Question

[Joeblow1983]

Originally Posted by FiddleSticks

Referrals are one thing.
But when you start asking for personal info like Real Name, Address, pictures of ID, where we work, etc... Then that's crossing the line.

Would you provide us that info about yourself? Fuck no!
So why should we be expected to provide it to you?

The risk is absolutely higher for us when you start asking all this personal information.
For all we know you have a pimp. And you and your pimp are running a scam to rob people, or steal identities.

So a simple rules of thumb should be this...
If you won't give us the exact same info that you expect us to give, then you shouldn't ask for it.

MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY!!!

[Unique_Carpenter]

I thought the original issue was guys being overly rude to a gal asking for additional data. Politely saying no is much more appropriate

[Saint Expedite]

Originally Posted by Ellie_AlexandraXXX

In this business, all attention is good attention. If you are being talked about it means you are doing something right. Guys will say things about you, good and bad. Ignore it all. Don’t read any of the chatter or the things that are said about you on this board. Focus on building relationships with guys that are respectful of your boundaries and screening process. If you have plans on being in this business for a while be consistent, dependable, prompt and professional. Work hard to build your name, brand and reputation because those things follow you everywhere you go. Be VERY selective on who you see. NEVER compromise your screening for anyone. You don’t have to see everyone that contacts you. There are guys on here that love to prey on new providers. Never let anyone pressure you into meeting them or doing things that you are not comfortable doing. The only guys that will complain about your screening process are the ones who can’t meet your requirements. Those are usually the guys who post on here about being robbed, scammed or put in dangerous situations because they selected to see someone who didn’t screen them. Scammers, Robbers and LE do not screen! Be upfront, clear and concise on what you require for screening. If a guy isn’t comfortable providing you the things you may need to verify him don’t waste anymore of your time. There are a lot of great guys on this board but there are also several professional trolls. You are doing great so far. Ignore the negativity and focus on the things that you can control. Have fun and stay safe!

^ALL OF THIS^

Don't let anyone equivocate the risks you take as a provider vs the risk they take a consumer. They are not the same level of risk. Far too many people here who are all too happy to tell a provider how they should screen and what they should charge. Blow them off and move on, you don't owe them anything.

[royamcr]

Being extra extra extra careful spells pimp to me. A girl getting busted for just hookering is an inconvenience and costs a little money as long as no other offenses. A pimp getting busted is trafficking and a whole lot worse.

[SweetSuzanna]

I like you. Well said!

Originally Posted by TailHooked

Yes, you are in the right place. Screening is hobby related. There are no rules on screening. Each girl can do as she pleases. After all, it is the girls who take more chances than the guys. So screen whatever way you desire. Safety is the most important part of the hobby. When a girl does 't screen me, I am more reluctant to even see her. Because all kinds of bad scenarios go through my mind.

[Whispers01]

Never hit u up, but I'd say keep doing what works for u. I've heard some crazy requirements from some though but I keep it moving to the one I normally see. I have no clue how sending a pic makes the provider safe though, I just figured it's to see if your are black or not lol beats me but I send it