How to do a review of your favorite provider without dangling her off the edge.

[Tx Noob]

Originally Posted by petiteassman

HAD bothered to write the negative review you would not have wasted your time and money. i take reviews with a grain of salt but if 5 guys said cbj i am not expecting bbbj and if 4 guys describe as bbw not expecting a spinner. the consistantly great revies spur me to book the consistantly bad ones prevent me from booking. if we all decide we would rather not say anything at all if we don't have anything good to say maybe we should not be surprised or upset when we get less than we expect.

Perhaps I should have clarified myself. If I experience a bad session, such as b&s, upselling, ncns x3, being attacked by a pimp with a purple lightsaber, or anything else that you could imagine, I will blast it all over this board louder than a Marshall turned to 11! But just because I have bad chemistry with the provider, or some little expectation was not met such as cbj opposed to bbbj, does not mean I have the right to slam her with a negative review, as I have seen on this board. I try to have a positive outlook in everything I do, and I realize that sometimes things just doesn't work out the way I want them to. No use bitching about it till my face turns blue.

If that's wrong, then I'll just go over here with my tequila and corona and get my lap dances and go home.

[bigdog0311]

Originally Posted by Tx Noob

Perhaps I should have clarified myself. If I experience a bad session, such as b&s, upselling, ncns x3, being attacked by a pimp with a purple lightsaber, or anything else that you could imagine, I will blast it all over this board louder than a Marshall turned to 11! But just because I have bad chemistry with the provider, or some little expectation was not met such as cbj opposed to bbbj, does not mean I have the right to slam her with a negative review, as I have seen on this board. I try to have a positive outlook in everything I do, and I realize that sometimes things just doesn't work out the way I want them to. No use bitching about it till my face turns blue.

If that's wrong, then I'll just go over here with my tequila and corona and get my lap dances and go home.

I have to disagree with you on the bolded statement you made and the reasons are this: If the provider is "working" and taking you money, regardless of her mood, personal problems, ect. then the "chemistry" should, at the very least, be of where she shows a good time and that IOP is prevalent. If her reviews state that she does BBBJ and she gives you a CBJ, not because you disrespected her or you do not know what personal hygiene is, but because she does not feel like doing a BBBJ for you for any other reason, then when you write a review, are you going leave that out cuz it may hurt her feelings? FUCK THAT. Report it, and if it sounds negative, so what? It is your money and you are the one that needs to have a good time for it!

[petiteassman]

seems to be the location

Originally Posted by LovingKayla

How do you twist "don't post real sensitive info" into "bad reviews need to be posted"?


Where am I? The twilight zone?

[johnnylongcaulking]

I'm always amazed at the complaints some providers have concerning the factual content of reviews. You have to know that in this industry, you are the master of your destiny until you exchange cash for "time". Once that transaction transpires, all bets are off. It may not be "right" but it's reality. Deal with the realities of your situations rather than attempting to impose more moderation on an already overly moderated forum. If you don't want a review of an activity, either don't do the activity or stop advertising on this particular forum. That's not to say the review won't come out on any number of other provider review sites because it probably will. Therefore, logic dictates the only way you can control this is to control what activities you participate in. There's only one way to keep a secret. Kill anyone else who knows that secret before they blab. Since none of us, I hope, are murderers, brace yourself for unwanted review content because it's cumming (pun intended).

PA, you make excellent points about the content of reviews on this board in light of current administration's policies on what can and cannot be published in a review or who can or cannot be reviewed. However, you need to:

a. Learn to communicate using the English language and not whatever hybrid bastardization you are currently floundering with.

b. Learn that you attract more pussy with honey than vinegar. Wait, is that even true? I should ask Monistat and Massengill about that.

If anyone is offended by the content of my post, simply click on the below link to register a complaint.

Complaint Register

[petiteassman]

most of your rationale i think its the idea of mentioning cbj as opposed to bbbj being considered offensive by some providers that i take exception with. i don't think mentioning a fact like that is a slam by any means but may be exactly the info that might be a deal breaker for some hence saving that guy a less than enjoyable time.

Originally Posted by Tx Noob

Perhaps I should have clarified myself. If I experience a bad session, such as b&s, upselling, ncns x3, being attacked by a pimp with a purple lightsaber, or anything else that you could imagine, I will blast it all over this board louder than a Marshall turned to 11! But just because I have bad chemistry with the provider, or some little expectation was not met such as cbj opposed to bbbj, does not mean I have the right to slam her with a negative review, as I have seen on this board. I try to have a positive outlook in everything I do, and I realize that sometimes things just doesn't work out the way I want them to. No use bitching about it till my face turns blue.

If that's wrong, then I'll just go over here with my tequila and corona and get my lap dances and go home.

[Guest122922]

There is no use...I can see now....of bringing some sort of civilization to this board.
It is too inundaded with BACKPAGERS....who have corrupted every sense of this crappy ass hobby. This is including hobbyists....and providers, both.

Johnny LC - those of you who place the women on a shelf....with tags attached....as merchandise....indicating the "features" of that particular product. Well....You are womanizing bastards.
You EARN your right to get special treatment in this industry.....you don't just DEMAND IT !
Now....for those girls who lay themselves out for that treatment....I can assure you....it is fucking you up in the head...and the guy that is instigating it should be lined up in front of a firing squad.

Sorry...I've had a tough morning already. But I WILL SAY....those of us (who, btw...DO NOT ADVERTISE specifics) having the self respect we do....will NEVER see the likes of your type. You can DAMN WELL BET....that I regulate who I will provide services to and what services I will provide (and because I screen with that intention, I've never had a problem with a bad review or revealing specialty services, revealing exact location of my incall and/or bashing me because of bad chemistry).
That being said....in my 5 years of hobbying...I've only had two or three clients that I did not click with, but walked away with that understanding and no hard feelings.

