Age old question

[Pink Floyd]

All women (except my second wife) are providers.

[flyinghillbilly]

There is a very well know provider in Oklahoma she is going to marry a EX client. She is still ''working'' until they get married then she will retire.I had puppy love for one provider and we even talked about dating for real but she still liked the lifestyle and the cash she is retired now with a rich sugar daddy lol

[RochBob]

This question is its various forms has come up multiple times on this Board. The only honest answer is that it depends upon the people involved. We all (if we're lucky) meet that one person we're instantly attracted to (sometimes during the course of our lives more than one). Call it Pheromones or Soul Mates or whatever. But for some reason it is the one person we have to be with and would give everything up for.
I have been with Provider's that I didn't give a second thought about after completing our session and leaving. There have been others that I think about occasionally and one in particular that I think about all the time. That one is most likely because she reminds me of an old Girlfriend that I was very much in love with before she ended it on me. Would I consider pursuing something with her? If I wasn't already Married the answer would be "Yes". But I wouldn't start anything with her unless she told me she felt the same way first.
Would I care if she continued to "Work" after we got involved? Well, that would be a good question. That would depend upon several things. Would I worry that some other guy who is better looking or has more money might come along and take her away from me? "Yes", but you get that in almost every relationship. Does she have other job skills that would allow her to do something other than Providing for an income? Does she want to continue Providing after getting involved in a personnal relationship with someone? Supposedly most of the Couples that have made this situation work for them have had the person Providing leave that life behind.

[shorty]

Originally Posted by flyinghillbilly

There is a very well know provider in Oklahoma she is going to marry a EX client. She is still ''working'' until they get married then she will retire.I had puppy love for one provider and we even talked about dating for real but she still liked the lifestyle and the cash she is retired now with a rich sugar daddy lol

OK provider won't truly retire because she will miss the money. Unless she's got another way to make money, then she will be solely dependant on EX Client. Which most ladies after making money don't want to be dependant on a man for money. As far as retired provider with SD, she's not retired if she's being supported by SD. She's still having to provide to SD to support her. Don't think for a second she wouldn't go back to providing if SD got tired of her.

[Old-T]

[QUOTE=pickupkid;1052440748]So could you fall for a provider?
Yes. I have.

I f so why?
For the same reason a guy falls for any lady in any business--it''s not something you can typically explain, and never really plan.

I'll broaden ....first there is the idea of all the men she has been with..
Don't care about her past.

second will you allow her to continue working.
That part I would care about. I don't see it being about "allowing her", but we'd talk about it and if she wanted to keep working it wouldn't work out for us. That is not what happened with the one I fell for.

JEALOUSY, Do you pay for it? what about her feelings...
It would be the same as above for me: No. If I felt I had to see others then it would not be a fit between us.

does she care about you?
Care about me? Yes. Did she fall for me as I did for her? No, she fell for a different guy. That's why we left it as good friemds--as we are a decade later.

What are the providers feeling about falling in love with a client?
No different than above--yes, it can happen. I had one fall for me pretty hard. But in the revers of the first lady, I was the one who liked her but wasn't in love with her. There too we have remained good friends for over 10 years.

Right idea for everyone? Absolutely not. Something you can plan? No, I don't think so. CAN it and DOES it happen? Yes, it does.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by RochBob

Supposedly most of the Couples that have made this situation work for them have had the person Providing leave that life behind.

I believe this is key. I've been to a number of weddings of former escorts. For the two couples that have survived as couples, both the ladies and the guys left this world except for occasionally hireing a lady for a threesome. With one of the couples the lady always picks out the escort, though the guy has veto power (he's smart enough that I don't believe he's ever used it).

In the one case where the lady kept working "because they needed the money", it went bad in less than a year.

[Mr. O'Doul]

It is absolutely possible, but only feasible under certain (rare) circumstances. The biggest factor being whether or not the provider is in this business because they have to or because they want to. Most of the providers that I prefer to see are the ones that don't do this because it's how they support themselves (absolutely nothing against that, though), but because they're doing something they enjoy and making a little extra onthe side, in which case they could quit if they developed emotions for a client. The possibility is higher in those situations, but still unlikely if the provider is being a professional. I enjoy the GFE, but I don't get it confused with having an actual girlfriend.

[JONBALLS]

nope......

well.............

maybe alitle ........

maybe shes in my shower again as we speak and in my fridge......but

but wish they wouldnt get lazy after thinking you did

then you realize you just got lazy and comfortable and

of coarse

why not

their going to follow your lead

stay dilligent my friends

do as I say

not as i do..........