I believe kind words on and off the boards towards myself and others are indeed a form of foreplay

Many of the threads here are enticing. Mentally and physically this sexually based discussion board is an outlet for stimulation and anticipation for us in the possibility of one day putting a face to the words and a touch to the feeling.
We have to look beyond the anger and the hate and see maybe making a mountain out of a mole hill creates more attention to the subject that was brought up but now erased.