And what do the statistics say about the MEN who purchase sex, I wonder?
Top of the line alpha dogs who are simply too good for women, of course, I'm sure..
"We are so very blessed to serve at your feet. Thank you for taking care of us with your moonies otherwise surely we wouldn't know what to do with our poor, broken minded little selves!..."
Lol. Silly men
More providers that I've known in this line of work are actually in some way disabled. Sometimes that includes mental health, but it does also include physical limitations and sometimes disabilities that you CAN'T see.
Quite a few of my regulars know that I'm epileptic as well as autistic. My seizures are triggered by stress, which my autism has a hard time managing. For the most part my seizures are controlled by medication, but a large contributing factor to that is that
1. I don't work a 40-hour workweek/demanding job
2. I work in an environment where I can control all of the big decisions so I can decide what works best for me.
3. I am able to shuffle and arrange my schedule as needed so that I can work on my "good" days and take my "bad" days to devote to self-care, instead of hating myself for not working. This allows me to "stack" during good periods so I am better prepared for more difficult times.
I can work a taxable job, and I do from time to time when I am feeling up to it. But nothing works for me the way sex work does. I am truly in control of all aspects and can take care of myself first.
I love my job; I love meeting new people. I have always been a people pleaser. I am also a good communicator, because I prefer communication to be easy and honest I do very well in making new friends and making new lovers feel at ease. I have always been a very sexually in-tune being, with myself and with others. I am comfortable in my own skin, although I was not always, and I love teaching other people that their scarred imperfect bodies are wonderful and they can feel good, feel amazing even.
Some of you even know that I've been in a relationship for ~ a year. I don't want to go into details because my private life is my own. But we are happy. That is why this board... tickles me. You guys are truly blind, perhaps with rage, at the idea that one of us can be loved. Do you think it angers you because you think YOU deserve it more? Why is that?
NONE of what I just said makes me a BAD PERSON or USELESS.
It makes me a PERSON who is trying to do my very BEST with the SHITTY HAND I GOT DELT.
As I said before. ANYBODY is worthy of love.
The nerve of you to say that we are not people. You are barely a person yourself, the way you look down at us.
"Once a john, always a john. He thinks money can buy anything, so he doesn't bother trying to build up an actual relationship
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