My Take On A Recent Thread

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by big country

We as customers have already made our choice based on our own critera to call the provider in the first place. Not all hobbeist are fat, bald, old white guys with fat wallets. If 90% of screening was not such a farce bad apples would not get the chance to spoil for the rest.
When they turn on you which given the chance if if suits their needs at the time. It is alot esier dealing with a poodle than a pitbull. Any likeness to certain providers is purely by chance.

I've found most poodles can be quite snippy and pitbulls to be lovable, big babies.

Which certain providers are you putting a likeness to?

[bigryan222]

Originally Posted by MsElena

You can't call me a racist because I never said that I wouldn't see a black guy. You ASSumed that. I don't have an AA policy on my site or in any of my ads. The only policy I have is that I do not see guys under a certain age.

If you think it causes more harm than good, then why ask it?

We could keep asking the same questions, like going on a merry-go-round, but it does no good.

This thread I started was to add some satire and also to point out how redundant those type of posts are. Some got it, some didn't.

I'm sure you're a nice guy who doesn't seem to have a problem getting a date. Enjoy life and don't sweat the small stuff like this. It'll make your life happier.

I usually say what others are thinking, but afraid to post.

Are you ASSumming I think you are racist? I pointed out that I didnt say it. I dont know you so I wouldnt begin to know if it would be the case.

You can try to put your post off as satire all you want. What I really think is funny is that you are talking about how you are saying the things that others are thinking but are afraid to post, when the point of your thread was that you shouldnt be questioned on this matter so you dont have to say what you really think.

Like I said before, it does you no harm to ignore the threads and question that you do not want to answer. It will probably have no impact on your business. Starting this thread does you no good though. And just because I think it is smart for girls not to answer the question, doesnt mean that it is not a valid question no matter how many times it is asked. If you dont want to answer it, ignore it. It is a simple concept. You can ignore users here, mark email addresses as spam, block phone numbers. If someone becomes a dick about it, block them and let the other girls know in a private area. If someone doesnt take its a personal preference or whatever vague answer you give, ignore them.

[dirty dog]

Originally Posted by bigryan222

Are you ASSumming I think you are racist? I pointed out that I didnt say it. I dont know you so I wouldnt begin to know if it would be the case.

You can try to put your post off as satire all you want. What I really think is funny is that you are talking about how you are saying the things that others are thinking but are afraid to post, when the point of your thread was that you shouldnt be questioned on this matter so you dont have to say what you really think.

Like I said before, it does you no harm to ignore the threads and question that you do not want to answer. It will probably have no impact on your business. Starting this thread does you no good though. And just because I think it is smart for girls not to answer the question, doesnt mean that it is not a valid question no matter how many times it is asked. If you dont want to answer it, ignore it. It is a simple concept. You can ignore users here, mark email addresses as spam, block phone numbers. If someone becomes a dick about it, block them and let the other girls know in a private area. If someone doesnt take its a personal preference or whatever vague answer you give, ignore them.

Not saying its not a valid question, but how many times does it have to be asked and answered. Its like your kid asking you why the sky is blue, you answer them and then they ask you again, and again and again until you say "its blue because its blue". After a while this question begins to feel like a subliminal implication that the only true answer is the provider is racist. The frank reality is they dont see them because they dont want to, good or bad, thats the "real" answer to the question.

[cliffbeefcake]

[dirty dog]

Originally Posted by cliffbeefcake

Amen!!!!!

[bigryan222]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

Not saying its not a valid question, but how many times does it have to be asked and answered. Its like your kid asking you why the sky is blue, you answer them and then they ask you again, and again and again until you say "its blue because its blue". After a while this question begins to feel like a subliminal implication that the only true answer is the provider is racist. The frank reality is they dont see them because they dont want to, good or bad, thats the "real" answer to the question.

The reason your point is not valid though is that it is normally different members posting at different times. The OP of the other thread has been around for a couple years, but has very few posts. It would be a leap to assume that he has read the other threads about this topic over the years or at least recent enough to remember them. He has also not posted on this subject before.

Its not like it happens every month and it is never the same posters from what I recall.

[dirty dog]

Originally Posted by bigryan222

The reason your point is not valid though is that it is normally different members posting at different times. The OP of the other thread has been around for a couple years, but has very few posts. It would be a leap to assume that he has read the other threads about this topic over the years or at least recent enough to remember them. He has also not posted on this subject before.

