Dinner date

[FtWhobbyist]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

I can't see me charging anyone to just go out to lunch or dinner and watch me eat. And I am the worlds slowest person to eat, promise.

I've gone to brunch and dinner, had drinks and even night clubs or other events off the clock.
That comes with building a rapport as mentioned.
And being screened.

I did just recently offer a 4 hour Dinner/Drinks & Date in my recent AD and Showcase.

I need to start hanging out with Berkleigh

But, while I would be willing to take a provider to dinner and even give her something in compensation for her time. I would prefer that the compensation be the meal and possibly a gift or something similar. I would never pay what some providers are looking for in exchange for a meal. And I definitely wouldn't pay an hourly rate for dinner. I like to eat at nice restaurants and sometimes dinner can run long. Am I to pay for another hour just because the kitchen screwed up our order? Nevertheless, if I were to ask a provider to dinner only, it would be one that I was very familiar with and would probably plan for it to be a day that she had nothing going on or the week she's out of commission.

I understand that a girl's time is valuable and while she's there she isn't making money. And the girl is also providing a service by being with that person and giving them the attention they're looking for. But I feel that some providers going rate for a night out is a little ridiculous. Which is why I could only assume that many of them don't actually get asked to dinner with no assumptions of service. If I'm paying your going rate, we're not spending the time chatting and eating... Well at least not eating dinner.

However, this all still begs the question of why not just ask a non-professional to dinner and save what seems could be 100s or 1000s of dollars?

[Guest072015-2]

Originally Posted by eng

$50/hr is awful ?? That is over $100k a year. That is pretty good in real world and I am sure pretty good in DFW area.
Maybe bad deal for giving up ur pussy but u will not be giving ur pussy for 4-5 hrs.

I really get aggravated when people make this assumption of salary. Said girl who was paid $50/hr for her services does not infact make 100k a year. If she made 50/hr 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, for an entire year, then yes, she'd make 96k a year (and I'd be making 816k a year!).

But we all know that is not the case.

Let's get real please.

In regards to the subject at hand, I often have dinner or lunch with my favorite regulars off the clock.

When you find a favorite girl and continue to see her, build a rapport, she would surely love to join you for dinner with no expectation of compensation aside from the meal itself. That's the advantage of being a regular.

But please don't approach us as a new client assuming we are hard up for meals and should consider eating with you just for the heck of it, and then label us as gold diggers because we don't want to. Many of us are attractive women who have no problems being taken out on regular dates in civilian life. We are not here for conventional dates.

If compensating a provider for her time , even if it's just dinner, seems outrageous to you, I suggest you join match.com.

Not trying to be a jerk, just not sure what it is exactly you're complaining about???

[Guest110416]

Originally Posted by FtWhobbyist

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However, this all still begs the question of why not just ask a non-professional to dinner and save what seems could be 100s or 1000s of dollars?

Comparing real life to hobby life, the rationale is pretty clear.

In real life, you never know what you are going to get with a lady, depending upon many factors, you do not know if you are going to get to do anything with them. It is all a guessing game for the most part. When they do tell you yes, when going BCD, she may be apt to play the YMMV card on you and you never know what to expect. Dinner is also a tricky subject as they do have to eat as well, but question is, do they want to eat with you?

In the hobby world, providers get paid to go BCD and you get the guarantee of getting laid, so I hate to burst the bubbles of they guys who think they have grade A seduction skills, but it is not your savoir fare that gets them to set with you and she gives up the pussy, it is your money! And, if a provider is very good at her acting skills, she may give off the impression to the guys who tend to blur the line between the two worlds, thinking she actually likes him, that dating/going to dinner with the provider who treated him so well BCD, she would certainly be up for that as well, right?

Going to dinner with a provider would be considered a perk in the relationship between provider and hobbyist after a past foundation is built, many times, on the spur of the moment, not that she gets paid to do so, but that she does have to eat sometime and to have a guy pay for that dinner, drinks, dessert and get the tip, what more could she ask for?

[Angel Ryder]

Originally Posted by Alexie Amor

I really get aggravated when people make this assumption of salary. Said girl who was paid $50/hr for her services does not infact make 100k a year. If she made 50/hr 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, for an entire year, then yes, she'd make 96k a year (and I'd be making 816k a year!).

But we all know that is not the case.

Let's get real please.

In regards to the subject at hand, I often have dinner or lunch with my favorite regulars off the clock.

When you find a favorite girl and continue to see her, build a rapport, she would surely love to join you for dinner with no expectation of compensation aside from the meal itself. That's the advantage of being a regular.

But please don't approach us as a new client assuming we are hard up for meals and should consider eating with you just for the heck of it, and then label us as gold diggers because we don't want to. Many of us are attractive women who have no problems being taken out on regular dates in civilian life. We are not here for conventional dates.

If compensating a provider for her time , even if it's just dinner, seems outrageous to you, I suggest you join match.com.

Not trying to be a jerk, just not sure what it is exactly you're complaining about???

God I adore you right now for this answer. HIGH FIVE. Yes. Right on the nose!

[Angel Ryder]

Also, this right here is exactly why I keep my business and personal life separate. I once had a dinner date with a client that was followed by BCD activities and since dinner went "so well," he felt comfortable enough asking me if he could spend the night with me, free of charge. I told him no, but he could stay for an hour and pay the rate we agreed upon.

[Guest072015-2]

Originally Posted by FtWhobbyist

However, this all still begs the question of why not just ask a non-professional to dinner and save what seems could be 100s or 1000s of dollars?

