Men who do their research

[Sandra Dee]

This is my last post, but before I go I just want to say one more thing. We providers work to build our reputations. the problem is sometimes it can run away from us (thanks to my fan club in Oklahoma and Kansas..lol). I want to stop chasing my name...no more pressure living up to it. Just be ME.
Sooooooo gentlemen.....
I'm a SAGGY OLD BITCH!!! Take that! lol!
xoxo
Sandra
ps. There, it's out there...so can start having fun building it back!!!

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Valerie

I really have nothing to contribute to this thread but just wanted to say that I've heard LOVELY things about you Sandra from numerous clients ...That is all...

So does this mean you're bringing her for a threesome next time you come home baby?

[wildwooly1]

Originally Posted by Sandra Dee

This is my last post, but before I go I just want to say one more thing. We providers work to build our reputations. the problem is sometimes it can run away from us (thanks to my fan club in Oklahoma and Kansas..lol). I want to stop chasing my name...no more pressure living up to it. Just be ME.
Sooooooo gentlemen.....
I'm a SAGGY OLD BITCH!!! Take that! lol!
xoxo
Sandra
ps. There, it's out there...so can start having fun building it back!!!

Best looking Saggy old Bitch ive ever seen !!

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by wildwooly1

Best looking Saggy old Bitch ive ever seen !!

That's what I was thinking!! (AND she is still out of my league!!)

[Mr. O'Doul]

@Sandra - Exactly. This is why I try to get a handle on a lady's personality before I even think about contacting her. I like women that can make me laugh, as it's rare enough for anyone to do so. If the woman I'm with has a sense of humour, things go a lot more smoothly. Of course, if I meet with a provider, I'm going to make it as enjoyable for her as possible, regardless of whether or not we "mesh". I would feel bad for wasting her time (and my money).

[Mr. O'Doul]

Also, holy shit, you're gorgeous. "Saggy old bitch"? One I'd like to have some fun with

[Kloie]

Originally Posted by Sandra Dee

This is my last post, but before I go I just want to say one more thing. We providers work to build our reputations. the problem is sometimes it can run away from us (thanks to my fan club in Oklahoma and Kansas..lol). I want to stop chasing my name...no more pressure living up to it. Just be ME.
Sooooooo gentlemen.....
I'm a SAGGY OLD BITCH!!! Take that! lol!
xoxo
Sandra
ps. There, it's out there...so can start having fun building it back!!!

Saggy old or whatever you may say I've heard great things about you and u look hot as hell! I know you have quite a fan club around here.


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[soxfan]

I must only like saggy old bitches

[Guest123018]

Sandra, you got it goin' on chic!
So don't feel bad.
Heck they always ask me where my hair is, i tell 'em sitting on the shelf at Sally's

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by Sandra Dee

This is an old topic I once wrote about but would like to revisit it again.

My website is loaded with stuff about me to help them decide if I'm what they want, but sometimes I think they ignore it and book me anyway. Why is that? Why would they waste their time and money?

I was at a great, fancy restaurant with my family near a large family five who had just been seated. They were starting to order when the dessert cart, loaded with a score or more of the most outrageously gorgeous and delicious cakes and pastries, came by. The husband stopped ordering, had his family look at the desserts and they just started to point and order desserts, forgetting about the rest of the meal. I don't think I've ever seen a more striking example of frenzied instant gratification.

Many mongers are like that guy and his family. These mongers look at your stunning pictures and want the instant gratification of a date with a "hot" provider and have no interest in your personality, presence or your "Thoughts" (I have thoughts about them). So they will book you but they are, to be blunt, fundamentally incapable of enjoying your more subtle qualities.

When I go to a great restaurant I want the full experience. I want to make hard choices between imaginative appetizers and agonize over the great entrees. I want to savor a fine Sonoma Chardonnay or a great Oregon Pinot Noir. And I want to have the choice between a luscious, creamy dessert or a well chosen cheese plate.

Likewise, when I see a great, GFE provider, I want the full experience: the visuals, the manners, the professionalism, the subtle skills of love making and the wonder of a lusty, full bodied "engagement".

Great restauranteurs offer a quality experience and welcome the customers who appreciate and value the whole experience, But they have to endure those customers who don't know the difference between tapas and tapioca. They just treasure the ones who do. Elite providers have the same dilemma and must endure the oafs who don't know the difference between great tatas and tapioca. They too can just treasure the ones who appreciate the finer things a woman can offer.

[Guest082318]

Wow! Sandra, I really like your style and attitude. These 20 yr olds are starting to bore me. any plans to vist Houston?