Its not like it happens every month and it is never the same posters from what I recall.

First its called research its not hard and there are multiple threads that anyone wanting to know the answer can read. It doesnt happen every month, are you kidding its been asked 3 times in the last 4 months. You know guys will take all the time in the world to research whether a girl is BBBJ or will let you fart in her mouth or whatever, you would think they could take a minute to research it.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

or will let you fart in her mouth or whatever

Oh oh....

Hold on there Slick....

[bigryan222]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

First its called research its not hard and there are multiple threads that anyone wanting to know the answer can read. It doesnt happen every month, are you kidding its been asked 3 times in the last 4 months. You know guys will take all the time in the world to research whether a girl is BBBJ or will let you fart in her mouth or whatever, you would think they could take a minute to research it.

FYI, 3 times in 4 months is not every month

And how many threads do you think people do a search to see if it has been discussed before? Plus if they want to participate in the discussion and it has been over 30 days they are not supposed to bump the old threads. Just because other people are done talking about something doesnt mean everyone should be done talking about it especially if it happened when they didnt notice.

There is also a difference between researching a provider who you are going to spend a fair amount of money before you see them and asking a question about a topic that is on your mind.

For the record, I have not opened the other thread because I dont care about the content people ad. Its amazing how simple it is to skip over a thread that you dont care to read. Im in this thread because it was not clearly labeled on the contents. I am voicing my opinion that I dont think providers should answer the question especially in threads on this site, but that it is not wrong of the posters asking it. The OP has no history of trolling as far as I could tell, so he deserves the benifit of the doubt.

[dirty dog]

Here are three local threads discussing this since the end of Jan

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=692174
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=657871
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=657871


Here is the conversation on the national board which has been going on for 2 years


http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=315600

How come its always why no AA men, how come no one is concerned when they say no one under 35 or no one over 60 or please no one over 300 LBS. . A provider who lists those preferences is never grilled about her choices, but say you dont see AA and you cant stop people from asking that question. The reality is someone is always ready to play the race card.

[big country]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I've found most poodles can be quite snippy and pitbulls to be lovable, big babies.

Which certain providers are you putting a likeness to?

I want to send my deepest love for not sending a highly loaded question for me to answer.
Come to think of it poodles yap all the time and unlike me do not know wtstfu,

[bigryan222]

Originally Posted by dirty dog

Here are three local threads discussing this since the end of Jan

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=692174
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=657871
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=657871


Here is the conversation on the national board which has been going on for 2 years


http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=315600

How come its always why no AA men, how come no one is concerned when they say no one under 35 or no one over 60 or please no one over 300 LBS. . A provider who lists those preferences is never grilled about her choices, but say you dont see AA and you cant stop people from asking that question. The reality is someone is always ready to play the race card.

I dont understand the point of this post. Was it to prove that it happens less than every month? Also, the national forums are of little value to me personally. I suspect a large number of guys have a similar opinion especially someone like the OP of the other thread since he doesnt post much.

FYI, there are occasionally thread posted about age limits and it is very rare to see something about weight limits in an ad. There are a lot of ads that say no AA so it is going to be brought up more.

And finally, someone is going to play the race card when someone says no to a certain race. It becomes a little less playing a card and more commenting on reality at that point. The girl may have very valid reasons for not seeing black men, but I think the comment implying they are playing the race card when they are turned down because of race is kinda funny.

[dirty dog]

Originally Posted by bigryan222

but I think the comment implying they are playing the race card when they are turned down because of race is kinda funny.

Your bi-racial right, I beleive someone told me you were, maybe I am wrong. But part of playing the race card is screaming racisim everytime something does not go your way. Oh and your right, I forgot to type in almost, so it happens almost every month or 3 out of 4.

Originally Posted by bigryan222

FYI, there are occasionally thread posted about age limits and it is very rare to see something about weight limits in an ad..

Can you post some examples please.

[Mizzou82]

I hope this trend doesn't spread to refusing to see fat old guys, I'll never get an appointment again. then again, most providers would prob go broke

[Westlawn]

Well, I believe I am the OP of the recent thread. I was simply curious because I saw several ads in a row that had this restriction. I didn't intend to get everyone worked up and it didn't occur to me to research previous posts on the subject. I probably won't bother to research previous posts prior to new posts in the future either so feel free to ignore any that aren't worth your time.