Question for the Ladies

[macbeth1000]

Originally Posted by CompanionSofia

I think one thing to consider is the fact that we don't have to see everyone that picks up the phone and calls.

I could have the most attractive, best-in-the-sack rich guy call me up and act like a complete prick, and I wouldn't see him. Happened yesterday.

I think there's a lot of ladies who don't mind, that's great. Or who will suck it up out of necessity. But while I am able to stay low volume and spend time with people who are super cool, I am happy to be able to choose who to see!

And Macbeth, remember these SB/SD Type relationships always involve a lot more time together and a lot more overnights than in the hobby world. I had a gentleman offer me a 6month stay in his villa in Europe with a generous allowance-- didn't take it because It interfered with school, and I didn't want to leave my real job. There's a lot of parameters that go into these arrangements!

So if money isnt the motivation, are you saying that you escort because you like sex, if so, why not give it away for free

[Guest070714-2]

Originally Posted by macbeth1000

So if money isnt the motivation, are you saying that you escort because you like sex, if so, why not give it away for free

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[GingerKatt]

Originally Posted by macbeth1000

So if money isnt the motivation, are you saying that you escort because you like sex, if so, why not give it away for free

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I really don't understand that question about giving it away it for free if you like what you do. I don't think my doctor gives it away for free when she sees me, but I think she loves her job. I know a defense contractor who loves his job, but he can't pay his mortgage with his love of job.

You do know it costs money to have food and shelter, right? If I was the president of a bank, a lawyer, or even a stay at home mom with a few kids, I need money to actually live and survive in this world.

And if I had a regular full time job, and just gave away lots of sex for fun, I would not be available for you when you wanted, most likely. I'd be busy at my regular job and tired when I got home. I wouldn't spend hours shopping for pretty lingerie and trying to keep myself in shape and attractive for you and meet you at the door in sensual outfits and high heels. I love what I do, but I have to have a roof over my head to do it! I have to eat, have medical care and buy makeup, clothes, and generally live like most Americans. I know I lot of people who love and are fulfilled by their occupations but how could they do the jobs for free and survive??

If I was born an heiress, well then yes. I'd be giving it away it free allright!!

[samantha thom]

Macbeth, also keep it mind we escorts are also human beings with the same feelings, goals, aspirations as other people. Money is great to have…but we also want to succeed in other things….it's not all about money. Some of us want to provide for our family, have an education or a degree or two, saving up for our own business, retirement, for a house, or for a second house, or for a vacation home, etc, etc, etc. We also want/need love like other people. We have other hobbies, passion, we play sports, we have normal friends outside the hobbies, families, relatives, pets. Money is important but it is not everything.
People I know in real world wouldn't have guessed that I do 'this' for a living. I look, act, behave, date, blend in like normal people.

[planojim]

You tell him Samantha! Macbeth...you could learn something from this lady for sure!
PJ

Originally Posted by samantha thom

Macbeth, also keep it mind we escorts are also human beings with the same feelings, goals, aspirations as other people. Money is great to have…but we also want to succeed in other things….it's not all about money. Some of us want to provide for our family, have an education or a degree or two, saving up for our own business, retirement, for a house, or for a second house, or for a vacation home, etc, etc, etc. We also want/need love like other people. We have other hobbies, passion, we play sports, we have normal friends outside the hobbies, families, relatives, pets. Money is important but it is not everything.
People I know in real world wouldn't have guessed that I do 'this' for a living. I look, act, behave, date, blend in like normal people.

[macbeth1000]

Originally Posted by samantha thom

Macbeth, also keep it mind we escorts are also human beings with the same feelings, goals, aspirations as other people. Money is great to have…but we also want to succeed in other things….it's not all about money. Some of us want to provide for our family, have an education or a degree or two, saving up for our own business, retirement, for a house, or for a second house, or for a vacation home, etc, etc, etc. We also want/need love like other people. We have other hobbies, passion, we play sports, we have normal friends outside the hobbies, families, relatives, pets. Money is important but it is not everything.
People I know in real world wouldn't have guessed that I do 'this' for a living. I look, act, behave, date, blend in like normal people.

If you are providing to feed your family and succeed ergo you are providing for the money.

I understand some providers do something else other than just escorting however, the bottom line is, they do this for the money. Even if they like sex, they still require payment for their services and yes I do understand that you dont have to give it away because you dont want to but if the bottom line is that people provide for the money, well if an older man like the one in the picture was to indeed provide the money, whats the big difference?

I also might add Ms. Thom, I understand your point of view and respect what you are saying.

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by macbeth1000

If you are providing to feed your family and succeed ergo you are providing for the money.

I understand some providers do something else other than just escorting however, the bottom line is, they do this for the money. Even if they like sex, they still require payment for their services and yes I do understand that you dont have to give it away because you dont want to but if the bottom line is that people provide for the money, well if an older man like the one in the picture was to indeed provide the money, whats the big difference?

I also might add Ms. Thom, I understand your point of view and respect what you are saying.

I cannot speak for other women. But I want to be selective in whom I see…because I can. I ask for age, ethnicity, make judgement from the way the men write/correspondent with me. I have preference in the age/ethnicity group (my target market) because I can. And to keep business to the level that I want. I don't want too much business…or too little business. I have other things besides 'making money' I want to do.

[macbeth1000]

Originally Posted by samantha thom

I cannot speak for other women. But I want to be selective in whom I see…because I can. I ask for age, ethnicity, make judgement from the way the men write/correspondent with me. I have preference in the age/ethnicity group (my target market) because I can. And to keep business to the level that I want. I don't want too much business…or too little business. I have other things besides 'making money' I want to do.

Fair enough, you are entitled to do so.

[Guest070714-2]

Originally Posted by samantha thom

I cannot speak for other women. But I want to be selective in whom I see…because I can. I ask for age, ethnicity, make judgement from the way the men write/correspondent with me. I have preference in the age/ethnicity group (my target market) because I can. And to keep business to the level that I want. I don't want too much business…or too little business. I have other things besides 'making money' I want to do.

I think this summarizes my feelings too

[macbeth1000]

Originally Posted by CompanionSofia

I think this summarizes my feelings too

This is off topic so dont get upset however in this day and age when Obama and the government are singing inclusive with everyone, Your statement i.e you are selective because you can...isnt that discriminatory? I would like to hear your thoughts and Samantha's thoughts?

[planojim]

You're right Sofia and Samantha! It's your product to sell and you can market it to whom you please.

Originally Posted by CompanionSofia

I think this summarizes my feelings too

[Jessika Sweetz]

Originally Posted by macbeth1000

So if money isnt the motivation, are you saying that you escort because you like sex, if so, why not give it away for free

if you want free p*ssy go to match.com

[planojim]

Match.com is mostly fake ads London.
Besides...there's no such thing as 'free pussy'. One way or another it will cost something.

Originally Posted by London Bridge

if you want free p*ssy go to match.com

[macbeth1000]

Originally Posted by London Bridge

if you want free p*ssy go to match.com

Come on, dont you know that there is nothing like FREE pussy. Add Dinner, drinks, etc and it doesnt add to free.

[Guest060214]

Originally Posted by macbeth1000

Fair enough, you are entitled to do so.

From the responses I noted these reasons:
- money
- self-employment

I think for the majority it would come down to those two. The money is as good or most likely better than they would earn doing anything else. It's not about loving sex, it's a job. If they love their job, fine, but that's not why they choose to see multiple men for sex.

The self-employment is a big plus. Work their own schedule, see who they want to, when they want to, how many they want to...