[Pink Floyd]

Sandra, I have been running with 20 year old spinner strippers for over a year, and I still list you as my ATF. I am being picked up by a beautiful 20 year old brunette in a few minutes, but if I could see you right now I would. You have something very special that can't be put into words.

[pyramider]

Taint does that.

[MagnificMedia]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

I was at a great, fancy restaurant with my family near a large family five who had just been seated. They were starting to order when the dessert cart, loaded with a score or more of the most outrageously gorgeous and delicious cakes and pastries, came by. The husband stopped ordering, had his family look at the desserts and they just started to point and order desserts, forgetting about the rest of the meal. I don't think I've ever seen a more striking example of frenzied instant gratification.

Many mongers are like that guy and his family. These mongers look at your stunning pictures and want the instant gratification of a date with a "hot" provider and have no interest in your personality, presence or your "Thoughts" (I have thoughts about them). So they will book you but they are, to be blunt, fundamentally incapable of enjoying your more subtle qualities.

When I go to a great restaurant I want the full experience. I want to make hard choices between imaginative appetizers and agonize over the great entrees. I want to savor a fine Sonoma Chardonnay or a great Oregon Pinot Noir. And I want to have the choice between a luscious, creamy dessert or a well chosen cheese plate.

Likewise, when I see a great, GFE provider, I want the full experience: the visuals, the manners, the professionalism, the subtle skills of love making and the wonder of a lusty, full bodied "engagement".

Great restauranteurs offer a quality experience and welcome the customers who appreciate and value the whole experience, But they have to endure those customers who don't know the difference between tapas and tapioca. They just treasure the ones who do. Elite providers have the same dilemma and must endure the oafs who don't know the difference between great tatas and tapioca. They too can just treasure the ones who appreciate the finer things a woman can offer.

OMG What a perfect analogy! +1 awl4knot

BTW none of this is directed to the OP but since the thread opened the convo about the subject I want to speak in general and hope the OP doesn't mind.

The main advice I give my potential clients about marketing themselves is to absolutely market to YOUR potential client.

Show who you are in your ads and websites. I have developed a very unique way of learning about the girls personalities before building them a site. I have a questionnaire designed to really get across a true sense of who they are.

Interestingly I have discovered that most women's personas are the same ( maybe a little more risque) as who they are period ( maybe slightly more conservative) but very much the same. But even if they are very different in their persona than real life they have to advertise to their client and not get on what I call a client mill. The client mill is seeing lots of client hoping to click with one every so often. That can cause burn out , cynicism, unhappiness and can lead to drug and alcohol use to get thru sessions.

Because I truly want their site to reflect who they are as a provider and a person, well as the copy to get across what time spent with them is like w/o necessarily having to spell out exact acts or services. I know many of you hobbyist want a laundry list of acts and services provided however I try to have the ladies get that across with out sounding like a trained pony. Because having been a provider myself I know what I choose to do with one I may not with the other. I also encourage them to let the date and their sense of adventure dictate what happens . This makes a date more organic and real not utilitarian or mechanical. Certainly every women has her boundaries but I truly feel what makes this work is a real organic feel that comes from passion generated by the fact that the two people like each other and find more than the physical attractive in each other to start with. That's what I mean by organic.

I find that even when the hobbyist does his homework he may be disappointed but more over I believe many hobbyist miss out on many great finds. One of the reasons I started this company was because there are ladies in this business who are amazing providers but haven't a clue about marketing, maybe computer challenged and simply don't have the time to give it the attention it truly needs. Many ladies work other jobs, have children and home lives to manage and other obligations so they find themselves just throwing up something quick because that's all they can do.. The other disappointing fact is many ladies don't want to spend any money so do what ever is free. This certainly not the case for the OP I am just talking in general terms. I tell women all the time "you get out what you put into it".............This thread just proves it does matter the image you project even on ECCIE.

From reading many of the hobbyist post a gal might think it just about sex but when I read great post like in this thread it proves it is more than that!

For you guys who do your due diligence I commend you and you certainly reap the benefits of it.

[BigBaldBlk]

First off, Sandra, you are gorgeous no matter what age you are. Secondly, I'm from Colorado and moved to Illinois. Everyone in Illinois told me, "ah you'll get used to the cold b/c you are from Colorado!" I bought into it. We really don't get Chicago cold, so it was an eye opening experience the first (-20) degree day. I think the same can be said for hobbyist.

They think they've done their research, but don't really know the experience until after the encounter!