ATF if you ever kicked one to the curb... why???

[john353]

Several years ago, on ASPD...I wrote a review titled "The fall of an ATF" that pretty much spelled out in great detail what an absolute shitty time I had with a girl who at that time...I considered a favorite.

When I met "Melissa"... I was still somewhat of a newbie I guess, due in part to me not having made the transition to independents yet and still concentrating on the spas for my sexual enjoyment. Melissa was one of those girls who was young and unbelievably cute and very YMMV with those she didn't exactly take a fancy too. It was well documented that it was a crap shoot when you made an appointment with her, but one day I figured I would take my chances...so I called the spa and set it up.

Melissa must've taken a liking to me, because from that very first session, I could see her light up whenever she would walk out to the lobby and see me, and then she would take me by the hand and almost drag me back to her room. Needless to say, we had some very hot sessions and I always enjoyed seeing her.

Fast forward about a year I'm guessing.

Somewhere down the line, I can't remember...but there was a period where either I took a break from the hobby or she disappeared for awhile. At any rate...there was a period where we didn't see each other for an extended period.

One day I was looking around online and if I remember correctly, it was Cityvibe where I saw her ad. My Melissa had gone independent!

So naturally, I set up an appointment.

When I got to her incall, she acted like she had never seen me before. I was in total shock. Now this is a girl that I have seen I KNOW...at least 6 times or more, and we're talking, not that long ago!! That was strike one.

Then, ASSuming that since she was independent now...I figured MSOG was a given (newbie mistake) but as it turned out, it wasn't.
Melissa got me off as fast as she could and I'll never forget the look on her face when I busted my nut. It was a look of sheer excitement. She knew that she had got over on me. It was an hour appointment that lasted a little over 20 minutes.

I got home and couldn't WAIT to sit down and write that review, and of course, I went into great detail.

I don't know what ended up happening to Melissa, but it wasn't long after that...that she disappeared and I have no idea what became of her. I guess you could say after that last session, she was effectively...

...kicked to the curb.

[JDNorthface]

Interesting post. I'll add that I've always been inclined to develop ATF's. I like the comfort and friendliness. I can't say that I've ever "kicked one to the curb" but over the years I've (slowly) discontinued seeing my fav's for a variety of reasons. One most recent began to turn the conversation (too) often to drugs. I never saw evidence that she used them and never in six years have I heard her talk of them. But saw her once or twice a week for the last few years and this became a repeated topic of conversation for her. Often she was proclaiming how proud she was that she "never used them." Hmmm. I wonder. See, I don't have lunch with Tony the Tiger either so I don't ever bring it up. So, alarm bells start increasing in volume and visits start decreasing in frequency.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by JDNorthface

Interesting post. I'll add that I've always been inclined to develop ATF's. I like the comfort and friendliness. I can't say that I've ever "kicked one to the curb" but over the years I've (slowly) discontinued seeing my fav's for a variety of reasons. One most recent began to turn the conversation (too) often to drugs. I never saw evidence that she used them and never in six years have I heard her talk of them. But saw her once or twice a week for the last few years and this became a repeated topic of conversation for her. Often she was proclaiming how proud she was that she "never used them." Hmmm. I wonder. See, I don't have lunch with Tony the Tiger either so I don't ever bring it up. So, alarm bells start increasing in volume and visits start decreasing in frequency.

Very Interesting! I've also found that people constantly proclaiming they are not lying.... well you get my point!

[Guest110516]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Here is an example: Over all you have a great relationship with your ATF, but in the last 5 months you schedule an extended session and some major personal problem comes up. So you scrable to go into plan B mode. A few days later you read a review by Barney Big Dick and what a wonderful time he had with your ATF. Barney Big Dick even PM'S you and tells you how lucky you are to see her on a regular basis.

SL, is this the same one that you were considering kicking to the curb a while back, but who reeled you back in with you being her first anal? If so, imo, it's time to let that one go. If she tries to reel you back in with another first, just figure she's done it several times, gang bang style, with her multiple SOs. Hope that helps.

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I disagree with this synopsis. You can never convince me her service level is high for each client. What really believe is that human beings are inherently lazy, and the service level, in this case, is the minimum necessary to get by, but at the same time let the guy think he got outstanding service. If she fucks you, it's almost a sure thing. Guys are so easy.

Charles, I understand you're a glass-half-empty, that half is evaporating, and we were born dying, kind of guy. I disagree with your perspective, but I'll work with it. Even within the subpar domain, there can be different levels of service. So, my ATF might be giving me her D+ game (which I perceive as A+) and other guys get her D, D-, and less game. I do concede it's possible that we are all receiving the same level of service, and differences might only exist because of differences in hobbyists' perception. So, we might all receive her D game. I'll perceive it as her A+ game; SL will perceive it as her A game; you will perceive it as her F- game.

Original Question...

My first Almost ATF (AATF) didn't really do anything wrong. She just didn't fit my criteria as I grew more shallow.

My second AATF always had poor TCB, got older (I'm shallow, remember), go heavier (do I have to say it again?), started adding too many man-made enhancements (which didn't make her younger or lighter), and her script became too predictable. Did I mention I was shallow?

My current ATF is still giving me her A+ game and still meets my shallow criteria.

[JONBALLS]

ha, only posting this cause its appropriate to be right after a poster called EMPTY WALLET!

