Evolution

[anaximander]

The grass is always greener on the other side.

Realistically there is little difference between P4P
and non-prov women; semantics, pure semantics.
You'll need money for an SO. In someways SO's
cost leagues above what a premium provider does
and they rarely will do as much as often.

I'm going back to school just so I can afford
to put a hideaway honey on retainer.

SO's are a two edged sword.
Providers at least will let you be in peace.
If you are thinking a more permanent type of woman
would be better for loneliness issues think again.
It's a crapshoot there too.
It's a joke to think civie females are any more
suited to better care for your emotions.
That's the first mistake. Only you can care
for your emotions consistently. You try and
count on someone else you are just setting
yourself up for a big fall.
Truly good women are rare. Even then they got
preferences too- no anal, no 69, no CIM,
not even a fuggin hj if they are OtR.
Oh and their moods........grrrrr
My provs have moods too- they're women
but I don't get vexed over it.
Provs have fewer hidden costs than SO.
Only thing SO's are good for is breeding.

The lack of any progeny maybe the real nut here.
Since I have children, I will always be loved,
and in hoary age taken care of.

If I was truly single.......whoa.
I know, this only further complicates things.
But it is a perspective.

[anaximander]

Originally Posted by Tellsoftly

But perhaps I am here to entertain you...? But who was phone?!?

(Internet memes and puns aside, I have been offered a session by a provider I have spoken with. Attempting to discern presently if this violates any kind of ethical guideline when it comes to writing on a subject.)

I would have to say no.
I watched a special on Current(commie ass econetwork);
wherein this reporter was detailing the possible
overfishing of bluefin tuna. Lamenting a possible
future without bluefin tuna. All the while he was
feasting on bluefin steaks and bellies worth
tens of thousands of dollars.

So I would guess you're free to sample the
offerings of any/all willing providers:
provided you don't WK one on wsj or nyt.
Keep your perspective and you'll be fine.

War correspondents have to go to combat areas.

You? Well there are tougher assignments.
Some guys get all the luck.

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by anaximander

The grass is always greener on the other side.

Realistically there is little difference between P4P
and non-prov women; semantics, pure semantics.
You'll need money for an SO. In someways SO's
cost leagues above what a premium provider does
and they rarely will do as much as often.

I'm going back to school just so I can afford
to put a hideaway honey on retainer.

SO's are a two edged sword.
Providers at least will let you be in peace.
If you are thinking a more permanent type of woman
would be better for loneliness issues think again.
It's a crapshoot there too.
It's a joke to think civie females are any more
suited to better care for your emotions.
That's the first mistake. Only you can care
for your emotions consistently. You try and
count on someone else you are just setting
yourself up for a big fall.
Truly good women are rare. Even then they got
preferences too- no anal, no 69, no CIM,
not even a fuggin hj if they are OtR.
Oh and their moods........grrrrr
My provs have moods too- they're women
but I don't get vexed over it.
Provs have fewer hidden costs than SO.
Only thing SO's are good for is breeding.

The lack of any progeny maybe the real nut here.
Since I have children, I will always be loved,
and in hoary age taken care of.

If I was truly single.......whoa.
I know, this only further complicates things.
But it is a perspective.

Your post is strictly on a sex issue. That apparently is all you need. so yes a provider is the best bang for your buck no pun intended. But i don't care how many times you see a particular girl or how well you think you know her she really isn't in your corner. Of course she's not going to be moody or demanding or anything like a SO would be and thats because she isn't a part of your life. She has nothing to loose and neither do you. You have people in your life your kids, maybe an occasional real date or someone just there for your emotional support and then a provider for your sexual urges. Kind of a wishy washy arrangement but if it works for ya then go for it. But remember this is the best it will ever be.

[anaximander]

Feh, I disagree completely.

I have had relationships that were based
solely on interpersonal communication.
Come time to consumate the relationship...
Uh not so good- crash and burn in less
than 24 hrs.

See just how many women are willing
to rough the downside of for richer
or poorer...lol be real.

I have established a behavior pattern
over 20 ys. I didn't wander for over 19.
I type this now with her in the room.
But she figures its another inane
saturnian/greek mytho/politic-gun bbs.
After 20 ys why expect otherwise.
Hide in plain sight.
Similarly I have up to 2 and a half hours
of pure fuck around time a day.
Go into business for myself,
well then it all depends....

Like I said a hideaway honey on retainer.

My provs not in my corner?
My SO is a red head get in line.
Hell Marilyn was more pleased with me getting
back in town than the SO was. Maybe the SO
has an SO? Who knows? Who cares?
She's doing her best to hide it- enough for me.
She is even less willing to cross our daughters mores.

I have warned her of not sating my desires
and potential consequences for almost
2 decades. Fair warning was given and restated.
I have done nothing that I have not told her
beforehand- names as well Marilyn, Beckey. Safire
she just won't pay attention.
Hide in plain sight.