I think tgirls should have to post their ads on a different board

[TSKrystiKakes]

1. what the hell is with the "IT" comments, we ARE people too!

2. I think the whole "problem" is these guys that are in an up roar about it, is because they clicked on an ad cuz they've seen a pretty girl in the pic, and THEN realize "Oh No! Penis!" and they lash out, get mad, because in their minds it makes them feel not 110% hetero.

3. Personally I believe its a fetish being attracted to TS, doesn't make u gay or even bi, but that is a whole different subject & just my 2cents.

[hookem420]

Originally Posted by TSKrystiKakes

1. what the hell is with the "IT" comments, we ARE people too!

2. I think the whole "problem" is these guys that are in an up roar about it, is because they clicked on an ad cuz they've seen a pretty girl in the pic, and THEN realize "Oh No! Penis!" and they lash out, get mad, because in their minds it makes them feel not 110% hetero.

3. Personally I believe its a fetish being attracted to TS, doesn't make u gay or even bi, but that is a whole different subject & my 2cents

How can I see the pic before I click on the ad? You identify yourself as a ts in your handle so I would never click one of your ads. This refers to people who fail to identify themselves in their handle or title and try to trick people into seeing their ads who don't want to see them.

And as far as the it thing, I think I have avoided it but I have been yelled at before for calling men he and women she so its not so easy to know what pronoun to use its easier to be vague.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by onei

Have we all forgot about Rockin' Brandy????? He came in without full disclosure and even had a separate thread directed to that very title. Here's a couple links:

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=919188&highlight= - tell me where the disclosure is? This is his first intro.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=92...ghlight=brandy - how about this threAD
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=914257&highlight= - how about this one where some guy is looking for a "provider" and in this case a FEMALE provider and this guy (Brandy) responds. Had that been me I would have been VERY pissed.

In fact there has been over 600 posts in various thread discussing this one.

Here is his last ad:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=936185&highlight=

No mention of TS and offering Bare Back!

[Lea Madisson]

Originally Posted by hookem420

To the people saying that the ad I posted is not deceptive, you are wrong. It is not mentioned in the thread title or the name of the providor that it is a transsexual. There is no way to know until after you click on the ad and at that point it is hard to avoid seeing the picture. Which is gross to me and a total boner killer.

I am very much a guy who says to each their own but I don't appreciate people trying to shove their business down people's throats who aren't interested in it. There are plenty of people who are into that type of thing that you don't have to conceal it and trick people into viewing your ads who don't want to see them.

And the ad I posted is just one example. Very few of the tgirls on this forum identify themselves as so in ad titles or handles. It would be much easier to have a separate section so that people who are looking for that can find it easier and not have to sift through the 1/20 tgirls and guys like me aren't tricked into looking at tgirls 1/20 ads.

Here is the problem I see... you click on an ad with a picture of a TS and it is a bone killer... then move on to someone else who is a bone raiser...

Should all providers issue warnings in our title on an ad post? Warning... fat girl in this ad, don't open if you are offended or will lose your boner! Warning... Old bitch (like me)... don't open if old gals make you lose your boner!

Originally Posted by onei

Have we all forgot about Rockin' Brandy????? He came in without full disclosure and even had a separate thread directed to that very title. Here's a couple links:

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=919188&highlight= - tell me where the disclosure is? This is his first intro.
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=92...ghlight=brandy - how about this threAD
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=914257&highlight= - how about this one where some guy is looking for a "provider" and in this case a FEMALE provider and this guy (Brandy) responds. Had that been me I would have been VERY pissed.

In fact there has been over 600 posts in various thread discussing this one.

You are absolutely right about some who don't let you know they are TS... but that is part of the market and the market will sort out those who are hiding things. You guys are too sharp to let that kind of thing just pass on by!

I just don't understand the big deal about moving on when you see something you don't want!

Smooch!

Lea

[Guest010218]

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

Here is the problem I see... you click on an ad with a picture of a TS and it is a bone killer... then move on to someone else who is a bone raiser...

Should all providers issue warnings in our title on an ad post? Warning... fat girl in this ad, don't open if you are offended or will lose your boner! Warning... Old bitch (like me)... don't open if old gals make you lose your boner!

Lea, I have seen you multiple times and let me tell everyone that your are "one Old bitch" who will never cause me to loose a boner. In fact, I am getting a little wood just sitting here and remembering the fun we had during our last session. Took me three days to recover after you milked me dry to the bone. Luv ya ! !

You should come to Austin, and we could do a little surfing at an in-call that I know of which over looks a nice lake.

BugleBoy
Surfing your waves of pleasure...

[hookem420]

Originally Posted by Lea Madisson

Here is the problem I see... you click on an ad with a picture of a TS and it is a bone killer... then move on to someone else who is a bone raiser...

