Hobby dating is far better. People tend to be more initially uninhibited who do this. And it’s not all about just how sexually adventurous they are.
People you tend to date in real world worth their salt take grooming. I date with a purpose and not just for the result of consistent sex. That’s takes more resources and time to do.
Hobby dating itself just seems people can be more themselves. And maybe that’s a testament to how more trusting ladies have been around me. They will drink more than 2 drinks and not feel vulnerable, there’s no vetting process when it comes to their levels of intimacy since it’s pre picked, and they don’t say no. Money is attached to those freedoms at times though. So that changes things.
Real world dating has money attached to it too. But it’s moreso about what you provide and present in life. Sex isn’t overly important initially because my expectations for real people aren’t the same as the providers I choose to see. Some of my most favorite ATF like providers were the polar opposite of the ladies and type I dated in real life. Can be challenging trying to find a lady with a mix of both good sex and intangible qualities and attributes of a good mate.
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