You should always tell the gentleman what your preferences are in an email before the date. We are all different and have different expectations. Communication is key! Communicate what you expect, where, how you want the donation handled. Many want it placed in the bathroom, some want it slapped right down on the table. This can be confusing for the fellas, with everyones preferences being different. It's up to the individual provider to enlighten the men, and it's up to the men to be gentlemen and follow the providers wishes.
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