Should all providers issue warnings in our title on an ad post? Warning... fat girl in this ad, don't open if you are offended or will lose your boner! Warning... Old bitch (like me)... don't open if old gals make you lose your boner!

There is a big difference between fat girls or old girls and t girls. Don't act like its the same thing. Looking at an unatractive woman doesn't gross me out. It's easy to just flip the page. Other images take you completely out of the mood and I feel like I shouldn't have to look at them if I don't want to.

[Claire She Blows]

If TS ads are separate, then all of us should be categorized. TS, BBW, curvy, spinner, <25, 25-39, >40, long hair, short hair, ink, no ink, piercings, girls that SL has SLAMDANGO'd (their ads would have to show the t-shirt), etc. Where does it end? Then how many guys would get pissed off because girls were posting in multiple categories? Dammit, she's everywhere!

Sure, we could be categorized. Or here's a thought: get the fuck over it. Just because you clicked on an unlabeled TS and were attracted to her pictures doesn't make you any less of a heterosexual man. Sheezus.

[RALPHEY BOY]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Here is his last ad:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=936185&highlight=

No mention of TS and offering Bare Back!

I have no clue on what is looks or feels like sans penis but its not a vagina.. does it get wet?, no pussy juice? not tied to her internal fluids?.. Its like fuking an armpit? or roll of fat?

anyone know I am merely guessing..

[VictoriaLyn]

Originally Posted by hookem420

There is a big difference between fat girls or old girls and t girls. Don't act like its the same thing. Looking at an unatractive woman doesn't gross me out. It's easy to just flip the page. Other images take you completely out of the mood and I feel like I shouldn't have to look at them if I don't want to.

One way to avoid that is read the text BEFORE you look at the pics..if you can

[Lea Madisson]

Originally Posted by hookem420

There is a big difference between fat girls or old girls and t girls. Don't act like its the same thing. Looking at an unatractive woman doesn't gross me out. It's easy to just flip the page. Other images take you completely out of the mood and I feel like I shouldn't have to look at them if I don't want to.

It is the same thing, to the eyes of the beholder. For you, saying the penis on the body of a woman takes you completely out of the mood. For others seeing somebody who is overweight or obese or even grotesque in their eyes takes them completely out of the mood. And even for others if they see a picture of a woman who was old, it takes them completely out of the mood.

When it comes to ads, TS's advertise who they really are probably more than any other provider. All TS's? No. But fewer female providers describe who they are in the title of an ad. So, any ad you open, you take the risk of seeing something that will not be appealing. Most men just move on. You, however, want the whole world to change to your liking so your "mood" won't so easily be crushed.

Lea

[junkweed]

Originally Posted by hookem420

How can I see the pic before I click on the ad? You identify yourself as a ts in your handle so I would never click one of your ads. This refers to people who fail to identify themselves in their handle or title and try to trick people into seeing their ads who don't want to see them.

And as far as the it thing, I think I have avoided it but I have been yelled at before for calling men he and women she so its not so easy to know what pronoun to use its easier to be vague.

Judging from your reviews your luck with the xx crew hasn't been so hot either. Are you sure you're not just angry at backpage?

YMMV - Your Masculinity Mandates Validation.

I don't think the pic's of Josie killed your boner at all.

[Claire She Blows]

Originally Posted by junkweed

YMMV - Your Masculinity Mandates Validation.

[nuglet]

Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

If TS ads are separate, then all of us should be categorized. TS, BBW, curvy, spinner, <25, 25-39, >40, long hair, short hair, ink, no ink, piercings, girls that SL has SLAMDANGO'd (their ads would have to show the t-shirt), etc. Where does it end? Then how many guys would get pissed off because girls were posting in multiple categories? Dammit, she's everywhere!

Sure, we could be categorized. Or here's a thought: get the fuck over it. Just because you clicked on an unlabeled TS and were attracted to her pictures doesn't make you any less of a heterosexual man. Sheezus.

hmmm, does this border on "objectifies?".. LOL That's the best thing about most of the ladies here, they LOVE being objectified and OWN IT. There would have to be 87 different "categories" in order to serve every kink.

[Bobave]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

Now, now, let's tone the venom down. This is an interesting topic that will generate opinions that we may or not agree with. Let's keep it fun please.

Carry on....

sixx

But you had no problem with NipLover calling the OP a homo because he disagreed, huh?

[Bobave]

Originally Posted by junkweed

Judging from your reviews your luck with the xx crew hasn't been so hot either. Are you sure you're not just angry at backpage?

YMMV - Your Masculinity Mandates Validation.

I don't think the pic's of Josie killed your boner at all.

What the hell is it with guys attacking people's masculinity/preference who say something they disagree with? Since you and NipLover have gotten away with it, I'll push the envelope too and call *you* a homo. If I hear anything from a mod about it, I'm taking it to the owners - either it's okay or it's not (for the record, I don't think it should be, but if some people get to sling mud, we all do).