ya'll must be..

[pyramider]

Hey, I responded nicely before I started having the taint shakes.

[Guest091813]

heheh taint shakes..hehehehheheeh

[pyramider]

I am experiencing taint withdrawal symptoms.

[Frankie Fine]

Cold taint on the forehead ...lol

Anita did they listen ?! Is it happening less now?

[Guest091813]

naw..they still be acting foolish...

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Frankie Fine

Cold taint on the forehead ...lol

Anita did they listen ?! Is it happening less now?

Originally Posted by anita germane

naw..they still be acting foolish...

I wish I could post "heh"

but I know to much

errrrr carry on

[JohnnyCap]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Thinck the Golden Rule, treat others how you would want to be treated.

I am decent to my providers but I do a few things to them I don't want done to me.

More serious, no antagonizing, but are you girls ever screened? After the shopping. What info will you give up? Does a dude like Spitzer go through an agency that screens for him? I've screened girls to be sure they were 18 (closest I got was 19, that was a good day), but they had to show ID and if I was photographing them, I'd picture the ID too.

[Lexxxy]

When I first started I got ided a lot, I understood the need and went along with it.

[Frankie Fine]

I would like to share a quote, in support of Anita, it comes from a time in my career when I used to screen strictly. At the time, there was a lot of chaos going on in the biz in my area. I feel it sums up a hobby ethic for safety and discretion for all parties. It doesn't matter if it is Canada or US there is always a need to be cautious.

"There is an imlied mutual discretion agreement that two people enter into. You should see people that you like. Don't betray people you like. They are human beings-like you. Respect their private lives and then you can expect the same reciprocity . If that trust is betrayed , you should expect a shit storm of problems-absolutely."

[Guest121613]

i feel for you ladies that have had to put up with a lot of shit.

however i love sexting, and usually refrained till after the first date??? I try not to sext unless i have a time set up, some like it some don't, i usually can figure out who.

[boyscoutnomore]

I don't mind giving references, and thank the ladies that will provide them ! but there are some that want to see my driver's license and work ID, and no way I am settting up for ID theft, or other surprises. I am polite, respectful, generous, etc. and still a boy scout, in some ways. waiting for better weather to call Nita and a way to fit in a trip to GWN to see Frankie.. hope they do not want my photo ID.

[Frankie Fine]

I do not ask for ID I am not sure if Anita does. If I did and if she does it is not for threatening reasons. In fact, it is that type of screening done consistently that you have the least to worry about. If a lady screens like that you should be double checking if she ever shirks her duties. Because, in fact, you should only provide those details to the ladies who do not make any exceptions, and never let anyone in unless her requirements are met.

There is an irony here, that some of you are missing, when it comes to your fear of providers that screen strictly.

[offshoredrilling]

Well a few have been blackmailed. errr then a few that lost job and or wife/SO when would not do the payola. Then other guys still WK for the few gals that was a problem.

[Guest091813]

i have never taken anyone's info and given it out..i screen the way i screen for my safety..if you cannot give me the requirements i ask for .well there are plenty of other gents that understand why i ask for them and are happy to give them to me... ..im not that type of lady..i have never caused problems with jobs..so's or showing up on a mans doorstep..or calling him at odd hours or texting nakey pics to him at odd hours either..I dont blackmail men that see other ladies cuz they dont come back to see me after I have vouched for them to other ladies...

.im old school baby and thats how i roll..i wont intrude in your life...but i need to kno who it is thats coming into my life...

i understand your reasoning..however..in order to get into my chambers all requirements must be met...

its hard enough to not freak out with every new person..but when a member of this board makes it difficult for me to feel comfortable with him by not providing what i need it's kinda a slap..to be quiet honest...guess being a mod and a provider here since 1400's with no history of drugs..pimps..or shake downs ..doesnt count for much these days..to each their own..

you want me to vouch for you to other ladies..i cannot justify telling another lady your safe if you've given me nothing but a handle on this board..thats not screening..thats just reading about your adventures here..and we all know this site is just a site of porno mag stories anyways....right...

and yes..in my younger years...i held my youthful look..and i had been id'd from several gents thinking i was underage..i showed them my id..i didnt have an issue with that..then we moved on..both feeling comfortable with each other...

my advice to some of u...
take the road less traveled and see a provider that cares about safety, that screens the gents..you may have less problems with these situations.. like..ladies that will rip you ass off..pass out on you during a meet cuz she was buzzed outa her mind from being all jacked up on the wack or the liquor....or have a man jump outa the closet ready to strong arm you outa your money or has ya standing on a step for 20 min cuz she cant find the door to let you in..or you deal with someone banging on the door while your in the middle of the meet...

or perhaps that's just too vanilla for some of ya..

[Guest070916]

All excellent points Anita and well put.
Surely Elliot Spitzer along with those 100s of clients discovered, when LE got a hold of that little black book they and the Woman kept, who was charged with running prostitution business out of her Zumba dance studio will agree with you....ijs

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/nati...xzz2OIBDCEJMLE