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Originally Posted by Charlotte Carrington
I only quoted what was relevant to what I had said.
I know many ladies whose reputation was ruined by unkind words of Hobbyist and visa versa,, so it doesn't ALWAYS have to do with conduct.
I was thinking of what was going on with Dames4u..
HE was being attacked for what reason I am not sure if and his reputation was being attacked as well.. does this ruin the REPUTATION of the providers who work for him since they are under him, are and will they be labeled as one of those girls who used to work with him..?
There are many ways to harm individuals,, internally and externally
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Charlotte,
First off, I've seen your ads for some time now, always thought they were so darn classy and tasteful. Kudos.
As for client/provider potentially pissing one another off in the public domain..
Up until recently I didn't do reviews on any site. I am a paid member of NR, but I know a lot of providers on NR try to maintain a 4 to 5 star review average. Long story short, twice a year, I see a provider in Tampa who I know would be hurt if I gave her anything less than a five star review. She's incredible in lots of ways, and I totally recommend her. One catch though, she claims to be GFE, but her idea of GFE is a peck on the lips. Now...everything else about here makes up for that. However, I'd probably give her four stars, or three, for that bit of misleading advertising. (And other clients have pointed this out to her.) So I just don't do a NR "star based" review of her so we don't have any hard feelings. I prefer the "YES" or "No" recommendation that is allowed here.
Otherwise, like on NR, I would rather not review her than endure the "You are the reason I'm not averaging five stars???" mess.
This hobby puts both provider and client at their most vulnerable positions. (Literally, figuratively, any way you slice it..) So there will be egos, and sometimes hard feelings. (And not always the good "hard feelings'). Its kind of inescapable given human nature. I personally try to stay above it and avoid ruffling feathers. If its a bad experience, I just don't repeat it.
(Now, if a provider was to rob me or mislead...then I get personal)...
But, knock on wood, that's never happened to this point.
Now Char, about that milkshake...