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dingy_daphne · 01-27-2012, 03:19 AM

Your not the sharpest knife in the drawer are you sweetie??

Get it together baby or call me & allow me to show you how Mr. Wake-up!!

BDSaint · 01-27-2012, 03:44 AM

i still ain't figured out why he calls himself ""little spike""

not that it matters !!

hehehe

dingy_daphne · 01-27-2012, 04:20 AM

You guys all shared interesting points and enclosed an unlimited amount of views on this matter. My Research on the hobby showed that "Call girls" not hookers,(Do they even still exsist?? lol Just kidding!) were highly respected women in the older cowboy days & now it's a fact that times have changed since we use to saddle horses!! A " Call Girl" could be & should be viewed as a girl that you guys could marry!! Why not?? I mean there are awesome call girls out here who are very sophisticated and have knowledge well beyond the ordinary lady!! Besides you guys wouldn't believe if i told you that the ordinary (is what we call them) maybe less "HONEST" in relatinships and marriages than the trusted & committed call girl!! Guys what will the world become if a beautiful call girl doesn't get the chance to ever earn the respect to one day become a faithful &
trusted wife and mother of a great family??

WOW YOU GUYS HAVE PENIS FOR A HEART!! But I love your views!! Thanks! * DingyDaphne*

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Jack Flash · 01-27-2012, 04:31 AM

I think all "call girls" aka hookers should have the right to find true love and settle down and get married. Just not with me. She will most likely end up marrying some guy that has no clue his sweet innocent wife has fucked 3000 men in the past few years. And as long as she keeps that shit secret, they can live happily the fuck ever after.

Trey · 01-27-2012, 04:38 AM

If you ever want to get married let me give you some good advice. Never ever, NEVER EVER, tell your guy or perspective guy about this side of your life. Men can't take it no more then I can just tell a girl "hey I pay for sex then write about it on the internet", and the expect her to say "that's cool."

Capt. Lincoln F. Stern · 01-27-2012, 05:59 AM

ok.. I think what needs to be said is this:
Can a lady in this lifestyle get married ?
Sure.. but the guy probably needs to be not from this area of life.. aka not a hobbyist.

A guy who has been in this lifestyle (a hobbyist) can he marry an escort? sure.. but their past has to die off and if they know of their pasts that is a road filled with bumps

Point is that if you know that either have been in this life, it unlocks or opens the door to a cheating spouse since they already know the groundwork to this lifestyle.

Hell I know of a lady who cheated on her ex and is now married with a child with the new hubby.. he knows of her cheating and how she pulled it off.. what she does not know is he monitors her online world. He told me the first sign of cheating and he will take steps

zebra's do not change their stripes.... and if someone cheated before.. they already know how to cheat on you and have experience in doing so.

but yeah I can see a lady settling down with some guy who has never been in the hobby... probably happens all the time.

Guest032414-2 · 01-27-2012, 06:37 AM

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Originally Posted by dingy_daphne

You guys all shared interesting points and enclosed an unlimited amount of views on this matter. My Research on the hobby showed that "Call girls" not hookers,(Do they even still exsist?? lol Just kidding!) were highly respected women in the older cowboy days & now it's a fact that times have changed since we use to saddle horses!! A " Call Girl" could be & should be viewed as a girl that you guys could marry!! Why not?? I mean there are awesome call girls out here who are very sophisticated and have knowledge well beyond the ordinary lady!! Besides you guys wouldn't believe if i told you that the ordinary (is what we call them) maybe less "HONEST" in relatinships and marriages than the trusted & committed call girl!! Guys what will the world become if a beautiful call girl doesn't get the chance to ever earn the respect to one day become a faithful &
trusted wife and mother of a great family??

WOW YOU GUYS HAVE PENIS FOR A HEART!! But I love your views!! Thanks! * DingyDaphne*

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But does she have the ability to trust her husband, the former hobbiest?

I am not in this to find love. Granted I have never done anything to find love, so I can't say it won't happen with 100% certainty. So yes, it is possible and I'm sure plenty of providers can be great wives and moms.

LexusLover · 01-27-2012, 06:54 AM

The first question ought to be: "Why should I get married?"

Then start figuring out an acceptable profile for the person with whom you plan to spend the rest of your life. Make a list of the qualities and attributes that would inspire you the most to remain with your choice for the rest of your life, even into your latter years when gravity and weather have been unkind to you both.

If a "provider" for the men or "hobbyist" for "women" is low, or last, on the list ...

... then?

As for "keeping the past a secret" .... you can't. So be willing and prepared to accept the consequences of your initial career choice, even if it were a temporary, convenient decision that was expedient at the moment.

Out_of_Bounds · 01-27-2012, 07:17 AM

Daphne is right. Back in the old west, settlers would frequently visit "whores".
They'd visit on a regular basis often turning these mistresses into wives and starting families.
Of course back then it was one of a handful of occupations for women. That and a wife.
Also there was no such thing as a clock when it came to mongering.

Out_of_Bounds · 01-27-2012, 07:18 AM

Daphne is right. Back in the old west, settlers would frequently visit "whores".
They'd visit on a regular basis often turning these mistresses into wives and starting families.
Of course back then it was one of a handful of occupations for women. That and a wife.
Also there was no such thing as a clock when it came to mongering.

dearhunter · 01-27-2012, 07:40 AM

Hooktards are usually batshit crazy...........they would make excellent wives.......ijs.

bbkid · 01-27-2012, 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by dearhunter

Hooktards are usually batshit crazy...........they would make excellent wives.......ijs.

Wait. Isn't "being batshit crazy" a prerequisite to becoming a wife? I'm confused here....
(Btw: dearhunter, your post count number on this one was 6969. ijs)

Guest100318 · 01-27-2012, 08:20 AM

"Penis for a heart"? That's me allright.

enderwiggin · 01-27-2012, 09:32 AM

To each their own, but I don't need my women to be either "virgin" or "whore". I can take it if they're some of each, even a whole lot of one. But I've dated virgins before and its fucking boring. Gimme whores anyday.

IJS, anyone I'm gonna settle down with is going to be just as fucked up, perverted and "damaged" as I am. I ain't hiding my past, she shouldn't have to either.

landon · 01-27-2012, 09:42 PM

My primary provider is already married and describes him as her soulmate on her facebook page. She expressed to me a long time ago she does not believe in monogamy and sex is her hobby. I don't believe he is aware of her providing.

I am sure there are tradeoffs in any marriage and some guys accept a gal being a provider. Some men even like to watch other men gang bang their woman. I am neither of these.

I hobby bc of the advantages it offers and the opportunities to enjoy differrent women. I do not see marriage as an option for me at this stage of my life and have zero interest in women who would be "age group appropriate" for me. The strippers and providers I have done are interested in men in their age group in terms of say a traditional relationship. A man is a fool to think otherwise. Marry my provider? Not for me, I prefer lease instead of buy.