Why Don't Men Like Girls that aren't GFE?

[ACharmXo]

Originally Posted by bankai

gfe is gfe the good escorts know to turn every man into Brad Pitt to keep the bills paid. those who don't understand that don't do as well as the ones who do.

truth be told alot of girls really get into it thinking easy money. everything covered, no talking, just robotic and it's a turn off. I hope more guys stay away from them.

I agree it's about provided an experience, not so much a service. THAT is how you gain regulars.
I always associated the GFE with passion and sensuality vs the PSE more hardcore and aggressive.. I never associated either or with covered or non covered.
I know BF/GF who have covered sex and I've watched porn with condoms... so I always thought it was more about the experience being offered... making love vs hardcore f*ck

[bankai]

women just think it's easy money, I bet op probably has a experience with a John that gave her too much lip and she was turned off.

not all women but I see alot. of girls who really think they can do little work for a big payoff.

[joesmo888]

I think that it is up to the provider what she chooses to do. there are some that start out covered with no kissing and then get more comfortable as they get in the business.

reading reviews is up to the hobbyist. if the reviews say CBJ then you should expect that

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by joesmo888

I think that it is up to the provider what she chooses to do. there are some that start out covered with no kissing and then get more comfortable as they get in the business.

reading reviews is up to the hobbyist. if the reviews say CBJ then you should expect that

Yep. They should do what's comfortable for them. It doesn't really matter if a provider says she's GFE. The guys will make that determination when researching them. If a guy thinks a provider is GFE enough for his liking then he'll try seeing her. If not, then he probably won't try seeing her.

[Raw dog]

Because it's boring

[GoAheadMkMyDay]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Wrong. True GFE involves a lot of begging and blue balls.

No, Pyramider, that's a WIFE experience.

[Pooyie!]

Well Mya, I think you made a good decision to post this question on the National Board. You have an opportunity here to say why we should place you higher on our Lists. If you ask someone why they would not see you, The CBJ is a convenient excuse, but in reality, I think most clients compile a mental checklist of attributes, and you don't have enough checks, because you don't have a Showcase, have only two Reviews, and those Reviews don't rave about exceptional skills or passions, at least for those of us who don't have access to the complete Review. For me, I like a Lady who is educated, is intelligent, and can KISS. That will Trump CBJ any day. What do you do well? How many checks should you have on the list?

[SoSexyMsT]

Like anything else, its a personal choice. I love providing gfe, btw.

[Demo x]

I am a BBBJ guy all day every day!!! I will accept CBJ based on attributes and other services provided but since I am spending my hard earned money I want what I like to feel satisfied. Since i am uniquely qualified because I spent time with Mya E. her services was OK, I enjoyed my time with her but I would have preferred the BBBJ. Her price point was great if she would have provided BBBJ she would have made my regular rotation.

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1969089

[prograde]

Now that I think about it I've never repeated with any provider who did cbj.

[EastTexasGrown]

https://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=157225

Link to a Playmate who comes through my area often. I will not see her as she is not GFE. But she does WELL here and wherever she goes. She is honest and up front about what she offers. You don't even have to open up a review to know she is NON GFE. So no one is disappointed when they see her. Let's face it, most guys who are commenting here normally do A LOT of research prior to a meet. But there are so many guys who will simply look at the showcase, see a pretty picture or two, look at her rates and services offered, maybe open up a review or two, and then see her. Then in a review, the will talk down about how they wish she had kissed or given a BBBJ. They might give her a YES in the review but will probably never see her again just as PROGRADE mentioned above.

I think I remember someone prior to me commenting that GFE has nothing to do with what you do or don't do but it has to do with the way they make you FEEL. I agree and also say BULLSHIT!! I FEEL I am getting a GFE experience when there is a good amount of kissing involved and I see her head bobbing up and down on my uncovered joy stick.

A previous poster mentioned that GFE has to do with the level of passion. I will agree but to me passion comes from sensory mechanisms that are triggered through kissing and felt in a BBBJ. It doesn't matter if I unload or not, I do feel a level of passion from a woman who has a desire to drain my balls. I can't​ feel that level of passion when the cover tells me she doesn't want to touch my cock with her mouth. WELL HELL!! I don't want to touch your cooter with my mouth either. Boy, now we got some passion flowing. I'm ready to leave and would really like my $ back!!

It comes down to being up front in the first place. When a hobbiest feels he has been mislead through photos taken from strange angles or through a misleading "Services Offered" ... then he ain't coming back and you will continually be checking references on new clients who also will not come back when they feel mislead. It is a never ending revolving door. Just think, if half or more of your clients are regulars, you would spend a lot less time being frustrated because your sisters are bad about giving references.

Embrace what you do or don't do and proudly show it. If you want to continue saying you offer GFE Services but have a list of thing such as NO KISSING or NO BBBJ, then show that in your wording on your Showcase that describes you. Many ladies place that info just above what is required in regards to Reference Checks for them to see a hobbiest.

Thanks for your time!!
ETG

[MsLondonB]

Because men want their moneys worth. GFE girls are more popular than non GFE girls.And GFE girls charge more than non GFE girls.I've been doing bbbj for 2 years and I'm clean as a whistle.but it's what you're comfortable with.At the end of the day,theres a market for everything.I know of some guys that are perfectly OK with covered bj and no kissing

London
Bay

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by MsLondonB

Because men want their moneys worth.

London
Bay

That about sums it up. Non-GFE gals always leave me wanting more. I didn't get into the hobby to be left wanting more after a date.

[rcinokc]

Originally Posted by cowboy8055

Non-GFE gals always leave me wanting more. I didn't get into the hobby to be left wanting more after a date.

This. Beyond that it's about guys buying what they want. If I want a new BMW I'm not going to go to the Ford dealer and settle for a Ford because the dealer doesn't sell BMW's. I'm going to go where I can buy what I want. Same thing applies here.

[Claire She Blows]

After reading all of the comments, it makes me wonder if the CBJ providers should just cut out the BJ services completely. I mean, are there providers out there advertising that they love CBJ? I would think - and I'm stereotyping here, so ladies, feel free to chime in - that the CBJ-only providers just don't like giving head. Because there are those women who just don't like doing it, and most of y'all are married to them, lol.