Overnights: like them or not?

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by Pangolier

In life, I try my best to spend money on things that I find to be worthwhile. That being said, if a provider asked me to stay over, what possible reason would I have to say no? Because I have an obligation bright and early the next morning? Or because that's not the kind of thing I'd ever pay for?


Thus I would never approach a provider and ask for an overnight in exchange for compensation. If I ever have a provider offer it to me complimentary then I may choose to discuss the experience on this forum, though the identity of the woman would remain classified. In this particular case money has proven itself more valuable than time, because I can always choose to do something else while I'm awake or sleep by myself for free. I don't claim to represent other men, but personally I choose not to pay for "dates."

Overnights/All day can be fun and the per hour rate is extremely lower than a 1 or 2 hour session. The thing about it is, I am not paying a provider to sleep at night nor sit and watch tv during the day, we are going to be having some sort of sexual activity pretty much during the entire time we are together.

As far as dating goes, you pay for it, from buying the meal, drinks and the entertainment. The difference is, with a provider, you get sex on that first date and you do not have to listen to their personal problems, in the real world, after you spent all that money, you are probably going to get a kiss on the cheek or a friendly hand shake at the end of the date.

[papadee]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

...As far as dating goes, you pay for it, from buying the meal, drinks and the entertainment. The difference is, with a provider, you get sex on that first date and you do not have to listen to their personal problems, in the real world, after you spent all that money, you are probably going to get a kiss on the cheek or a friendly hand shake at the end of the date.

Never understood why us in the hobby try to use this tired sentiment. Dating & marriage are entirely separate from the hobby, so why try to tear them down?


There are many stories in the hobby of sharing TMI. Many providers describe listening to clients as part of their work. And yes, you may not get sex on the first date, but when the sex starts, you can get a weekend of sex for less than $150.00 But the price isn't the important thing. She will listen to your problems too. (pretty chauvinistic to think of only "their personal problems"). It's just a tired trope.

[Pangolier]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

Overnights/All day can be fun and the per hour rate is extremely lower than a 1 or 2 hour session. The thing about it is, I am not paying a provider to sleep at night nor sit and watch tv during the day, we are going to be having some sort of sexual activity pretty much during the entire time we are together.

As far as dating goes, you pay for it, from buying the meal, drinks and the entertainment. The difference is, with a provider, you get sex on that first date and you do not have to listen to their personal problems, in the real world, after you spent all that money, you are probably going to get a kiss on the cheek or a friendly hand shake at the end of the date.

So are you saying that if I go on a date with a girl, and we split the dinner tab, that I paid for the gas mileage on my drive to the restaurant? Or maybe the clothes I wore that night? The same clothes I probably bought weeks or months ago for some other intended purpose, such as wearing them to a business function. I also pay an electric bill each month, and that has nothing to do with women as a species.


If at this juncture I decided I wanted a formal date, I'd go out and look for one. That's not in the cards for me at this particular moment, but if it was and the woman I met asked me to pay her for her "time", I'd be behind the wheel of my vehicle with an empty passenger seat, and she'd be standing on the sidewalk hailing a taxi. I don't see why it's so hard for some people to distinguish between dating and soliciting. Granted, there's also a very distinct difference between having a girlfriend and having a woman "attached" to a man where money is a factor in the attachment. I think most causal dates are less likely to experience financial benefits when compared to long term partners or spouses.

[RetiredSubmariner]

Originally Posted by papadee

... Many providers describe listening to clients as part of their work. And yes, you may not get sex on the first date, but when the sex starts, you can get a weekend of sex for less than $150.00 But the price isn't the important thing. She will listen to your problems too. (pretty chauvinistic to think of only "their personal problems"). It's just a tired trope.

I am a man who is heavily weighted by problems. I try hard to keep smiling. But there have been many times when the weight I carry has been more than I can bear.

Female friends have been available for me to open up to, but I need to trust them first.

When talking to a provider, there is already a level of trust between us. She has a secret identity that she needs to protect.

I have experienced my self that providers are often the best listeners and therapists.

[Mature Companion]

Done it. Did it. Love it. Enjoy it. Will continue to enjoy overnights with some amazing lovers!!

Originally Posted by Goose7093

I’ve done overnights before, and I have enjoyed them. I realize that’s a long time for a lady to be on her game, so I usually have some downtime planned.

I have to know her some before considering. I personally think it is worth it, though I understand some question paying her to sleep.

What’s your thoughts? Done it, wouldn’t do it?

Ladies, is it difficult to be working that long? Do you like to sleep I. Your own bed? Would you do it with the right client?

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

I done them a lot , and have always enjoyed them
we do fun things outside of the incall or outside of the outcall .. Dinner and movies and that's what he want's and just relaxing and With BCD fun

and really only do them with someone I like a lot and can hang with then longer then 3hrs ,,

Nothing like trying to sleep with someone you don't know much
I have hard time sleeping with strangers any ways ,,
who knows what could happen
I need a lot of trust to sleepover