I dont really have atf's, I want variety
this one though was getting close to exclusive as Its ever been.Started to get frequency more so than any other, I was good for at least 2 fh and 1 overnight per mo, maybe more, it was trending that way, my "hobby" usually falls somewhere in the 10 g's min per year.

anyways, long story short, my pants came up missing a lousy fucking 60 to 70 bucks at the end of our last overnight..
I will miss her..I look at it as me getting kicked to the curb though, these chicks always have options

[Guest071514-1]

Now I'm wondering if I'm anyones ATF lol. Dang I'm gonna have to start asking my regs lol. I heard of alot of providers service slipping after awhile, I try to always treat my client like a king, and keep him coming back. I mean I wouldn't blame him for going somewhere else if I wasn't giving him the best time!

john353@ the spa is very competitive. Thats probably why she acted that way. Its the girl at the end of the day that feels best about herself, and gets all the guys. When she was alone she probably felt you were hooked and there was no need.

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by emptywallet

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My second AATF always had poor TCB, got older (I'm shallow, remember), go heavier (do I have to say it again?), started adding too many man-made enhancements (which didn't make her younger or lighter), and her script became too predictable. Did I mention I was shallow?...

Funny stuff. Good post.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by emptywallet

SL, is this the same one that you were considering kicking to the curb a while back, but who reeled you back in with you being her first anal? If so, imo, it's time to let that one go. If she tries to reel you back in with another first, just figure she's done it several times, gang bang style, with her multiple SOs. Hope that helps.

Ok, I feel much better now! SHIT!

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Ok, I feel much better now! SHIT!

Hiiiiiii SL


I'm back .


You got kicked to the curb by your ATF? Damn, boy, that sucks! Nothing like a pro to throw out the door !!

Ava

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by alluringava

Hiiiiiii SL


I'm back .


You got kicked to the curb by your ATF? Damn, boy, that sucks! Nothing like a pro to throw out the door !!

Ava

We missed you sweetie! Man that was a long vacation. Those TEXAS TOURS take it out of you don't they? LOL

No I had to do the Kicking! LOL

[Milehigh65]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

She who has the pussy makes the rules!

When you don't like the rules, then they get kicked to the curb.

Here is an example: Over all you have a great relationship with your ATF, but in the last 5 months you schedule an extended session and some major personal problem comes up. So you scrable to go into plan B mode. A few days later you read a review by Barney Big Dick and what a wonderful time he had with your ATF. Barney Big Dick even PM'S you and tells you how lucky you are to see her on a regular basis.

See ya.....

LOL! SL you just described a situatuation I just went through last month. 1 of my atf that I've been seeing since 07' , starting acting flakey I had cal ed to set appt she said she was sick, called a couple of days later said she felt much better so I booked and set the time. 1 hr before the scheduled time I call to let her know i was on my way, but there was no answer made several attempts still no answer, I wait a couple of days call her again Iask her what happen the other day she said she was sorry but had fallen asleep, at this point I was done fucking with her so I did not even offer to set another appt. Aout wks later I'm browsing her review and I see that she has been very busy multiple "Barney big dicks had been over there standinging up in that pussy, and oddly enough, well I'll be damn the same days I had been trying to see her.
Well I later figured out what the deal was, you see I had a grandfather rate i'd been paying since 07' on several occassion I asked if she wanted me to pay her current rates and she said not to worry about that I had been loyal to her for a long time there were periods of time were I was seeing her at least once a week some times 2x/wk. But I truly think she kiked me to the curb based on a buisiness decission, see me and some money or blow me off and see others and make more money. It's all good though on to the next one.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Milehigh65

LOL! SL you just described a situatuation I just went through last month. 1 of my atf that I've been seeing since 07' , starting acting flakey I had cal ed to set appt she said she was sick, called a couple of days later said she felt much better so I booked and set the time. 1 hr before the scheduled time I call to let her know i was on my way, but there was no answer made several attempts still no answer, I wait a couple of days call her again Iask her what happen the other day she said she was sorry but had fallen asleep, at this point I was done fucking with her so I did not even offer to set another appt. Aout wks later I'm browsing her review and I see that she has been very busy multiple "Barney big dicks had been over there standinging up in that pussy, and oddly enough, well I'll be damn the same days I had been trying to see her.
Well I later figured out what the deal was, you see I had a grandfather rate i'd been paying since 07' on several occassion I asked if she wanted me to pay her current rates and she said not to worry about that I had been loyal to her for a long time there were periods of time were I was seeing her at least once a week some times 2x/wk. But I truly think she kiked me to the curb based on a buisiness decission, see me and some money or blow me off and see others and make more money. It's all good though on to the next one.

Good for you MH! Just remember... what cums around goes around!

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

We missed you sweetie! Man that was a long vacation. Those TEXAS TOURS take it out of you don't they? LOL

No I had to do the Kicking! LOL

OH! Well that's even worse than the other way around LOL! I'd feel pretty dumb if my ATF status got kicked to the curb by a client. :P

Yeah that Texas Tour really took the wind out of me. I had to 'relax' for 23 days....celibacy is a bitch!! LOL

[Mr E]

When they withdraw too much money for the service.
When I can't make deposits due to bankers hours or holidays.

Then this atm finds a new bank to do business with.

[charlestudor2005]

23 days??? That's such an odd number.