where have all the professionals gone ???

[oldbutstillgoing]

Its not about being a gentleman.
I am one very much so in person. You entered into a business relationship with the ladies. They broke their part of the verbal contract. Yet you paid them anyway. All you did was reward bad behavior and make it more likely they will do it to others. Same with not naming names.

This is a business. They need to treat it that way. You want to giveaway your money, its not my business. But when your actions mess it up for others, it becomes all our concern.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by jayt4567

I'm not paying anyone with out service.

Screw that.

I agree or with bad service

[DallasBella]

I call bs.
You sent me a message and when I simply asked for screening information you flipped on me, calling me arrogant and saying I'm "just like all the other ones."

Maybe, if you would treat ladies with respect upon contacting them, you wouldn't have any issues. But I don't believe you actually gave anyone any money. What a crock .

[Guest020720]

Even if a provider has over 100 reviews, you might want to make sure you have access to the ROS. I'm pretty sure that is where guys would post useful information about their booking experience.

I had a client last week that it took us 3 days to finally get together.
The first time I had literally no window of time to get to the incall on time, as I got a flat on the way there (a blade in my already balding tire) and my spare was really low on air. It was traffic time and I HAD to go get two new tires. The whole process of handling that issue took me about an hour and a half. We rescheduled for the next day and I just wasn't feeling well (I ate chicken in the morning that had been left out all night) so I told him it wasn't a cold, but I knew I wouldn't be at my best if we kept the appointment. Finally was able to see him and it was great and I think he'd like to book with me again.

I think there are things that come up, because many of us providers can have car trouble, booking/schedule conflicts (like if they share an incall) and they many times have kids. Mine don't live with me now, but occasionally I have to take care of them usually without much notice. I get frustrated that I have to deal with something stupid one of my kids have done, and for those of you that have kids, I'm sure you understand where I'm coming from.

It's not that EVERY lady on here is great at lying or making excuses.

There's lots of us who have done this for many years and have a reputation to uphold. We run it as if it's our business, which girl's who are worth their salt, take to heart if they were truly professional about their business.

And I don't believe a majority of girls who respond to ISO's are the problem. Yes, there are many who seem not to read what the ISO is for and just respond to as many as they can, even if it says "young spinner wanted" and they are clearly in their 30's and maybe a BBW. Or even AA girls respond even if the client/poster says no AA please.

[milfy2002]

To the OP, you are walking around with a big target on your back which reads, "please rip me off."

The way you mention large sums of money around here is akin to taking out a money clip full of hundreds to pay for a pack of gum in a really bad crack neighborhood.

If it were me I'd abandon that handle, create a new one, start writing in proper form, and stop advertising what an easy mark you are.

When you approach providers, approach only those with good reputations and who clearly post their rates. Do not discuss the donation at anytime before the session and this includes posting ISO's which state how much you're looking to spend. Place the amount of money specified in the lady's ad and not one dollar more in plain sight at the start of your time together and only tip at the end of the session if she deserves extra.

The end.

[Guest020720]

Milfy has a very valid point.
The way the OP is mentioning his exorbitant spending on ladies, and paying these "cancellation fees" is putting a target on his back for the ladies that just don't have their shit together.

I do know on P411 they have a check box you can use to state if you have a cancellation policy. (Example: a lady might give you one or two chances to cancel but won't book with you after that because you are a time waster in her eyes.)

I'd suggest the new handle approach, and some tips on grammar and spelling.

[JLanister]

"A fool and his money are soon parted"

[PeterBota]

Originally Posted by DallasBella

I call bs.
You sent me a message and when I simply asked for screening information you flipped on me, calling me arrogant and saying I'm "just like all the other ones."

Maybe, if you would treat ladies with respect upon contacting them, you wouldn't have any issues. But I don't believe you actually gave anyone any money. What a crock .

You're just angry because it's not you ripping him off. Oh and you would be the first to get him kicked of p411. Hush your fuss and rate your own ad 5 stars.

[Golfing]

First thanks good advice . I shouldn't have named name , but yes I over do donations . Somewhat to buy a VIP spot in whoever I likes rotation status .
And yes providers can be late or forget or over sleep . What I am referring to to the refusal to even text me if they will be late , go dark for 6-10 hours , then be two hours be angry at me to the point of ghetto talk and threats . What I am saying is for me the last year the culture has changed . The girls , don't know how I can avoid the bad ones I vet and I vet . But just wanted to go public on this . I have a few who I enjoy . And if I can ever figure out how to delete eccie I will do so too . But I just wanted to leave it as too bad the rude angry resentful chicks can and do run of good clients . This post , my first ever and last was meant for the ladies . I noticed several called me a liar or other. Excuses . Tells me that what I am saying is true and more pervasive than we know . Bye everyone . And ok grammar but I had a secretary for 30 years . No more . K
Lol

[Golfing]

You didn't identify yourself , had no idea who you were , and you asking me for a name when you don't even identify who you are ? And you neglected to say I gave you an agency well known and very upscale . And they treat the men as they should be respectfully . Your obviously exactly like I have been saying . 80 % are just Bp angry resentful women that mascarade in this business . Asking for a mans name . Give me your name

[Analeese]

Originally Posted by Golfing

You didn't identify yourself , had no idea who you were , and you asking me for a name when you don't even identify who you are ? And you neglected to say I gave you an agency well known and very upscale . And they treat the men as they should be respectfully . Your obviously exactly like I have been saying . 80 % are just Bp angry resentful women that mascarade in this business . Asking for a mans name . Give me your name

If you think the agencies trwzt you better..how bout you just start going there?!?

Save yourself and all of us nonsense useless threads like this one.

You clearly don't know what you're doing...please don't make the hobby anymore dangerous with your careless behavior.

[mrredcat43]

Buying a VIP spot?????? I'm hoping this is your troll acct, otherwise you're just a dumbass. Plain and simple

[Tsmokies]

Stick with golfing in the thunderstorms. 700+ ladies and you can't get no satisfaction. That's some really bad luck if you can't find a lady that will make a grown man cum

[corona]

Dude you need to guest your account. You literally painted a huge target on your back with bragging about how you always overpay, and you'll pay for zero services. You're gonna get rolled one day, and we're all gonna read about it on the news.

[Analeese]

None of your posts make sense OP...please just stop.

The amounts of money you claim you gave originally has now become triple if not more.

I call total BS...please just don't post anymore..none of it makes sense..