I imagine because apart from the no hassle and no drama, certain professionals give some the opportunity to spend time with a woman who is otherwise outside their league. I don't speak for everyone, but having dinner with a woman who is stealing admiring and envious glances from every other man in the room is not something that is attainable to just anyone, unless you're rich, HOT, famous, or just damn lucky. Of course let us not forget her charming and witty company. It's not all just about her looks but they certainly don't hurt!

Otherwise, yes, why just not ask a non-professional to ," have dinner, and convo , and go your separate ways" as the OP put it.

This is exactly how I even got into this business. My very first "client" was a man who compensated me to have just lunch with him every day for a week because he felt it would increase his chances with some woman he worked with. The crazy thing is, it actually worked?! He got the girl. Anyway, that was my introduction into this business and now ... here I am.

[guest071618-1]

Originally Posted by Alexie Amor

I really get aggravated when people make this assumption of salary. Said girl who was paid $50/hr for her services does not infact make 100k a year. If she made 50/hr 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, for an entire year, then yes, she'd make 96k a year (and I'd be making 816k a year!).

really get aggravated, when someone thinks $50/hr is not much (not u but, per previous comment).

$50/hr x 40 hr/week x 52weeks/year = $104,000/year

[guest071618-1]

Of course u don't have 40 hr a week appointments...and you pussy probably cannot take it anyway. At $$-$$$$ hr, we are paying u excutive hrly wage... I have no problem paying that for certain service from certain providers.... But not all providers and not for dinner

[WOMBAT]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

I can't see me charging anyone to just go out to lunch or dinner and watch me eat. And I am the worlds slowest person to eat, promise.

I've gone to brunch and dinner, had drinks and even night clubs or other events off the clock.
That comes with building a rapport as mentioned.
And being screened.

I did just recently offer a 4 hour Dinner/Drinks & Date in my recent AD and Showcase.

And let me say that Berkleigh as a dinner partner is well worth any expense, especially over sushi at NOBU's. Problem is keeping your mind on the conversation with that luscious body in front of you. Yum!

[WOMBAT]

Originally Posted by mtubbs90

Just curious what would you ladies charge to go to dinner. Thats it. No BCD or anything just dinner and convo and go our separate ways.

I don't know why this thread has degraded. The women are worth the expense if you don't think so, don't purchase and please don't degradate them because they know their worth.

Some of the great dinner partners I've had and yes I was glad to pay.
Berkleigh
Reese
Hailey Sinclair RETIRED
Meridith
Alivia Amoretta
Jules Jaguar
Maria of DFW RETIRED
Kimberly
Madison May
Victoria Weston RETIRED
Nicole Preston RETIRED
Parker RETIRED
Ginger Katt
Diamond

I valued each of their conversations and time as was glad to have them as arm candy. I am by no means rich but I know what I place value on.

To those of you who don't you don't know what your missing.

End SOAP BOX

[robs4.1]

Originally Posted by mtubbs90

Yeah i figured as much. Not a big deal just curious. I use to take ol Brooke cumsalot out to lunch or dinner all the time back in the day. I really dont expect anyone to respond..lol

lol who didn't end up taking her somewhere be it to eat or what have you.

[guest071618-1]

I took 2 ladies out to dinner in DFW and one was worth it and one wasn't. Both charged me 2hr rate and with dinner ended up abt 4hr with more than 2hr session. with both we had fun and no biz feeling dinner & session.

Damn I keep getting myself in this thread... I need to stop... I will end it with this.

Ladies I don't mind do multi hrs or over nite (of course with DINNER but pay dinner time separately)

Bliss (talked abt it and maybe)
Olivia (we talked abt it but unlikely since she is with agency)
Lisa (talked abt it and maybe)
THN (haven't met but will see)
Berkleigh (haven't met but will see)

Eitherway, dinner is just extra sauce for the session and make me respect the lady more from communication.... Maybe I am just full of it for fantasy world of escorts.

[Tsmokies]

Dang DAvid, feel Free to use my sig line. There has got to be something on here (where you live 24/7) that even you can't possible know everything there is to know about everything.

I'm actually really glad my value...

[sensualsanaa]

I really don't understand all the rigmarole here involving something that has been made clear several times. If you've never seen said provider before and you expect her to go to dinner with you, for free you're ridiculous. That's just not the nature of this hobby. Now if you guys have seen each other a number of times and for whatever reason decide to get more personal or exclusive and she wants to date you for free, hey, that's between you guys. It happens! I however have a dinner rate especially for those who just want to get acquainted or those who are in need of an intelligent and beautiful dinner companion. I also offer multi-hour appointments that include dinner before or after we play a little and off-the-clock dates that include a number of activities inside and outside of the bedroom without worrying about a predetermined time constraint.

I love dinner dates and feel they are a great way to build rapport and create a more intimate connection (because let's be honest, when we're behind closed doors, there's not too much talking! LOL). I feel like connecting on a mental level is just as important as connecting physically and welcome the opportunity to learn something for everybody. But it's about building relationships. Someone you've met before and connected with may be more inclined to offer you a free date than someone whom you have no history with.

[GingerKatt]

I don't charge extra to go out to dinner or lunch before or after an appointment. If a man is buying me a nice meal at a good restaurant and I enjoy his company, of course I go. I don't do it frequently but I do enjoy it occasionally.
And if I have a good regular that I enjoy spending time with, I have gone to the occasional movie and dinner without a session. Again, it's not often, but I do like spending time with interesting men OTC. And of course the gentleman pays, so it's a welcome treat, if I decide to go.