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Old 05-04-2017, 08:32 PM   #46
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I continually notice people tossing around the term "regular". Please indulge me and post your definition of the term. Weekly? Twice weekly?

Yes I understand that everyone has their own definition, however since it's a part of the thread topic I'd be curious what "regular" means to you please.
My definition of regular would be like your go to girl. Not necessarily X times per week...it could be that you're the provider a hobbyist calls when he wants a session everytime.

This could be once a week... Once a month ect.

Just my .02
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Old 05-04-2017, 09:50 PM   #47
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I've got a girl I'm totally in love with, and I'm pretty sure she knows it, but we only see each other once every three or four months. She is the best I have ever been with, but I know I'll never leave my wife, so I intentionally restrict the times I contact her so I won't do anything stupid, like tell her how much I love her. I've never told her that because I don't want anything to change.

Over time, I'll get over her. In the meantime, I see different girls every week to ease the infatuation.
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Old 05-05-2017, 12:05 AM   #48
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I've got a girl I'm totally in love with, and I'm pretty sure she knows it, but we only see each other once every three or four months. She is the best I have ever been with, but I know I'll never leave my wife, so I intentionally restrict the times I contact her so I won't do anything stupid, like tell her how much I love her. I've never told her that because I don't want anything to change.

Over time, I'll get over her. In the meantime, I see different girls every week to ease the infatuation.
Sounds like a pretty great coping mechanism to me.
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Old 05-05-2017, 03:31 AM   #49
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I would never see same woman back to back sessions. Probably need to see at least 2 or 3 different ladies before I do a repeat. See the potential dangers about being overly infatuated with one and don't need that issue in my life.
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Old 05-05-2017, 01:14 PM   #50
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I would prefer only seeing the same provider, but looking for that one with the right mix of attributes, the ever elusive ATF.
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Old 05-05-2017, 05:59 PM   #51
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Sounds like a pretty great coping mechanism to me.
Thanks - it was the best thing I could come up with!
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Old 05-06-2017, 09:45 PM   #52
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I would like to get opinions from the providers.

I think I am being "fired" lol from a regular provider I have been seeing about once every 4-5 weeks.
We haven't had any bad interactions.
I am getting the cold shoulder. She is still providing so it isn't a break from the hobby.

I know it is her choice so not complaining, but I was just wondering how often this happens with the providers?
I can't be 100% certain if she is dropping me, but I don't want to contact her anymore if she is out of respect.

Have you ever stopped seeing a regular or semi-regular client for reasons other than the obvious reasons? ( safety, negotiating rates, etc. )

What types of hints do you give to the clients to let them know you may want to end the client/provider relationship?
Your first mistake is you fell for her ass and your second mistake is that you actually give a damn if rather she don't want to see you again or not SMDH!!!! 3rd mistake was your ass had a regular set schedule for when you saw her never ever ever!!!!! do that shit always keep they ass guessing on when you will see them again, she got comfortable and made you fell special and important and you fell in love with her ass lol wow dude. I think you need to take a break from the hobby because you care wayyyy to much about what she thinks or feel, this shit is not real dude it all a fantasy.
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Old 05-14-2017, 08:18 AM   #53
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I continually notice people tossing around the term "regular". Please indulge me and post your definition of the term. Weekly? Twice weekly?....
Someone that I feel completely comfortable with and enjoy their company enough to want to see them again, of which I always make clear with some kind of follow up note after a session.

They've got my number ... I've got theirs ... they just have to text or call and say, hey...lets get together.
No screening, no PM bullshit... no back and forth with email.

It might be once per week or even once every two months.

But in my definition .... that is a regular.
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Old 05-14-2017, 08:25 AM   #54
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Me regular AFT is about 1x month , just saying
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Old 05-15-2017, 09:40 PM   #55
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Let's put the shoe on the other foot. OP, if you were the one wanting to call it quits with a provider you have been seeing regularly, how would you handle it? Would you tell her you were moving on or would you just not call her again?

My personal opinion is which ever side decides enough is enough they should tell the other person. Why? Because even though this is a hobby and a business transaction and we should not get all emotional, end the end we are all still human beings and there is a lot of intimacy between client and provider and both parties deserve the respect and courtesy of being treated like a human being. It all comes down to treating others the way you want to be treated.

And when someone ends it, don't get all butt hurt about it. Just tell them thanks for all the good times and best of luck to you. It ain't rocket surgery people.
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Old 05-16-2017, 03:14 AM   #56
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I was going to start another thread stating golforfish's point. Why can't a woman just say "I'm not/no longer interested".

Ghosting of other human beings is uncivil. The amount of time wasted by sudden stops in conversation leads to sending out multiple requests, which in turn wastes multiple other's time(you can choose only one). I hate doing that, and still refuse to do so, but it is tempting.

I understand that there isn't any short term benefit to being civil to those you don't intend to extract anything from, but Kharma has a long memory, and eventually sets thing aright.
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Old 05-16-2017, 03:19 AM   #57
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I would prefer only seeing the same provider, but looking for that one with the right mix of attributes, the ever elusive ATF.
Exactly.
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Bump.

Why? Well, ... because I can :-)

Also, I had a super creepy session yesterday. Will NOT be seeing this client again.
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Old 08-06-2020, 12:25 PM   #59
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i would just be honest and upfront..
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Old 08-06-2020, 04:39 PM   #60
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Bump.

Why? Well, ... because I can :-)

Also, I had a super creepy session yesterday. Will NOT be seeing this client again.
Holy 2017 is back! I wonder how he feels about his paid session?
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