First of all.. eccie would not have the membership that it does now, if ASPD had not been shut down, even with all of it's massive faulty equipment, and moderators and admins that had no business being in charge.
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Originally Posted by Joe Smith
one of the current owners and her mother pissed off so many people by doing exactly what you suggest happens here.
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Yes, you are correct.. during our time of mourning for my sisters sudden death, (she had just turned 35 years old 9 days before) during the time where we were getting hate mail..and death threats to our homes, people outing my family to their real life jobs, people sending letters to her child telling him that she was nothing but a 2 bit whore, during a time where every family.. even the family of a axe murder (for example) is allow to mourn for the loss of their loved one, the stress of it all finally got to me and I said some things I regret, I have since apologized for those things, and for those of you who missed that, Yes, I said some things I should not have, lost my temper, and spoke out of turn, I was brand spanking new to the whole hobby world here, and knew nothing of how or what to say or do, so yes I did everything wrong. I was very scared, and very very very hurt by the reaction of the community that she loved so very much. I watched my sister struggle to pay server bills for a few years after ASPD first opened, watched her go through some really rough times, and she always said the same thing.. she loved this community, that this was her family... no matter how dysfunctional.. this was her family.. this is where she fit in. To see those same people.. turn on her after her death hurt me, and pissed me off... now.. I have learned that it was a small handful of people making a LOT of noise, but at the time it felt like it was everyone. For grouping you all in with the few bad seeds, I am sorry. For speaking to you any less than I would to my best friends I am sorry. That is all I can say... and this is the last time I will say it. Accept the apology, or don't.. either way, I have found peace in knowing that the ones that truly are thankful for the things that my sister did for this community will always be lurking around, and that the bad seeds..well.. will always be bad seeds.
As far as Jade... I can not speak for her, nor will I try. Jade is Jade.. those of you who knew her before the death of my sister, will know that Jade speaks before she thinks most of the time, and everything is drama with her. One of many reasons she will never be a member of ERAPS. She is my mother and I love her, but I will not defend her actions. I believe that even though I was wrong, that she stepped over the line.. not once but many times.. and for the offensive things she said.. I will not apologize for her.. but I will extend my apologies to YOU.
With all of this being said.. barbie and everyone else is welcome at ERAPS (if you were banned from ASPD you will need to send me an e-mail and we will get you unbanned
angel@eraps.net) but, they will be forced to follow the rules, barbie has been warned about this ( not that its anyone's business) and if there are actions taken against our members for misconduct they will be handled with that member in private, with out the drama. A thread like this, will never be allowed at ERAPS. If it was just a discussion about people leaving that would be fine.. but the name calling and backstabbing and the childish high school talk in this thread are unreal.
Best of luck to you all!!
Angelimnot
ERAPS ADMIN
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