When the drunk girl spends the night

[Randall Creed]

+1, CPI.

Shit ain't that serious. And hell, we COULD take offense to you saying we need to get laid (seemed kinda personal), but due to the fact that I always need to get laid (even after I just did), I ain't gonna worry about it.

[atlcomedy]

Originally Posted by cpi3000

PPE, I am much more close to the situation than you realize. If sarcasm and humor are not allowed here, then this site is in a lot of trouble. I guarantee Omaha2dallas will laugh when he reads my comments. We happen to spend a lot to time together at the same club.

There was no malice, no personal attack and no cause for your comments addressed to me as a moderator in public. The man posted a poll and discussion thread with the options to vote to validate him as a gentleman to calling him an idiot in a discussion forum.

I realize you are a new mod and you wish to keep order in Tbone's house. There is a difference between spirited discussions, personal attacks, and just having fun with a topic. We are talking about sex, sexual partners, and of course, the criminal act of prostitution to which this site is predicated upon. The members are used to engaging in some good banter and ribbing with our online friends in the spirit of good nature. I agree the personal attacks and agendas should be discouraged and flames put out when needed. I think you may have interpreted my post wrong.


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Back on topic:

I live by the credo of what comes around, goes around. If you take advantage of other people, it will come back to you, both good and bad. At that particular club, it takes a while to build a foundation like we have as well as lots of $$$$. Short term thinking could ruin that. Thinking long term pays continuous dividends.

I would agree that this bored is in trouble if the Mod's sense of humor is limited...my experience is that isn't the case.

That said I don't know what "PPE's" standing here is. I thought "Chipper" was the mod here?

I had a similar situation when "St. Christopher" waded in to a forum as a visiting mod and declared some posts were inappropriate. I encouraged him to actually read the thread in its entirety before making judgements...to his credit he took the feedback & did read...and things moved on without incident.

That is why you have local/forum specific mods. Hopefully they get to know the regulars and know some of the inside jokes and the good natured ribbing that is acceptable.

[CassidyBlue]

Big props to you. You did the right thing.

[Guest060812]

Yes, CPI is my Buddy, and I did invite the criticism. So I take no offense at his or Rambo's opinions. I wanted to hear what both the guys and the Ladies had to say. But thanks PPE for standing up for me. And I know CPI is just having fun with me, but I realize maybe no one else knew that.

Back on topic, I seriously appreciate the opinions. I was at a total loss what to do the other night. My conscience probably got the better of me not to take advantage of her. Who knows, she might have said no if I would have tried anything. But I do agree with what CPI said about having built up my credibility in the Club. The girls know me and trust me, and I have indeed had sex with other girls from there before without taking advantage of anyone. So I am now definitely feeling like I made the right decision. It's really not me to ever take advantage of anybody. Just not my style.

But please, everybody tell us your opinion. And Mods, I did invite the criticism if that is their opinion, I would like to hear it.

[xperiment]

If she was tipsy yet still cognitive I may make a move on someone whos drunk. However I think thats all situational on the relationship I have or may not have with someone. In the end I have to wake up in the morning and live with myself each day.

Originally Posted by dirty diana

ps
xperiment: space balls was on tv today. i lmao in such a loud & obnoxious way that i think i lost a couple pounds. i hadn't seen that in soooo long i forgot how silly it is

Not to get off topic here. Yes seeing old movies we forget how funny they are. Saw the Jerk with Steve Martin last month and it was hilarious.

For those in Dallas Spaceballs is being played at the Inwood theater for the Midnight Madness showing late April. http://www.landmarktheatres.com/Mark...s_Frameset.htm

We now return you to your regular program....

[governmentguru]

I can't get past the part where you are a titty dancer taxi service... and you're worried about taking advantage of her??? I bet by now she is back on with her "asshole boyfriend"...

Run Forrest Run!!

[petiteassman]

if so many of the sp's on here feel he's earned brownie points by making the right decision someone step up and reward this guy. she was a dancer not sp so if one, or more sp feel this guy did the right thing toss him a freebie telling him hey you did the right thing and heres your reward. he will feel by doing the right thing things still worked out and chances are the sp will get a new long term client and friend. just a thought.

[endowedtxn4bbw]

You played it perfect. You were caring understanding guy. A great way for much fun later!

[Guest050911]

CPI / Rambo,

While I appreciate that I do not know how close either of you are to the OP, I do believe that your tone was too harsh. I asked for you to tone it down. Did not say that you should not post or not rib, tease, torment, etc. But I believe what you posted to be meanspirited and asked you to tone that down. I think you will find that my sense of humor is as refined as anyone here. and I can fully appreciate good sarcasm.

That is all.

And, yes, I did read the entire thread here. And no, I am not a mod on this forum, so take if for what you will.

PPE

[RickO'shayRabbitt]

That you even have to ask is frightening.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Alright. So say that omaha2dallas is drunk and asks me to let him stay with me because he is distressed, he cannot drive and he's having issues with a relationship.

IF I took advantage of him, used his body for my own pleasure, would the responses be the same? You know. Shoe on the other foot and all.

And now since he's such an obvious gentleman, and shame on me for even thinking this, but I have this sneaky suspicion that taking advantage of a drunk man might be thought of differently.

Just stirring it around a bit! This is such a great topic, btw!

Elisabeth

[npita]

In addition to noting that taking advantage of someone's drunkeness is just wrong, doing so might also be detrimental to your own self-interest. I'm not sure about Texas, but in a number of states, someone who is intoxicated is considered to have impaired judgment and therefore, incapable of voluntarily consenting to sex. In that case, sex becomes rape.

[Guest101811-3]

man, the same type of thing happened to me in college (not uncommon I understand). Funny thing is I did the same thing. Was a total gentleman and gave her my bed and slept on the floor. Funny thing is that since that time, even though we knew each other, she has looked at me as if something happened anyway. (I think she had drunken fun earlier in the night). At the time, she was asking me to undress her and I declined and let her sleep in her clothes. She woke up the next morning and totally freaked out. So I was a gentleman and got treated as if I weren't. lol.

[Sweet Heather]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

She has some level of trust in you. To have taken advantage of her would have broken that trust.

+1

I'm so glad to see that most of the gents that have replied to this thread are nice guys that will do the right thing in instances such as this.

That being said, threads like this sure bring out the douchebags, the posers, the assholes as well.

Ladies, take note of the posts and those posting when determining if you will accept an appointment from these gents. H

[stavinChain]

You can never go wrong by being a gentleman.

As you stated, she's a dancer, not a provider. And, uh, lemme see, sex without consent - isn't that called, uh, r-a-p-e?