cbj vs bbbj

[Nina Rae]

[QUOTEGFE is supposed to be a way of catering to a man right? You treat him like you LIKE him, like hes a friend, and that you actually care. Now you have providers who give BBBJ but DONT even pretend to like you- to me that isnt GFE! Then you have girls whom kiss, and hug, and hold, and the passion is really there, which makes it GFE.


At the end of the day its your choice whether or not you decide to do cbj or bbbj.[/QUOTE]

I totally agree. My GFE is more than just a non-clock watching, pretend that I care experience. Now...I am usually BBBJ, but will do CBJ if there is something raising an issue for me (hygiene not fresh, etc). If my friends arrive clean and fresh, or shower when they arrive, then I'm all in. But I don't think that defines my GFE. I don't pretend. The reason my clients feel like I'm into them is because I am. They CAN'T tell the difference between me and a girlfriend b/c there is none. I remember them, their likes, dislikes, interests, details...all of it. And I make sure to apply what I know of them when we are together. I want them to feel like its a honeymoon just for us. I don't treat them like a "john" and so they don't feel like one. THAT is a GFE...just as the acronym suggests.

[Guest061514-1]

Girlfriend experience
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
For the film, see The Girlfriend Experience.

The girlfriend experience (commonly known as GFE) is a type of service a female prostitute offers which includes acting like a girlfriend to the client.[1]
A stripper may also provide a limited GFE to a customer with conversation, cuddling and non-sexual touching.
[edit]Adult service

The "girlfriend experience" generally involves more personal interaction than a traditional call girl or escort offers; it varies widely from person to person, however. There is a focus on not just having sex, but also having more of an experience.

Often sessions last longer and are "no rush," which means the call girl spends the full advertised time rather than rushing out after the sex is over. Common activities usually offered by GFE escorts include kissing[2] and/or french kissing, cuddling[2] and foreplay.
A call girl advertising the provision of a "girlfriend experience" is implying that she provides deep french kissing (DFK), "full service" (intercourse) usually with protection, and fellatio and cunnilingus, both with or without protection.[1] Advertising a "girlfriend experience" is sometimes used by call girls to promote business.
A corresponding term (used to describe a client who acts as a lover instead of merely a participant in a commercial transaction) is "BFE" or "boyfriend experience."


I'll go with this definition

[Guest061514-1]

Originally Posted by Nina Rae

[QUOTEGFE is supposed to be a way of catering to a man right? You treat him like you LIKE him, like hes a friend, and that you actually care. Now you have providers who give BBBJ but DONT even pretend to like you- to me that isnt GFE! Then you have girls whom kiss, and hug, and hold, and the passion is really there, which makes it GFE.


At the end of the day its your choice whether or not you decide to do cbj or bbbj.

I totally agree. My GFE is more than just a non-clock watching, pretend that I care experience. Now...I am usually BBBJ, but will do CBJ if there is something raising an issue for me (hygiene not fresh, etc). If my friends arrive clean and fresh, or shower when they arrive, then I'm all in. But I don't think that defines my GFE. I don't pretend. The reason my clients feel like I'm into them is because I am. They CAN'T tell the difference between me and a girlfriend b/c there is none. I remember them, their likes, dislikes, interests, details...all of it. And I make sure to apply what I know of them when we are together. I want them to feel like its a honeymoon just for us. I don't treat them like a "john" and so they don't feel like one. THAT is a GFE...just as the acronym suggests.[/QUOTE]


I agree with you 110% and I do just the same in the bedroom

[tikkler33]

I might humbly suggest that Wikipedia has its own definition, but I'd bet that the vast majority of guys on this board mean BBBJ when they hear the term GFE. And since we are on this board, and a common language is best for mutual understanding, it is probably best to use terms which are understood and accepted by the majority of people. Less confusion is better, IMHO.

[Guest061514-1]

I think a lot of women have a different policy for different people... After talking to a few women I've found that some offer bbbj for boardmembers and cbj for everyone else. Mostly bc of reviews which lays everything out on the table from the underwear she wore to how the sky looked on that day lol

There is somewhat of a comfort level working with guys from the board. BBBJ is a great feeling But its up to the woman to decide what works for her and for her to let the client know what she decides.

I still stick by there's no right or wrong way and to simply do what works for YOU!

[tikkler33]

Originally Posted by AmayaMoore

I think a lot of women have a different policy for different people... its up to the woman to decide what works for her and for her to let the client know what she decides.

I still stick by there's no right or wrong way and to simply do what works for YOU!

