Ok - we're getting away from karma in this hobby. (Any monitors want to chastize us?) Sounds like you have a GREAT relationship with your son - evolved from parent-child as he entered adult life to mentor-friend now. For sci-fi buffs (hope you are one, Wheretonow), I'm reminded of a dialog from the "Eureka" series:
Sheriff Carter: (as he tries to talk Dr. Carolson from committing suicide by jumping off of a bridge), "I get it - you've had a really rotten day, and life sucks! Why don't we climb back over it (the railing) and talk about it, huh? Grab a few BEERS ...... what do you say, huh?
Dr. Carolson: "I never grabbed a beer with anybody in my whole life ..... You think we could be friends?"
Sheriff Carter: "I think that's what the beer is for."
As I look at my relationships with my family members to date, this only works with those that don't have alcholoism.
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Originally Posted by Wheretonow
He really doesn't give "advice", he likes to thoroughly examine whatever subject we're discussing. Since it's usually done over (and after) a few beers, I always find it enjoyable and enlightening.
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