Popular Misconceptions About Providers

[mikkifine]

Thank you for posting.

Originally Posted by BustyBridgette

This is an awesome thread..and i agree with much that was said. Especially that were not robots and we do have normal lives..So true..So true..

In addition many hobbiest believe that a provider will do naything for the right amount. Some of us are really in this because we enjoy it. Surprise surprise

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Well Iam glad someone thought that was funny.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by acp5762

Well Iam glad someone thought that was funny.

I have 6 chihuahuas at home, and yes, at certain times they look at me like, "Mom, do you have to watch EVERYTHING we do? Pass the TP." You really have to have dogs in your life to know that furry embarrassment expression. The part about them talking struck me as funny, especially after drinking. I think after I pass out sometimes they whisper subliminal suggestions about their idol, the refrigerator, 'cause I wake up ravenous and cook them huge amounts of bacon and eggs.

[Sweet N Little]

I think its like anything else, from lawyers to telemarketers, we all have an opinion of them and tend to judge. It is very obvious by how some post they resent the fact that they have to pay for it, I see it as a service and as BustyBridgette said, some are in it because because they actually enjoy it, kinda like not all lawyers are bottom feeders etc. lol

I see it as its job that fills a man's need for judgment-free friendship and, at times, to help him repair his broken partnership.

I feel lucky, Ive been treated with respect by all ive seen and have never been a victim of bad treatment. Treat them well and they will treat you well


@fancy..Rock on sexy lady!

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I feel lucky, Ive been treated with respect by all ive seen and have never been a victim of bad treatment. Treat them well and they will treat you well

+1

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

...I see it as its job that fills a man's need for judgment-free friendship and, at times, to help him repair his broken partnership..,..

Now, THAT is one of the best sentences I've ever seen to describe a large part of the provider's role in the hobby.

[LynnT]

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I feel lucky, Ive been treated with respect by all ive seen and have never been a victim of bad treatment. Treat them well and they will treat you well

Me too except from the thief in Texas.. All though he was most gentlemanly, well dressed, and clean during the appointment. lol..


I have problems with men Ive never even seen for some reason.. I just had to alert on a dude from another board Ive never saw as a client, emailed, have barley said 2 words to the man on the board, and never met at a M&G either.. Stalker weirdo and hes a main poster..



Agreed there are a-holes in all types of business. Good eggs and bad eggs..

[mikkifine]

LynnT- I tend to have problems with people I have never met before as well. I have never been part of clique and do not feel obligated to be part of one now. Cliques in my opinion are nothing but a group of people with small minds that get their jollies from degrading others.

[DallasRain]

good post!

misconceptions....
That I smoke---I do not smoke,but am around smokers in my RL life

That I enjoy texting---unless I know you,I feel it is too impersonal

That I can be ready "on a whim"---it takes a little time to prepare fo a session{first is getting you verified}......bubble bath/makeup/atmosphere/etc

I do not have a pimp---I have an SO of 30 years....he is actually my MFM sessions and gangbang sessions partner...we are in an "open minded style relationship".......BUT he will never be around,unless you want him to

That I am just doing this for the money----while that may be the ultimate goal,I DO LOVE WHAT I DO{I am a sex addict}

[*GoddessDallas*]

Lying rarely gets you where you want to go.
I have no reason to lie...I think that comes with maturity.

I truely want a man here with me as a buddy...I take care of him and he takes care of me.
I have few good friends, but they are out of state.
I have no family and own a dog.
I am in the eccie chatroom most of the evening, and I go to bed and sleep.
I don't have night sessions and wake up and feed my dog in the morning, and the birds and squirrels on my patio.
My regular life even bores my dog.

I think if the truth be known, that provider's lives are really uneventful outside of the hobby.

[papadee]

Has anyone thought that he was just joking/kidding. That it had nothing to do with providing?

I been awake in the early morning and sent some emails (non-hobby related). Friends & family both will ask do I ever sleep. I don't see this as a provider issue, but more of "what are you doing up at this hour" thing, which happens in and out of the hobby.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by papadee

Has anyone thought that he was just joking/kidding. That it had nothing to do with providing?

I been awake in the early morning and sent some emails (non-hobby related). Friends & family both will ask do I ever sleep. I don't see this as a provider issue, but more of "what are you doing up at this hour" thing, which happens in and out of the hobby.

I sleep 5-6 hours a night. If I go to bed at 10, I'm up at 3 or 4.

[papadee]

Originally Posted by papadee

Has anyone thought that he was just joking/kidding. That it had nothing to do with providing?

I been...

And excuse me for not writing "I have been". See what happens when you don't sleep.

[Missy Mariposa]

I was in a routine where I'd sleep from 12-4:30, paint until 10, sleep until 1pm for awhile. It was portfolio season, crunch time.

Normally not so much the case. I stay up a bit late, and I get up moderately early. The morning light is great for painting.

I won't answer emails after 1am or before 6am though, it's seen as shady. I'm not sure why, but it is.

[canuckvic]

Some girls I know who party alot I just usually wait until the afternoon to contact them and others that don't, I will usually contact them in the afternoon........