all can stop wondering about and talking about me.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Perhaps we should start a discussion about your signature line. It seems to be slightly menacing in tone. Is that your intent?

As someone who would prefer for you to stay, your earlier arguments about staying (or leaving) really don't make much sense.

But it seems as if you've already made up your mind in regard to what actions you plan to take and so I won't waste my time stating interesting philosophical thoughts, or what I might find interesting, in regard to some of the things that you've written.

Good luck, though. I sincerely do wish for you the best as I'm sure that I'm not alone.

The other stuff that is being bantered about? I think that many are just marking the "no" option to just see what you'll do. It's not reflective of the general attitude towards you.

[pfmtony]

Elisabeth, if that's the case then they can ask me back later on, and I'd consider it.

Now as for my signature, its always song lyrics. It's a texas band too. That particular song isnt menacing to me. I actually got a compliment on it recently from a lady I really like. Let's just say sometimes a man and a woman get together and being gentle gets put aside for raw animal passion. That's all the song is getting at. Rock music is quite suggestive sometimes.

I never try to menace, but I do know how to do it when needed. If I wanted to be menacing I wouldn't choose a song about a boy and a girl by the toadies..... I have better means of that.

And if people are doing it to see if I will; then let the masses be entertained!

[ElisabethWhispers]

Ah. Then by what I'm reading, I'm probably just reflecting my general distrust of people at times.

When I read that last line, I think of serial killers or something very scary. "I'll show you my dark secret" or "I'll not be a gentleman" could be construed as having rough sex.

If I guy was going to lure me in by being seductively dark, I think that I would prefer him to say something like, "I'm going to take you, Elisabeth, and hold your arms over your head while plunging my masculinity into your softness." or something more raw sounding. (Damn. When I try to write something dirty, it always ends up sounding like a poorly written romance novel, which is never my intent!)

I just see those lyrics differently and I haven't heard the song, either.

I'll take responsibility for reading it in a fashion that seemed menacing.

I understand. Fair enough.

[pfmtony]

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

But it seems as if you've already made up your mind in regard to what actions you plan to take and so I won't waste my time stating interesting philosophical thoughts, or what I might find interesting, in regard to some of the things that you've written.

Yes I make up my mind slowly, rarely change it, and I'm happy in my steadfastness. No reviews.

If you ever want to have an interesting discussion I'm available for coffee or tea. I know what I write often makes people uncomfortable. Well I feel most people are too comfortable and disingenuine as a result. Me. I'm just a guy named Tony. Take it, leave it, piss and moan about it, and I will still be Tony. I move on, try new things, but living a life of conformity is bullshit. I figured this place would be oozing uncomformity. I was wrong. It's entirely too confirmist but with its own set of bullshit rules and lame standards. That is why not posting will be easier than anyone thinks. If I want to be a part of something conformist with bullshit standards I could choose any cult or religion. I'm still looking for something different. So I move on.

[pfmtony]

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Ah. Then by what I'm reading, I'm probably just reflecting my general distrust of people at times.

When I read that last line, I think of serial killers or something very scary. "I'll show you my dark secret" or "I'll not be a gentleman" could be construed as having rough sex.

If I guy was going to lure me in by being seductively dark, I think that I would prefer him to say something like, "I'm going to take you, Elisabeth, and hold your arms over your head while plunging my masculinity into your softness." or something more raw sounding. (Damn. When I try to write something dirty, it always ends up sounding like a poorly written romance novel, which is never my intent!)

I just see those lyrics differently and I haven't heard the song, either.

I'll take responsibility for reading it in a fashion that seemed menacing.

I understand. Fair enough.

I'm just a nice guy with a playful side. I like to try new things too.

If I were going to write something naughty I'd talk about how I grabbed her upper arms tightly with my strong hands pulling her towards me forcing me deeper into her as I stared lustfully into her eyes. Accepting my strength and desire, she wrapped her legs around me tightly and began to grind her hips on my pelvis; me inside; fighting off the buliding tension.....

But that would go in a review and might haber happened in s fantasy I had monday.....

