No Review

[cheatercheater]

Maybe all us old farts can take turns every day making sure that the no review stays up on front page

[dmcleod]

If a provider ever opens the door and feels about me the way Morgan described her reaction I'd hope she'd have enough respect for herself and me to either cancel, or change things up and see if we could build a non physical attraction to base our session on. Maybe sit down and chat/flirt, find some humour or shared kink to spark something. But going ahead with it is just going to lead to a bad time by both.

A bad time leads to a bad review, that's just pretty much inevitable.

The start of this thread was classy, admitting the lack of attraction. I can see arguments for just pushing through in the name of professionalism, but clearly that wasn't working. At some point you have to have the courage to say "This isn't working. I'm sorry baby. Here's half/all of your donation back. I hope you can find someone you click with better."

The way this has played out so far is pretty much a nightmare. The client had a bad session, is out the full donation, and is getting sniped at. If the hygiene issues are accurate, and not exaggerated due to the general lack of attraction/repulsion Morgan felt for this guy then some of that is on him. But that's what "care to join me in a quick shower?" Or a quick trip to the bathroom for a warm washcloth is for. Or if it's extreme, again the courage to do something about it comes up.

A lack of courage to speak up and change the situation in the moment is a failing any one of us could have. Sniping at someone after the fact is unseemly.

[FunInDFW]

By OP's admission, she didn't want to do anything with this person, and couldn't do anything... so what happens to payment? Still take the money and 'try' knowing nothing will come of it?

$250 for her effort with someone she couldn't and didn't want to do something with? Seems, from a client perspective, it would be better if a provider would just shut the session down before it began.

[anita]

Well 50% of guys here hobby because they want to (are attractive and can get any woman they want just by walking in a bar, but they prefer someone that will leave them alone after). The other 50% of guys here hobby because they have to. I don't expect you to be attractive, all that's expected from you is irreproachable hygiene, pleasant to be around and respect of boundaries.

Like I said, she should have made an excuse and cancel the session. But that is not always easy to do. He would have gotten his feelings hurt but it is better than bad session for him and a 'no' recommendation for her. I like to begin sessions with some conversation, because like I said, I don't expect you to be attractive. Maybe you are funny, smart, interesting, sweet (or you think I'm funny which puts me in the mood) and then we proceed. I had odor issue twice only, it's not easy to tell someone that did his hair and dressed up for you that he has to get in shower again. I cleaned them myself without a word, they were embarrassed so attempted a joke and we still had a good time. So I agree with poster above about building attraction and shower/wash cloth.

We all react different ways when our feelings are hurt, we all make mistakes and I'm sure she learned from hers. I'm not here defending her I even said she was wrong having the session. But I talked to her once for a reference, she was really nice.

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by anita

... I had odor issue twice only, it's not easy to tell someone that did his hair and dressed up for you that he has to get in shower again. I cleaned them myself without a word ...

First rate hoing right there.

[anita]

Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

First rate hoing right there.

Lol, thank you Johnny.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

First rate hoing right there.

Originally Posted by anita

Lol, thank you Johnny.

Many of times a couples' shower eradicates the issue at hand entirely. It's also a great ice-breaker, and who doesn't like shower head?

[L.A.]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

and who doesn't like shower head?

That's hard to dispute.

[DarkeyKong]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

who doesn't like shower head?

I, for one, am indifferent about shower heads. Well, other than those custom shower heads that have various pressures and spouting displays, those things are awesome!

[dmcleod]

A handheld shower wand with hot water and a massage setting for her and a warm wet mouth for me, it's a win win!

[grean]

OP brought more attention to a No review than there ever would have been had she simply not said anything.

When will these women learn?

[anita]

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Many of times a couples' shower eradicates the issue at hand entirely. It's also a great ice-breaker, and who doesn't like shower head?

Shower heads are great, he can finish anywhere and there will be no mess lol

[txman123]

Originally Posted by anita

... Maybe you are funny, smart, interesting, sweet (or you think I'm funny which puts me in the mood) and then we proceed. I had odor issue twice only, it's not easy to tell someone that did his hair and dressed up for you that he has to get in shower again. I cleaned them myself without a word, they were embarrassed so attempted a joke and we still had a good time. So I agree with poster above about building attraction and shower/wash cloth. ...

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Many of times a couples' shower eradicates the issue at hand entirely. It's also a great ice-breaker, and who doesn't like shower head?

outstanding ladies

[Y0yoY0]

Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

First rate hoing right there.

Originally Posted by anita

Lol, thank you Johnny.

Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Many of times a couples' shower eradicates the issue at hand entirely. It's also a great ice-breaker, and who doesn't like shower head?

I rly feel like I need this in my life LOL.

I could live in a fucking shower... and now that I think about it, some of the most fun I've ever had has involved showering w/a chick

[Victoriajolie]

Originally Posted by dmcleod

If a provider ever opens the door and feels about me the way Morgan described her reaction I'd hope she'd have enough respect for herself and me to either cancel, or change things up and see if we could build a non physical attraction to base our session on. Maybe sit down and chat/flirt, find some humour or shared kink to spark something. But going ahead with it is just going to lead to a bad time by both.

A bad time leads to a bad review, that's just pretty much inevitable.

The start of this thread was classy, admitting the lack of attraction. I can see arguments for just pushing through in the name of professionalism, but clearly that wasn't working. At some point you have to have the courage to say "This isn't working. I'm sorry baby. Here's half/all of your donation back. I hope you can find someone you click with better."

The way this has played out so far is pretty much a nightmare. The client had a bad session, is out the full donation, and is getting sniped at. If the hygiene issues are accurate, and not exaggerated due to the general lack of attraction/repulsion Morgan felt for this guy then some of that is on him. But that's what "care to join me in a quick shower?" Or a quick trip to the bathroom for a warm washcloth is for. Or if it's extreme, again the courage to do something about it comes up.

A lack of courage to speak up and change the situation in the moment is a failing any one of us could have. Sniping at someone after the fact is unseemly.

While i agree with you i have stop/cancel session and refund money..Yes all the money as i learn giving back half will get my arse rip apart because the person is upset of the rejetion ..Even with the full enveloppe i had some people making big scene and it was not about the appearance but the behavior,odor or agressiveness
i was called racist and every name on the planet for not going trough an app and reimbourse fully the person.
Ain't easy