Been there, done that!
About 4 years ago, I met someone in the hobby, and we kept doing what we did, me as a companion and him as a visitor, both with each other and with other people.
But we both found that we started not having as much fun with other partners as we did we each other. So, we agreed to give it a shot at love and we both left the hobby. We were in, what I believed to be, a committed relationship. There's no way it was going to work if I stayed being a companion because he was jealous. As was I.
This was a big step for me because it took away a huge source of income. So this was not a positive for me in that regard.
But it came out in time that he just moved from ECCIE to Backpage to hide his tracks. Once a monger, always a monger, right?
I did not make a wise choice. I lost a lot of money, and this dude was not worth it. And it's a choice I'll never make again. I might fall in love again--who knows what the future holds. But I won't quit doing what I'm doing until I'm good and ready.
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