In 12 years of review forums, starting with ASPD, every lady that had a thread that didn't go her way, she always made blanket accusations about the board allowing this or that. That is 12 years and I have yet to see a different reaction. That is NOT to say there has never been a lady who took personal responsibility. I just have never witnessed it myself.
You can see where the man in charge chimed in on this one. Things have been handled per
Forum Guidelines . The board is here to exchange information, and everyone should know the guidelines so that they have realistic expectations. It is not the staff's responsibility if someone refuses to learn the guidelines. Every member could save a lot of time and frustration if he/ she invested a few minutes to learn them. Then everyone would understand why things are handled the way they are. Failure to learn the guidelines will lead to more frustration down the road.