Somehow....the purpose of this thread has been mangled from
"protecting the provider's personal information and specialty services"
......to
"giving negative reviews because the girl deserves it".

Stand on your soapbox.....
Have no sympathy.....
Screw up some lives.....
ya..whatever...just do what you do....

I'm not feeling warm hugs right now...

Torre

[johnnylongcaulking]

Torre, I'm guessing you read a WHOLE lot of emotion into my matter of fact posting. Did you click on the complaint register afterwards? If you didn't, it is safe to click that link. It's simply a link to a "rick-roll" on youtube. That being said, if you took my assessment of how women are treated as how I specifically treat women then you are mostly wrong. In the end, this industry is about objectification of people on both sides of any "business" transaction. Sure, many times there is a much deeper connection made between a provider and a client during an encounter. I'm not surprised by that one bit at all as it is one of the most intimate events two humans can share with one another. However, in the end, there's always the fact that the guy is paying the woman for "time" and the woman is using the guy for cash. If those two elements did not exist in every hobby transaction, then they become civvy engagements and fall outside the purview of what this board was set up for. Escort Client Community Information Exchange (ECCIE). Again, you unjustly lump me into a pile I simply stated existed.

The giving negative reviews portion of this conversation was drawn from Main Point 2 and 2B by the OP. It's a direct inference from the "ask her for permission before posting a review". FFS people, live in the reality you live in. Stop wishing it were different and do something different that will actually change it. I was hungry so I bought food and ate. I didn't sit there and pontificate on why my neighbor should share his food with me. The reality is simply that if you do something with someone for cash, it's going to get reviewed whether you like it or not. Again, I'm NOT saying this is right or wrong, I'm merely acknowledging the reality of the situation. There, I'm done. May I help you back onto your high horse? Maybe we can ride our high horses together and watch rainbows come out of puppy asses together and see fairies that fart sunshine.

[Guest122922]

Thanks JLC. Palms up...fingers interlocked....I will step right back up on my horse :-)

I appreciate your most eloquent description of how the hobby is perceived. You are correct in many ways. Perhaps I should state (as I have stated somewhat in other threads) that the "food" you buy can either be from MCDONALDS (which in the end is mostly bad for you)...or from BOB'S CHOP HOUSE....of which you savor, delight in the service and enjoy and pay highly for. YOU know what type of food to expect for which venue you choose.

Yes, cash for services will always be reviewed. Just please walk lightly when it comes to this hobby. Many of these girls are giving more than their soul can afford, but they have to survive.

Call me JOAN OF ARC....I'm all over it.

Many hugs to you JLC.

Love to all!
Torre

[johnnylongcaulking]

Originally Posted by Torre Tames

Thanks JLC. Palms up...fingers interlocked....I will step right back up on my horse :-)

I appreciate your most eloquent description of how the hobby is perceived. You are correct in many ways. Perhaps I should state (as I have stated somewhat in other threads) that the "food" you buy can either be from MCDONALDS (which in the end is mostly bad for you)...or from BOB'S CHOP HOUSE....of which you savor, delight in the service and enjoy and pay highly for. YOU know what type of food to expect for which venue you choose.

Yes, cash for services will always be reviewed. Just please walk lightly when it comes to this hobby. Many of these girls are giving more than their soul can afford, but they have to survive.

Oh, I most definitely agree with the premise that you get out of life what you put into it. By corollary, the same holds true for you get what you pay for (a big mac or a mac daddy of all steaks). Speaking of meat, I must now attend to mine.

[LovingKayla]

Originally Posted by petiteassman

so interested in keeping her levels of activities quiet specially from her husband why she would give a stranger info about her marriage and children , offer services when in financial straits that she would not normally offer. i also wonder why if you were so concerned about her well being and discretion would take advantage of a situation to get a service out of her she clearly was not comfortable doing as opposed to perhaps just tipping a little more for her regular services.

Wow. Those are two of the best run on sentences I've ever seen. That's saying a lot.

[LovingKayla]

Originally Posted by johnnylongcaulking

Oh, I most definitely agree with the premise that you get out of life what you put into it. By corollary, the same holds true for you get what you pay for (a big mac or a mac daddy of all steaks). Speaking of meat, I must now attend to mine.

Cheap tools, parts and hookers is false economy.

[guest061212-1]

Torre, I feel ya.

But their has always been the ugly truth that providers are simply a commodity. We pick and choose who we want to see based on their looks and services and the cost.

As human beings, we try to overcome that and the true "escorts" and "gents" treat each other with respect and dignity. I agree that the street corner has moved to the cyber-street corner to the detriment of what it used to be like. C'est la vie. We adapt overcome, improvise.


Heading back on topic... It sure sound clear to me that the women are saying that your mileage ain't about the looks.

[johnnylongcaulking]

Originally Posted by LovingKayla

Cheap tools, parts and hookers is false economy.

Forgive my obtuseness. Could you elaborate on the above metaphor? I still haven't had my 4th cup of coffee.

[LovingKayla]

You get what you pay for. If you buy cheap tools and parts, you will most likely have to buy them again because they broke. You might as well spend the extra $$ to get the good stuff first.

That extends to anything in life. Hookers.... You also get what you pay for (usually.)

It was just something my dad has always said and seemed to fit. (except the hooker part, that was all me.)

[johnnylongcaulking]

So you agreed with me when I agreed with Torre? That's good to know...I guess.