That's fine as long as she advertises honestly and says something like:
"I may do BBBJ for some guys, but maybe not for you."

If I know that I am rolling the dice when I make the appointment, that's my choice. I shouldn't have to find out about it once I'm already there.

[burkalini]

I will be honest and say the only way I can get off with oral is BBBJ. I enjoy a cbj but I have never finished that way. We hobbiest do understand the risk. as we do when we have sex with anyone not just providers. I will see providers that only do CBJ but they have to really be good in all the other departments. Nothing like the natural feel

[LeftySmith]

Safe, unsafe, feels good, doesn't feel good, yada yada yada...

The question was about whether or not GFE implied BBBJ, and the answer is hell yes it does.

I used a condom with many a girlfriend, but I never had a GF try to give me a bj with a cover on. Sorry, but that is no girlfriend experience in my book.

I may see a girl who does not do bbbj, but not if she makes a point of advertising herself as GFE. If I percieve the advertising as misleading I just scratch that one off the list.

Truth in advertising tops my requirements, which is why I wouldn't give a dime to most of the bp girls.

This is just my opinion and the way I perceive things. I recognize that some providers may really consider themselves GFE when I certainly don't, and I mean them no disrespect if they truly believe themselves to be honest and forthright. Still, we will never meet because I am the one doing the seeking and not the other way around.

Oh, and Eccie3000's other items apply as well.

Even though it may sound otherwise, I don't mean to insult any particular providers. I'm just saying how I interpret things for anyone who is counting.

GirlFriendExperience = not just busting a nut, but the chick is really cool, she's fun to be around, she has a great attitude, she's down for most anything that doesn't involve pain (unless that's her thing I guess), and she doesn't stop things to say 'hmmm, that'll be another fifty if you wanna do that'.

[LeftySmith]

Originally Posted by LeftySmith

The question was about whether or not GFE implied BBBJ

Damn! Actually, that wasn't the question (at least not the original question).

Ok, I could delete my post, but what the hell...

[tbone2u]

I wonder if the ladies that just offer CBJ have any idea of the number of clients that won't see them....I very much doubt it.

[bestoralntexas]

There are more germs shared in a DFK, then a BBBj.
But my favorite 4 letters bbbj OFCOURSE!
MY 2ND FAVE IS ....YMMV!
In fact, If i HAVE TO ALTER MY PREFERENCE;
WHATS THE POINT! ITS NOT ALL ABOUT THE GUY..
NEVER DONE ONE, NOT STARTING... ILL QUIT MY FETISH BEFORE I STICK SOME RUBBER ON A COCK, AND THEN STICK IT IN MY MOUTH!
So if it comes down to your mileage varying with me, I I dont do CBJ! I do open the door (& have), and say "Thanks for Stopping By!" (slam)
SH#T... if only they taught what I edo in High School, maybe in place of Homew Ec..There would be
World Peace! Aned probaly No Divorce..take your CBJ's, and I'll chill with the BBBj's.

[bestoralntexas]

damn

[Sensia]

Originally Posted by tbonetas

CBJ, BBBJ, GFE...just make it clear. Communication is always the key.
Met a visiting provider. Reviews were suggestive but did not really answer questions. Her ad said she would not answer questions on the phone. She looked hot. I bit. Get there...she looked as good as her pics. Slapped down the donation and got as comfortable as she. Asked about the menu. She told me she does not talk about that. We are naked. We are ready. But you do not want to tell me the does and don'ts?
I tried, but could not get into it. Left in 15 minutes.

Well.. she was probably protecting herself. She doesn't know if you are LE are not. The minute you put money down and discuss sex acts that is pretty much the minute that LE gets the green light to bust the door in and make the arrest on the gal. Wether you are naked or not makes no matter. LE gets naked all the time too, then starts with the "whats on the menu, what can I get for my money questions".

In my opinion GFE can be a YMMV thing too.. it is not if a girl does XYZ , but more the experience and how she makes you feel during your time with her. Somehow I think people have forgotten that and try to put what they think should be in the GFE description.

[Sensia]

Originally Posted by tbone2u

I wonder if the ladies that just offer CBJ have any idea of the number of clients that won't see them....I very much doubt it.

Actually, you would be surprised at how many men do request CBJ. I believe its all about the the type of clientelle you are targeting.

[sexialexis86]

its all about descression....I mostly always provide bbbj except if i am not comfortable(meaning hygiene not up to par) but I dont really like to suck on rubber lol and for the most part I havent had any problems with cleanliness. all of the men to see me have been squeeky clean!!!!!!