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Originally Posted by luv2rimgirlsdfw
Do providers view this as a fetish or just an odd request? Is it something that is always off limits or does a client need to clarify his desire to perform this to his provider before the session?
I enjoy giving it but am always remiss about bringing the topic to discussion. It's off limits at home so I usually relish the opportunity if it presents itself.
Feel free to PM if you don't want to share on the thread.
Thanks!!
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I realized I didn't directly address your questions in my earlier post so I will do so now.
DATO has become such a common request in modern times that I would imagine most experienced providers wouldn't consider it a fetish nor an odd request. When you feel a strong attraction towards a woman, you want to kiss every part of her, including her asshole. Most providers understand that. So don't worry that a provider will consider you a "weirdo" or even eclectic for expressing your desire for DATO.
The simple answer to your second question is yes, you should let the provider know before your scheduled session that you would like to perform DATO on her. This gives her the time to perform the appropriate cleaning rituals before meeting you and more importantly, gives her the opportunity to consider your request in advance and decide if she's comfortable with it or not. Far better than springing it on her during the session and making her feel guilty for saying NO to you. Also if she says NO to you in advance and you really want to do DATO, you can choose a different provider so you're happy too.
However, there are ways to know if a lady will be amenable to the idea of DATO even without asking her. One major resource are her reviews. Read her reviews, especially the activities and ROS sections. Does she allow other hobbyists to perform DATO on her? That's a huge clue right there. Send a PM to the hobbyist who wrote the review and ask him in case DATO isn't mentioned in the review. That's a great way of finding out.
For example, an ECCIE friend of mine (who I won't name in case he doesn't want the publicity) has met Secret Baby several times and loved every encounter he had with her. He highly recommends Secret Baby to anyone he interacts with on ECCIE. He loves her friendly personality, her IOP etc. but he especially loves her ass and sailing the Greek isles with her. One day, he poked Secret Baby's lovely curvy ass with his big nose. He poked so deep that the tip of his nose penetrated her asshole. He said all he smelled was the clean fragrance of soap..nothing else. That's how incredibly clean & hygienic Secret Baby is when meeting hobbyists. So now that you know this about Secret Baby, OP, you can feel comfortable doing DATO on Secret Baby even without advance notice because you know her ass will be super clean. That's the power of knowledge. The more research you do on a provider before meeting her, the more fun you will have during your session with her.