[SD2011]

Originally Posted by pfmtony

I'm just a nice guy with a playful side. I like to try new things too.

If I were going to write something naughty I'd talk about how I grabbed her upper arms tightly with my strong hands pulling her towards me forcing me deeper into her as I stared lustfully into her eyes. Accepting my strength and desire, she wrapped her legs around me tightly and began to grind her hips on my pelvis; me inside; fighting off the buliding tension.....

But that would go in a review and might haber happened in s fantasy I had monday.....

Tony, are you sure you're not a chick? You did say awhile back that you drove a Miata... lol

Stay thirsty my friend! It's only ECCIE...

[pfmtony]

Originally Posted by SD2011

Tony, are you sure you're not a chick? You did say awhile back that you drove a Miata... lol

Stay thirsty my friend! It's only ECCIE...

I'm a guy with a few okays on P411..... Ask your favorite ladies . Oh and I'm always thirsty. I love that whole ad campaign. That was a brief 3 minute snippet from mondays fantasy. The other 57 were equally fantastic.

[hotindallas]

Oh, well. It was worth a shot.

Tony, in the four posts you've made since my last one, you used the terms "I", "I've", "I'm", "Me", or "My" (or other slight variants) a total of forty-eight (yes, that's 48) times. In FOUR posts.

You just don't get what people are trying to explain to you, and I'm through trying.

[pfmtony]

Originally Posted by hotindallas

Oh, well. It was worth a shot.

Tony, in the four posts you've made since my last one, you used the terms "I", "I've", "I'm", "Me", or "My" (or other slight variants) a total of forty-eight (yes, that's 48) times. In FOUR posts.

You just don't get what people are trying to explain to you, and I'm through trying.

I understood what you were saying. I used I again didn't I? Do you have a better pronoun to refer to ones self? Should I talk about myself in 3rd person?

So I should talk about everyone else instead? I should pile on ladies getting beaten down? I could use a lot of "yous" if i did that.

I dont think any pronoun indicates the quality of a post. Counting pronouns.... Waste of time. We just see things differently.

[pfmtony]

Originally Posted by pfmtony

If you ever want to have an interesting discussion I'm available for coffee or tea. I know what I write often makes people uncomfortable. Well I feel most people are too comfortable and disingenuine as a result. Me. I'm just a guy named Tony. Take it, leave it, piss and moan about it, and I will still be Tony. I move on, try new things, but living a life of conformity is bullshit. I figured this place would be oozing uncomformity. I was wrong. It's entirely too confirmist but with its own set of bullshit rules and lame standards. That is why not posting will be easier than anyone thinks. If I want to be a part of something conformist with bullshit standards I could choose any cult or religion. I'm still looking for something different. So I move on.

HotinD, chung, SD, anyone..... You want to impress me or convince me that my way of thinking is wrong, this paragraph is your only chance. All the other stuff is just bullshit, and we all know it.

I make you all a bit uncomfortable sometimes,by design. I figured fun seeking law breakers would be free thinking non conformists. Yet I get pleaded with non stop to conform..... Fuck that. Hell I've been told to conform, or else! I get PMs, texts, e mails, and harangued on the board to CONFORM... Uh no thanks. So how is this place different? It's not, but sometimes the sex is great. Well I can still get that. So yes, moving on really is my choice. Heck I never thought I'd get thought if as a menace for singing the toafies until today. The world never ceases to amaze. No matter how you slice it the single strongest desire on Earth is the desire to fit in. I say fuck that. I just want to find a place where peopkevare genuine, real, and whoever they want to be. Even in fantasyland people spend all day tripping all over themselves and each other.... To conform. That might be the list ironic thing I've ever encountered.

You can go back to counting pronouns now, checking punctuation, attacking people that don't do reviews and other easy shit. I wouldn't want anyone to start thinking for themselves. I'm happy to leave everyone in their cozy little spot if that's what they prefer at the end of the day too.

Kind of odd to me how the latest replies latched onto a project car,a song, some colorful writing, but missed the meat of my beef with the people here. And whining about my avatar? Really, that's even a topic? Go watch the movie or youtube that scene. That shit is hilarious. Fuckin' A!