Tipping Question

[JONBALLS]

"tipped" the cleaning lady once or twice....

[Lexxxy]

Tips and gifts are never expected but they are always appreciated and flattering. I have gotten tips and gifts from $20-$200- new luggage sets- ipod- notebook- giftcards- plants- candles- chocolate- spa packages... it all depends on the Gent.
Actually, I lied, if someone really overstays I expect a tip or a hot review explaining why they overstayed :P

[roscoe14850]

Lower shelf, check!

[Jim Fett]

I have never tipped any provider. But I have been with the same person 2.5 years on and off, and she gets a raise when I get a raise. Now the bad part, I just got a $500 a month pay cut. She still gets the same rate. But, over the years I have driven her over 1000 miles, loaned her my truck, loaned her $, and she lived with me for 3 weeks when she was homeless last year.

[jimmyb]

you know what I cant believe some of you guys. The ladies ask what they ask because that what they want , when you got to a resterant do you NEGOTIATE the price ? If it too expencive go to Mc donnalds same train of thought works here. If you dont think a ladies worth it go somewhere else to find what you want.
I know I had wonderful girls at all the price ranges and had god awful ones at all of them too. When a lady treats you right and give you alittle special treatment she does deserve a tip if you want to show your appreciation. I know i had a wonderful lady use to trave to Syr doesnt anymore but she never watch the clock sometimes spend an extra 30mins with me, I used to tip the hell out of her.

[roscoe14850]

Jim Boscoe, you got a good heart.

[offshoredrilling]

Jim

mmmmm after being with the same 3 much longer each. I feel your pain. with one I do not think I would last 3 weeks with. After 2 days I had it one time. one i could almost make it 3 weeks. mmmm then one it would scare me. And be with much to long. Hell I almost wanted to make a test/joke. line up one side of page time i could stay with, names on the other. Let guy draw a line to what ya think. LOL

You must play it to close as I.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by jimmyb

you know what I cant believe some of you guys. The ladies ask what they ask because that what they want , when you got to a resterant do you NEGOTIATE the price ? If it too expencive go to Mc donnalds same train of thought works here. If you dont think a ladies worth it go somewhere else to find what you want.
I know I had wonderful girls at all the price ranges and had god awful ones at all of them too. When a lady treats you right and give you alittle special treatment she does deserve a tip if you want to show your appreciation. I know i had a wonderful lady use to trave to Syr doesnt anymore but she never watch the clock sometimes spend an extra 30mins with me, I used to tip the hell out of her.

MMmm as to what most call the hobby, I call shopping. you can tip, I will not. I will change her car tire in a snow storm, but not tip.

[CetiAlpha6]

Wait..Lexy..I am told if I tip you you will be "insulted".

Now I am confused.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by CetiAlpha6

Wait..Lexy..I am told if I tip you you will be "insulted".

Now I am confused.

mmmm just my view. I can tell ya some are others not. all will take it from you. Small gifts buy ya more if ya want to play that game. repeating is the best tip. Stop payin your just another guy on a shmb, a tool to use at best.

you asked for opinion you got some that agree with ya others that do not. I would like to hear from more providers also. But betting you will not hear more than its ok, to its not necessary.

[JEN OF SYRACUSE]

Honestly I dont expect tips or gifts.I chose my rate and thats all I expect the guys to come with.I get tips all the time which are appreciated but never expected and if you feel the need to tip then tip what you feel is necessary for that session.The question you asked was what is a fair tip I dont think theres really a solid answer for that because everyones rates are different so what you may tip with one provider with a low rate you may not tip that same amount with another provider with a higher rate.

[Guest120615-3]

It depends and I have no clue how much and when to actually give the tip. It's just so awkward. I have always thought extra time deserves something.
Lately, I've had these clock-free dates that I don't even get a clear rate from the provider. I just put money in envelope and hope for the best! And I'm sure she does as well!

[Lexxxy]

Originally Posted by CetiAlpha6

Wait..Lexy..I am told if I tip you you will be "insulted".

Now I am confused.

I'm uber confused. Did I accidentally butcher what I meant to say while posting on my Droid? Sometimes that happens
I would never get insulted if someone were to give me a tip. I never expect a tip or a gift, however, I LOVE them when I get them *Giggle*.

[Chloe]

I concur with the other ladies where anything extra is not expected. I am super flattered if they do, or leave a well thought out gift or any gift . . . even the compliments leave me glowing!

I will not lie, if someone treats me extra special I will give them extra special treatment like being available when they want me to be or traveling to their city on their schedule and extra special does not mean you tip me but you treat me very well

We are not minimum wage employees or servers who make a living on tips alone but I speak only as an independent lady who never up sells or will provide more or less (menu options) than expected so expectations of more money than the agreed upon amount is not there.

I would suggest tipping an agency lady you find to be extra steller because their pimp takes half of the donation and the lady can usually keep the tips, not to mention become more available to you.

My favorite tip?? Find me an extra long pair of thigh highs with the stickies up top that are not queen sized and I will love you!!! With a 35 inch inseam and an abnormal bra size finding things to fit me at normal stores are close to impossible!!

[NormalBob]

I will tip on occasion.

To be honest though, most of us get screwed so often out of a decent session that when you get someone who does what they should that it just feels to me like, hey... I didn't get cheated this time.

I also write reviews. In my mind, that's a tip. I'd guess that only 10-15% actually write them so if it is a good session and I share that, then it seems like I've done my part beyond showing up clean and sober.

Having sex by the hour is really pretty damn expensive if you step back and take a look at the fee divided by the time.

Geezus... for that, please just do your part ladies.