Meet for a drink? Dinner date or both ?

[catnipdipper]

SG offers 5 evenings for the slight+ of 1 overnight gift. You get your days free and company every night. Days free = she is not with you.

Claro?

[Guest102513-1]

Originally Posted by MsElena

What you guys might be missing on SG's post or for any lady that is traveling with her client, the days might be free to the provider because the client is working during the day and isn't able to be with her, but wants her there just in case.

I've gone out of town with clients before and the days were me time because of work. Hell, there's been a few times that some of the night were for me too because work.

HE would be her main focus if HE were available 24/7. But even then its not to much to ask to have an hour or two to yourself.

Don't be jumping to conclusions.

Certainly in this situation, you're totally correct. Of course the provider would be free to have the days to herself, while HE worked.

But I AM NOT reading SG's offer that way, at all. The way I read it, irregardless, she does her thing during the day...the guy does his thing (i.e. work or not) during the day...then they have the connection at night.

So in that case HE would only be the focus in the evenings!

And of course, with any travel arrangement....I'm not saying that everyone should not have a couple of hours to themselves. Hell, when traveling, I need a couple of hours everyday away from myself as well

[Guest102513-1]

@catnipper...yes, I believe that is the offer. My thoughts.....

Personally, when I have taken a provider out of town, with a handful of exceptions, the length of the trip have been typically 2-3nights. The destinations have always been to places where there is plenty of fun stuff to do during the day....or enough fun stuff to do in the EVENINGS that basically day activities have been centered on recovering from night activities...ala Vegas, Carribean, Frisco, NY, etc.

The very few times I have done 5 to 7 nights were with providers I had lot's of history, so there, yea, there would be the occassional day or afternoon/morining where we would do our own thing...just like I do when I travel for fun with my best buddy.

I have never combined my professional business with a provider companion. If I did, certainly then, SG's offer would make a lot of sense.

I have only done it when the trip was strictly for playtime and fun. I typically do just the 2 to 3 nighters. And more importantly I would only pick someone who NOT ONLY I want to hang with throughtout the trip, but
of course she does as well (and yes with natural "me time only" breaks.

The thought of taking someone, paying the donation and out of town costs, and having her dictate to me when and where she is willing to include me in the fun time....well I'll be nice and just say I would pass

[catnipdipper]

I tend to shop for local ripe juicy tomatoes when I travel.

I vant to be alone......................... .......mostly

[Guest102513-1]

@catnipdipper....I hear ya, lol

I also enjoy the solitude of shopping for the local tomatoes when out of town as well

[CuteOldGuy]

You realize, I hope, that tomatoes are a fruit.

[Kaci Snow]

OK well all this talk about dinner and taking or not taking is making me hungry..lol Ill be somebodys dinner date tonight ! lol

[JackJohnson]

Originally Posted by Kaci Snow

OK well all this talk about dinner and taking or not taking is making me hungry..lol Ill be somebodys dinner date tonight ! lol

and go figure me not in Kansas City... pshah

[Kaci Snow]

LOL well just how luck seems to be sometimes ! It sucks though ! I have ordered Pizza and thanks to an awsome friend have a bottle of crown and some coke to mix it with and im watching the game till my "friend" gets here to play . Have an awsome night guys !

[guest010313]

Originally Posted by catnipdipper

If you think about it ........it has merit.

It would be impossible for 2 people to enjoy each other's company 24/7. I think she is suggesting that there are perhaps things in the locale that would interest her(museum or gallery) and that you might be a pain in the ass to bring along and dampen the experience. At the same time you might like to lay on the beach or play with the remote while she is gone.

It seems to be an issue of control? By her discount she should have the freedom to use the time to her advantage. I don't presume to speak for her but I doubt she meant that she would be out fucking half of San Francisco and then coming home to dinner with you.

It has merit.

It was a business trip you jackasses. HE was busy all day in conferences. Christ.

[guest010313]

Srry catnip, not you, I just got to the last page. But the other two.....

[1963Cobra]

Originally Posted by SillyGirl

It was a business trip you jackasses. HE was busy all day in conferences. Christ.

Boy have I missed that attitude !

[guest010313]

Ha ha quit my day job, more time to dick around on here.

[catnipdipper]

Oh boy I thought I fucked up for a minute or so.

Thanks SG for taking me off the list.

I am more than capable and have lots of experience of being a Jackass without being called out for it.

LOL

[growler]

Originally Posted by SillyGirl

Srry catnip, not you, I just got to the last page. But the other two.....

I guess that means lunch is out of the question.